Ask us anything part 3
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To SPs:
Do you like the variety of men you see?
Is there a certain type you tend to like more than others?
Do you like the variety of men you see?
Is there a certain type you tend to like more than others?
There are certain types of clients I like better than others. I prefer clients who I have good conversations with instead of those who only focus on trying to get as much sexual satisfaction as possible. I like clients I have things in common with and people who can talk to me about things I don't know anything about. It doesn't really have anything to do with what they look like.
1- I had friends and acquaintances who were in the business. I knew how big the industry was but I had a lot of misconceptions.
2- Honestly, a lot of people told me I wasn't cut out for it and I had considered online work but I was told it wasn't lucrative anymore. I joined the industry on impulse.
3- I had help from a few people but it took me a while to find my own way of doing this and staying safe
I like when people follow me because it gives me visibility. I do like gifts and tips... expecting them may be a strong word but sometimes I feel like clients expect me to interact with them for free and they constantly comment things on my posts that feel kinda invasive.. in that case yeah it's appreciated when I receive gifts
Ah. Thanks. Kind of thought of that. Like follow, have some interaction, buy some gifts here and there without necessarily meeting.
I had the weirdest interaction on blue the other day. Ending up following someone and they demand a gift for the privilege of following and a bunch of weird follow up questions and saying how disrespectful I was bla bla bla... She gave me my 1st block on blue lol *cries*
That’s odd indeed. I don’t ask for anything on Twitter but I still receive gift cards. I no longer have a public wishlist but when I had one I would receive some gifts off of it.
If I ask for something it’s because I’m planning on sending photos in return
I only follow one person on social media ( On X) and it isn’t that I hang on her every word but look in on her from time to time, I find her funny and interesting and someone who appreciates her clients and is not into client bashing although she does sometimes call out some lunatics.
No I would not give her gifts for simply reading her comments or even interacting with her on social media she is doing that for advertising so I don’t see a need to reward her for that. It serves it’s purpose.
That however becomes different when I see her as a client then I think I am pretty generous and show her that I appreciate her kindness and friendship.
She gave me her wishlist but were just items, no tips. I was like wait a minute, I just follow you because you were on someone's feed and your posts were interesting *cries*
Anyway, feels like I got singled out or maybe not. She also made a couple of posts about it without naming names but seriously *cries*
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Paypigs are an actual thing whether you can relate to it or not. It's kinda funny to see vanilla ppl try and rationalize things.
I guess it’s “ok” if the person has been following you for a while but if they just followed you it’s weird
I don't really understand what you mean by client bashing.... It's okay to say when someone is acting in a way that's not respectful. Also, I didn''t say people HAVE to give me "rewards"... but I put so much effort into advertising that sometimes a gift is appreciated. That's all. And obviously if you are generous to her as a client this is much different than someone who's actually never booked you and never will.. I interpreted the initial question that way.
I think it's fine for people to ask for wishlists and tips. Sending a specific client who isn't bothering you a wishlist is strange however.. For sure.
It’s been normalized I believe. Sometimes I read tweets that make me raise my eyebrows.
There used to be a thing on Twitter called “circle” you could tweet to a group of people you had chosen. Call it a private circle if you will, I think some of those SPs forgot that it no longer exists because the way they tweet is not a good look marketing wise.
“Reply guys should get a life or pay me” is not exactly how you inspire people to spoil you but what do I know?
That's also kinda true, because reply guys do give visibility. My issue is when I feel like my boundaries are crossed.
There's findom but like it is such a niche kink that you have to say it somewhere on your profile or in a pinned post so people who are not into it don't follow you and then wonder what's going on when they get call out for not spoiling
I guess some people are expecting all their work to be paid which includes marketing and interaction on SM. Time is money is the mantra?
Yeah, I guess? But personally that's one of the reasons why I charge higher than agency rates. A portion of my fee I consider to be compensation for the admin work I did leading up to the booking (ads, emails, interactions etc) and it works for me.
We always have the option of ignoring messages than don't interest us, too.
I feel like most findom profiles would have “Goddess” “princess” “queen” or something along those lines as a display name. That’s how I know not to interact with those profiles.
I don’t want the algorithm to show me those profiles that have nothing to do with my job, it serves me no purpose
I think I didn’t make it clear and it is normal you misunderstood, my comments were not directed or had anything to do with you.
I don’t really concern myself with what other people do they can do as they like.
I meant I follow her because she is not into constant client bashing and complaining about clients, that part had nothing to do with gifts.
Some ladies think it is quite ok to non stop complain and bitch about their client basically about anything and everything. These ladies I wouldn’t go near and avoid them like the plague and certainly wouldn’t follow them, but you inadvertently come across them when reading someone who you are following.
It wasn’t about complaining about not getting gifts because someone follows you on Twitter.
I kind of find it strange for ladies to expect gifts simply because someone follows you on Twitter and reads your tweets.
Why would I be giving gifts to someone that I have never met and have no intention of meeting.
I won’t follow someone I have no intention of meeting either.
Gifts and tips when you actually see someone that is a whole different thing and I find that natural and it actually feels as good to give as to receive when you enjoy being with someone.
Twitter is a strange place I have never posted anything other than replying to the lady I am following and seeing occasionally yet I have over 90 followers all being women with the exception of one.
I didn’t have to guess why, when I looked it didn’t surprise me that they all wanted to sell me something mostly nudes lol.
Question for the ladies about precum. How often to guys have it? I get it, a lot! It is sometimes embarrassing and have been asked it I already came. Some do not seem to mind at all, some recoil in disgust which kills the mood. How "normal" is it?
