Ask us anything part 3

[Fradi]

I have seen my ATF about 200 - 220 times over the years lost count a long time ago.
It is like investing in an ETF it just gets more valuable over time, for her too I guess lol.
The thing is even now I count the days when I am supposed to see her and look forward to it every time.
Just an amazing young lady, gorgeous and a total sweetheart she has made things so much better for me I am lucky to have her in my life.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

SPs: How many times or total hours have you seen your most loyal client?
Clients: How many times or total hours have you seen your ATF?

My most loyal client is a bit younger and doesn't have a lot of money. I've seen him about once a month for over 2 years, and always for half hours. Since I started being a SP, there are variations with my clientele every season or two. Some clients will come to see me every 2 weeks for a few months and then stop.. Some come back every few months but don't book super regularly. Some book me whenever they are in Montreal, which can be rare.

 

[Fradi]

Thank you for sharing. I know you have had an ATF for a long time which goes beyond just physical intimacy.
When you say "count the days when I am supposed to see her", does it mean you have a regular schedule / cadence?

No regular schedule, no calendar schedule or arrangement.
We make plans to see each other whenever it suits both our schedules which has never been a problem especially on my end seeing as I am retired.
Yes it goes beyond physical intimacy, we are friends and enjoy seeing each other and are able to separate the friend/client relationship and to respect what both are comfortable with.
Just a nice easy and fun relationship no commitments or arrangements kind of a win win for both.

 

[LC18]

Do you mean it when you say “I will definitely book you again” or are you trying to be polite?

In my experience, the men saying that never come back and those saying nothing, do come back.

 

[LC18]

How many times or total hours have you seen your most loyal client?

Maybe over 60 hours because all we do are overnight dates so that’s already 16 hours each time.

 

[Jaxan]

Do you mean it when you say “I will definitely book you again” or are you trying to be polite?

In my experience, the men saying that never come back and those saying nothing, do come back.

If I really want to see the person again, I will usually say something alongs the line of "Really hope I get the chance to see you again". And if I get a positive response, I would try to book them again. On the other hand, if I get a lukewarm reply, I may think she might not want to see me again, and I may not try again in the future.

If I don't intend to see the person again, I will usually end our meeting with something like "It was really nice to meet you" instead.

 

[Fradi]

Do you mean it when you say “I will definitely book you again” or are you trying to be polite?

In my experience, the men saying that never come back and those saying nothing, do come back.

If I say I will. Then I will.
I don’t talk for the sake of blowing wind.
People who don’t keep their word are not worth much.

 

[minutemenX]

What is the upper age limit for clients SPs are usually comfortable to see? Is there such a thing as specialization on older clients, say above 60? Is there any specific protocol for accommodating older clients?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

What is the upper age limit for clients SPs are usually comfortable to see? Is there such a thing as specialization on older clients, say above 60? Is there any specific protocol for accommodating older clients?

I don't have a maximum, only a minimum! Maybe because they stop contacting us eventually? Many of my clients are 65-75, and they are great :- )

A protocol? What do you have in mind?

 

[minutemenX]

I don't have a maximum, only a minimum! Maybe because they stop contacting us eventually? Many of my clients are 65-75, and they are great :- )

A protocol? What do you have in mind?

The protocol. An example. Do you need to know the client age in advance and not to be surprised, do you need to be informed of any mobility issues and health problems? Do you need to know if they are capable of the whole sexual activity spectrum including penetrative sex or want something specific? Do you advice clients to give all such details and discuss in advance during booking or can accommodate clients on a spot? Etc…

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I always ask the age when someone contacts me for the first time, to give me an idea of who I am going to meet, definitely.

But I don't ask for more details, no. Some people in their 30s don't want penetration, or some in their 40s have ED because of medication, and it's perfectly fine. Sex is not a choreography that I learnt by heart, it's a play time that is tailored to each person I see. Usually, they will tell me in person if they can come or not, if they have ED, but otherwise, I don't need to know in advance, I am always prepared to play in a way that will satisfy the person in front of me. But most older people I see are people like you and me, mobile people who can shower by themselves, who like to go out to the restaurant in good company and to have sex.

I must add that people with disabilities will tell you in advance of their use of a wheelchair or a cane just to make sure your space is adapted, or if it's the reason you have to go to them. Age here is unrelated.

 

[EagerBeaver]

some in their 40s have ED because of medication, and it's perfectly fine.

If you are on high blood pressure meds in your 40s, you are not a healthy man. However, I can verify from experience that they shut down erectile function, BIG TIME. Erectile function is all about blood flow to the penis, and when the pressure is high, the penis is hard. Those meds kill it. A lot of men refuse to take the high blood pressure pills because it kills erectile function and frankly it kills desire a little bit. When you see an attractive women, there is like no feeling or sensation down there. I am not ashamed to admit that I had to tell my SA regular lady that I went on those pills recently due to running high blood pressures, and that an intimate date was not very likely capable of happening. It kind of sucks to be honest, and part of me understands the men who refuse to take HBP pills and, resultantly, suffer heart attacks and stroke out. A beloved friend of mine suffered a fatal and massive heart attack at 52 a couple of years ago, and his family found the HBP pills in his medicine cabinet along with his cholesterol pills. Nobody knew he had been prescribed these meds, and I can only wonder if he was actually taking them. I know his diet was shit, and can only speculate on how conscientious he was on taking his meds.

I am actually considering going off them for like a week, having some sex, and then going back on them. Like a little vacation. I realize it's rolling the dice a little bit, but we are all going to die of something some day anyway, right?

So since I can ask anything, in this thread, how long will I need to cold turkey the HBP meds before my hard ons come back? Days, weeks? Anyone? PM me if you need to.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Go see your doctor.

So many medications can cause ED, not just high blood pressure ones. I am not here to judge.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Go see your doctor.

So many medications can cause ED, not just high blood pressure ones. I am not here to judge.

Those are the only ones I am taking since the change occurred. The change was pretty noticeable. It's not a difficult cause effect conclusion here. It's the only change in my medications since it started.

 

[minutemenX]

Those are the only ones I am taking since the change occurred. The change was pretty noticeable. It's not a difficult cause effect conclusion here. It's the only change in my medications since it started.

As I have been told by my doctor, it is not a very good idea to take brake in HP medication. Your body is used to it and the BP spike can be quite high if you take more than a couple of days off. There is a huge spectrum of BP medications nowadays. Some claim having no adverse effect on erections but you may be intolerant in some other ways (rush, swelling, etc.). You should work with your doctor on it and have also the second opinion from the BP specialist.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

What is the upper age limit for clients SPs are usually comfortable to see? Is there such a thing as specialization on older clients, say above 60? Is there any specific protocol for accommodating older clients?

There's no upper age limit for me, but there's a minimum which is 21. I often see clients above 60 and I haven't noticed a big difference in terms of how the booking goes. Some clients in their 20's have mobility issues and ED. It's something that is helpful to talk about during the booking process, but not a problem for me at all.

 

[EagerBeaver]

As I have been told by my doctor, it is not a very good idea to take brake in HP medication. Your body is used to it and the BP spike can be quite high if you take more than a couple of days off. There is a huge spectrum of BP medications nowadays. Some claim having no adverse effect on erections but you may be intolerant in some other ways (rush, swelling, etc.). You should work with your doctor on it and have also the second opinion from the BP specialist.

That is reasonable advice. The one they put me on is called carvedilol. It's a beta blocker, which causes the heart to beat more slowly. They had initially put me on another one, forget the name, and it was not working in lowering the BP.

 

[Nachoy]

Estimate what percentage of old clients cannot penetrate and what do they do for fun and pleasure?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Estimate what percentage of old clients cannot penetrate and what do they do for fun and pleasure?

Your definition of pleasure in sex is penetration?

 

[EagerBeaver]

Estimate what percentage of old clients cannot penetrate and what do they do for fun and pleasure?

Nachoy, even as a much younger man, I always preferred oral sex to intercourse. Either way you kind of need to get and sustain an erection. When you cannot sustain an erection, you are pretty much shit out of luck. All of you guys will eventually reach this point, assuming you actually stay alive and continue to age into your 60s, 70s, and 80s.