Ask us anything part 3

[LC18]

Clients, does this make you look at women* differently?

SPs, does this make you look at men* differently?

Meaning, are you turned off more easily than before?


*if you’re not straight feel free to answer with a different gender

 

[Nachoy]

How often do you cold call?
Or call up clients you haven’t seen for a while?
How often you try calling your favorite clients before you give up

 

[Johnny test]

Clients, does this make you look at women* differently?

SPs, does this make you look at men* differently?

Meaning, are you turned off more easily than before?


*if you’re not straight feel free to answer with a different gender

Not exactly sure i understand the question, does the fact that we meet sex workers makes a look differently at women? in wich way?

 

[Julia Sky]

How often do you cold call?
Or call up clients you haven’t seen for a while?
How often you try calling your favorite clients before you give up

I never call anyone and very rarely text - only a handful of regulars where we've already established that I could text them anytime. And never to ask for a booking, as that would be tacky imo.

I actually texted one upon waking up today because he was in my dreams and I had to tell him lol.

 

[Courvoysier777]

How often do you receive text messages about random stuff or things you talked about from clients after you seen them?

 

[Fradi]

Why do some SP's play music in the background? I mean don't get me wrong, I understand they all have they're preferences and that's fine, but why? Curious to know all your experiences

Subtle way of keeping time without looking like a time watcher.
Or just simply they like listening to music while having sex, sometimes both.
When NA NA NA NA kicks in time for you to hit the shower and leave.

 

[Fradi]

I actually texted one upon waking up today because he was in my dreams and I had to tell him lol.

My phone must be broken?

 

[Tier1Punisher]

Interested in your opinion on the following...

A previously (no longer in the industry) very well-known and very well-reviewed (on MERB) SP breaching the “code of discretion" by:
- Stalking a client’s social media under a false identity.
- Obtaining information about his relationship through his social media.
- Contacting his girlfriend and lying about the timeframe during which he was a client.
- Proceeds to mock the client via texts…knowing that the relationship didn’t survive her interference.

Thoughts?

 

[DouMan]

Interested in your opinion on the following...

A previously very well-known and very well-reviewed SP breaching the “code of discretion" by:
- Stalking a client’s social media under a false identity.
- Obtaining information about his relationship through his social media.
- Contacting his girlfriend and lying about the timeframe during which he was a client.
- Proceeds to mock the client via texts…knowing that the relationship didn’t survive her interference.

Would the client be justified in “outing” her on a review board such as MERB?

Asking for a friend...

If he has proof of such your "friend" could simply go to the police and have them judge the validity of such a complaint.
Otherwise anyone could start posting anyone's name about anything, be it true or false, for whatever reason.

We often see this between kids at school posting anything and in that example we call that "bullying". Adults are supposed to be more intelligent.

 

[talkinghead]

Interested in your opinion on the following...

A previously very well-known and very well-reviewed SP breaching the “code of discretion" by:
- Stalking a client’s social media under a false identity.
- Obtaining information about his relationship through his social media.
- Contacting his girlfriend and lying about the timeframe during which he was a client.
- Proceeds to mock the client via texts…knowing that the relationship didn’t survive her interference.

Would the client be justified in “outing” her on a review board such as MERB?

Asking for a friend...

Just the thought gives me the willies. There's so much at stake, not only for the client but the SP and indeed the SP community. I agree with @DouMan that it's probably not a good idea to make accusations out here; they would be necessarily anonymous on your "friend's" part and result in an ugly kerfuffle. On the other hand, we're talking about the client's life (job, relationships, family, etc.). I'm curious what "previously" means; is she out of the business? I also wonder how she advertises. In the past, the women on Indy Companion had a kind of back channel way of communicating. Maybe it would be possible to get word to them?? (I have no idea.) It is very strongly in their interest not to have anyone in their "collective" pulling that nonsense. If the SP is entirely independent (and doesn't advertise on MERB, Indy Companions, or Tryst, eg), then I don't see what can be done .... but in my book it's a reason only to go with established SPs or agencies. These days I'm very reluctant to give up my personal information.

::shudders::

 

[Fradi]

I doubt Merb would allow your “friend” to make accusations without explicit proof which is almost impossible to do.
Makes you wonder what the “friend did to this SP to warrant her taking a chance to have her reputation destroyed.

While for sure there maybe crazies amongst SP just like with clients I doubt having a public outing and argument on Merb is going to change anything even if everything is true.
SP change their name all the time, and clients regularly think with their dicks.

 

[talkinghead]

Makes you wonder what the “friend did to this SP to warrant her taking a chance to have her reputation destroyed.

While for sure there maybe crazies amongst SP just like with clients ....

I haven't seen anything too dark on MERB but years ago I spent a fair amount of time in Las Vegas and on the LV TER and other regional forums ... and I saw a couple star SPs seriously flame out publicly and make a big mess along the way. I know that substance abuse played a part in one of their dramatic demises and banishments from the boards.