Ask us anything part 3
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I appreciate everyone’s curiosity but can we please remain on topic and ask questions industry related…
If you have to refuse a client after he's already undressed - say, you see something on his dick that's not quite right (ie. an infection)... how does that conversation usually go? I can't imagine it's anything but awkward, and I can see some guys might not take it too well. Service can't continue... but yet, payment should still be made...
Reading posts from a separate thread, I was curious about the decision to post face pics. I assume, the majority who decided against it, was for safety/personal life reasons. But for those who decided to post their face pics, how has it impacted your life positively/negatively in your professional and personal lives?
Everyone knows around me, so nothing is impacted on that side. I didn't want anyone to have power over me if they found out, it's the life I chose. Professionally, the impact is positive mostly. I feel that one of the improvements is being able to direct most of my energy toward in-person appointments rather than marketing.
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I've been face out since the beginning. It hasn't impacted my life because people know what I do. Also, I'm a creative type of person and my career path is not really impacted by me being a SW. If anything, people finding out about it might get me more business because people want to be supportive. Certain situations have happened that made me feel very uncomfortable, but I was vocal about it and made it clear that my boundaries are not to be crossed.
I do feel like I get more bookings than some people because I'm face out, and that's a huge advantage.
In my civi life, anyone who is close enough to me is told what I do. It takes the power out of others gossiping about what I do. It isn't some taboo secorite.
I don't travel, and don't have any desire to travel, so states isn't an issue for me.
Next in my civi professional life, I wear a mask to not be identified in public. Thanks to covid, it is perfectly acceptable to wear masks now.
And am face out in my ads lol...
.Partly because I think my face more attractive than my body, so if I want to entice someone's interest, it will be with something I feel more confident with.
I think my business would suffer if I was hidden face. There are a lot of hot providers to choose from, I think my face is something that sets me apart in it's own way. Though the providers I have met so far, seem to be beautiful people inside and out, despite whether they are face out or not.
I’m a private person in general and I don’t even use my real name in real life. Showing my face on my ads wouldn’t have made sense for me.
I don’t think it affects my marketing, I have a good following on Twitter. This allows me to share my personality through tweets and replies.
Isn’t that a waste of time in your part?
Why not just chat at while at incall/outcall location where it’s more private ?
It’s not a waste of time since she gets paid for social time!
I don't want to answer for Lena but an incall or outcall is for the gfe or pse service and that involves chatting and hanging out unless it's a very short booking.
Social time should be outside in a neutral environment in my opinion. Sometimes people book 2 or 3 hour incall dates and obviously a big part of the booking is talking.
They don't ask us to charge for social time for part of the booking that's indoors..
I've had ppl tell me "come to my hotel for 4 hours and I'll pay you 2 hours for social time and 2 hours gfe" lol.. it's not how it works. I sometimes make exceptions and adjustments if a meal and a refreshment are included. But spending such a long time in a room or incall space without an activity can be hard, and social time should not include any type of intimacy.
I would not see a client for free no matter the activity he’s offering.
I can offer discounts if it’s something I really really want to do but never for free.
I can offer discounts if it’s something I really really want to do but never for free.
Another good point is that a lot of clients actually only want social time. This is why I have a social rate personally, even if not all SP's have one. Really often clients will ask to meet you for free at a coffee shop or a park instead of screening lol. It's just not acceptable to ask for that in my opinion, even if I would understand if another SP did it. A couple weeks ago, a client booked me for 2-3 hours of social time at a bar. One of the goals was to see if we would be a good match in terms of intimacy and he wanted to discuss certain scenarios. It turns out he had needs that I couldn't fulfill, but we still had a lot of fun and great conversations. I've had clients book me just to go see a movie or to go to the restaurant before, because they enjoyed the companionship they knew I would provide.
Guessing the answer depends alot on the client (new or familiar), duration, and social activity. But in general, do you prefer bookings that are 100% social, 50/50 social/gfe, or 100% gfe? Also taking into consideration the difference in rates/income you will receive.
I don't have a social discount...
And just because a booking is private, doesn't instantly make it gfe. Gfe is an atmosphere of closeness, not a list of sexual acronyms. You can have sex and not have an ounce of closeness, but that is not gfe.
Just because I haven't done social time, doesn't mean I won't do it, but I need to know the person privately before I am willing to be out on public with them. (Yes I know how backwards that sounds.)
So my preference I guess is 100% gfe/and social privately behind closed doors. But would be up to being taken out by a regular.
From your point of view maybe. From the very beginning the usage of GFE implied a certain level of services. Only recently some providers have started to use it as to lure customers into booking them and from there they tried to redefine the meaning of it. We now see clients claiming that for them GFE is not about acronym neither, I don’t care about those simp, I call bs on their claim.
Personally I stick to the original meaning and will certainly ask a few questions before deciding to book a girl pretending to offer a GFE experience.
It depends on what you mean by this. A lot of SP's have a fixed rate for dinner dates, but I charge the dinner as social time personally, which might change in the future. When you say 100% gfe do you mean sexual activity the whole time.. because that rarely happens, and very often socializing is part of GFE. Personally, I do enjoy longer dates that involve social time. I like getting to know clients. I do enjoy social dates. The reason I'm saying this isn't because I don't like the intimacy, I do, and I take that aspect very seriously, but what I like the most about being an escort is getting to know new people and spending time with them. Obviously I like getting any type of booking.
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