We agreed not to talk about last night... boundaries, boundaries....
Ask us anything part 3
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There’s ad of a SP that allows it but has to be the last client of the day. I suppose that is when the make up and hair and cum can be washed off.
His/her argument is not wrong in that it doesn't violate any rules and considering the graphic details people share, not anything new either.
The spirit in which the questions are asked can be off putting to some. Although I suspect you're asking these things tongue and cheek, and in a humoristic intent.
Not sure how any answers here would actually benefit you. Everyone is different.
Sounds like you need to over come your fears. Your question would be best served with the actual person you're meeting.
Use your brain. You've already answered your own question. Also some SP's don't allow COF at all. Some don't like it.
It doesn't violate rules and yes people share graphic details but the vast majority of SP's aren't huge fans of having graphic details shared in reviews. I don't totally understand who these answers are benefiting either. A lot of clients who interact in these threads don't even book indy's. I would say that personally I prefer it when somebody asks if I am okay with something during the booking process. It's also generally not that hard to decypher what a specific SP's style is, and what they allow and don't allow, that's why we have acronyms like GFE and PSE.
I’m not asking for any graphic details and It doesn’t get me off
Looking for a response like “I prefer nothing anal” and leave it that.
Will you lose clients ? Maybe. But maybe you gain clients who respect your boundaries and prefer to stay safe sexually with a SP who is on the same page as them
Looking for a response like “I prefer nothing anal” and leave it that.
Will you lose clients ? Maybe. But maybe you gain clients who respect your boundaries and prefer to stay safe sexually with a SP who is on the same page as them
Dude clients already know our boundaries, they are stated in our ads, and they are allowed to ask us. Also, it's just the way you ask questions and how you formulate them that is rubbing people the wrong way. Your question wasn't : ''do some SP's not allow x for y reason'' it was ''where do you prefer your client to cum''.
Me: I don't do anal. I allow cof and cob and cim. Do I have a preference? No. Will stating this here get me clients? Maybe, but it's already in my ad, and people already ask during the booking process. Also, no matter how often I say that I don't do anal, I still get asked for it by guys who found me on this forum. And even if I offer cof, cob and cim, believe it or not, people rarely ask for it, or it isn't why people booked me to begin with.
I fully agree with you and it is outright shocking. In my opinion we are witnessing not only predatory behavior in prose but even more disturbingly what our ladies face more often than enough in their everyday encounters and screening.
By the way a sign of predatory behavior is ALWAYS having an argument or response for EVERYTHING and not realizing the path we are on.
As a SP (and as a woman over the age of 25 years old) I'm well aware of predatory behavior and manipulation tactics and they are shared as ''secrets'' as if we aren't aware of them. Having my intelligence insulted on a regular basis gets old but at least I know I'm not stupid and anyone who thinks I am lacks insight in my opinion.
The same thing applies to most SP's, because you constantly have to outsmart people and reinvent yourself in this industry.
Not necessarily predatory, more just being a smartass... if anyone should know, that'd be me...
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