At least now you understand why it's a mistake and I'm sure you actually meant it!
Ask us anything part 3
- Thread starter LC18
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My question is.. for those of you who spend a lot of time on this forum, aside from providers.. what are your motivations for being so present in this digital space?
Do "passing the time" and "alternative entertainment" count as motivations?
some reasons:
- possibility to discuss sex related topics in a semi anonymous way (more anonymous than my facebook where I have my aunts and nephews watching --- less anonymous than X or bluesky where I have bots and scammers)
- same as above but for news, politics, international travel,
- see who (or what) is new in the industry
- see who is available, promos
- read about crazy stuff
- read reviews if I am interested in meeting someone
- research about places I don't know about or don't frequent, like specific massage parlors or strip clubs
- boredom
I’ve been away for 20 years as I was married and loyal. For me it’s learning which sp are available there reviews which understand that each experience is different. Before I meet my first sp 3 weeks ago I tried 3 times to go see sp on Leo and it was a bait and switch situation each time. I like merb because I feel better informed and know better. Now I’m looking for my 2 experience
Ça fait déjà plusieurs années......j'aime ce partage avec cette communauté anonyme....elle permet la libre expression mesurée.....étant un gros fan de sports et de politique j'aime bien échanger avec ceux/celles qui ont les mêmes passions....on développe
une forme de collégialité avec qui il fait bon échanger.....sinon je me sentirais pas mal seul.....oui j'ai des gens autour de moi MAIS on ne partage pas nécessairement les mêmes intérêts.....alors MERB devient un exécutoire.....et un loisir agréable.....même exigeant.....
...et j'aime aussi beaucoup les selfies.....lol.......bref pour moi MERB est un outil de communication privilégié et fort apprécié.
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In my case, "Explain your lack of motivation for doing something else" would be a better way to ask this question... I have no doubt this applies to other regulars as well...
Yes absolutely
I feel this lol. That's why I watch a lot of travel videos and weird reels on instagram
Why would rain make a difference, unless you own a convertible and the top won’t close anymore or it is an out door pic nic you have scheduled and have your heart set on that scenario.
Snow and freezing rain however can be very tricky. I did reschedule once for the next day as there was a huge snowstorm and it was really too dangerous.
I have been driving all my life since I was 16, it is like second nature and I am used to driving in snow and freezing rain so if I can’t manage it then chances are neither can a taxi or uber, if metro and walking is an option then I would do that, but cancelling because of rain makes zero sense.
Fradi- That post can only be meant to shame a client she knows or suspects is reading the thread. But honestly it just sounds like the proffered excuse for cancelling based on another, undisclosed reason.
Boredom.
There is just so much sports you can watch and activities to do.
When you are retired and everyday is a vacation and your friends family are working sometimes you need a distraction.
You just need to make sure you don’t take any of this stuff too seriously, just another form of entertainment and if you are lucky like I have been then you get to meet a few amazingly fabulous and gorgeous young ladies.
Yep I agree, however a client like that should be ashamed if anything it shows he has zero imagination lol.
Btw it would have to be a catagory 4 or 5 hurricane that would stop me from seeing Julia, she is an amazing young lady, the guy has no idea what he missed out on.
The Apocalypse would not prevent me from hanging out with Julia
I don't know how long you and I would survive but I'm very much willing to spend the apocalypse with you hahaha
Unless it’s some kind of heavy rain that fills up the overpass’ (like we see in the news) i don’t see why i would cancel ?? The equation is simple ... pluie = temps de cul et j’ai du temps et vous, tout un cul ! So the date is still on.
Mostly for shit and giggles these days but from time to time to have a discussion about a topic regarding this industry or to get information about a specific provider.
Having said that, I’ve been taking more and more breaks lately and see myself leaving this board eventually.
Having said that, I’ve been taking more and more breaks lately and see myself leaving this board eventually.
Hi, although I don’t spend a lot of time here, your question stimulated some reflection. Since I started seeing SPs I have been really curious about their work and experiences. Partially this curiosity could be described as ethnographic, in that I want to know more about this world which is new to me. I think it’s also a way to better understand where the women I’ve met are coming from so that my encounters with them go better. The more I know about what sex work is like, the less likely I am to misstep.
Cette rencontre est précieuse et j'y accordes toute son importance. Je me prépare physiquement, je m'assure que je n'ai pas de poils sur les oreilles . Je choisis mes vêtements, je pense à cette magnifique personne avec qui j'ai rendez-vous. Je vais être présent peut importe la météo et je serai probablement tout près du lieu de rencontre bien avant l'heure planifiée.
J'espère jusqu'à la dernière minute qu'un imprévus ne viendra pas annuler notre rencontre.
C'est personnel à chacun, mais je chéri ce moment.
