Ask us anything part 3

[Jebmtl]

I’ve been away for 20 years and now I would love to meet a sp but I have no references how can I solve this problem?

 

[LC18]

I’ve been away for 20 years and now I would love to meet a sp but I have no references how can I solve this problem?

What problem? You’d like us to help you find preferences or you’d like us to help you meet someone?

 

[themonk83]

I’ve been away for 20 years and now I would love to meet a sp but I have no references how can I solve this problem?

The screening process?

 

[Jebmtl]

What problem? You’d like us to help you find preferences or you’d like us to help you meet someone?

I’m trying to meet a sp but she would like references

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I’ve been away for 20 years and now I would love to meet a sp but I have no references how can I solve this problem?

Indies all have their own method for screening, and they don't always require a reference; some offer to screen with a deposit, or and ID even. It's usually written on their website, take your time to read it. My advice is to contact those who have a screening method you can provide and are comfortable with. Otherwise, I don't think agencies ask for references so it could be your solution.

 

[Jebmtl]

The screening process?

I completely understand your safety comes first

 

[Jebmtl]

Indies all have their own method for screening, and it doens't always require a reference; you can screen with a deposit, or and ID even. It's usually written on their website, take your time to read it. Otherwise, I don't think agencies ask for references so it could be your solution.

I did offer a deposit but an id is a lot of information and with the world today you don’t know who to trust

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I did offer a deposit but an id is a lot of information and with the world to you don’t know who to trust

I edited my post after but here's what I added: my advice is to only contact those who have a screening method you can provide and are comfortable with.

 

[themonk83]

If you can't or won't provide an ID, then she isn't for you until you get those references

 

[LC18]

Oh REFERENCES and not PREFERENCES

That’s awkward. I’ll shut up

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

That’s awkward. I’ll shut up

Or have another coffee!

 

[EagerBeaver]

Or have another coffee!

Careful on this advice. I drank a little too much coffee this morning at the resort I am staying at (I am on vacation) and am now suffering from acid reflux. I just took 4 Tums before I read your post, ironically.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Careful on this advice. I drank a little too much coffee this morning at the resort I am staying at (I am on vacation) and am now suffering from acid reflux. I just took 4 Tums before I read your post, ironically.

Oh no!

 

[Enjoying life]

Mostly for shit and giggles these days but from time to time to have a discussion about a topic regarding this industry or to get information about a specific provider.

Having said that, I’ve been taking more and more breaks lately and see myself leaving this board eventually.

Great

 

[LC18]

Why do too many men think kissing someone means to push your tongue as far as possible in their mouth? Who told you it was fun? I promise I won’t beat them up

 

[Mistertwice]

Why do too many men think kissing someone means to push your tongue as far as possible in their mouth? Who told you it was fun? I promise I won’t beat them up

Is it the same for DATY ? I had an ex GF who trained me to keep my tongue soft. I guess it is cultural...

 

[LC18]

Is it the same for DATY ? I had an ex GF who trained me to keep my tongue soft. I guess it is cultural...

Also not fun or comfortable for DATY

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Also not fun or comfortable for DATY

Speak for yourself, nobody is the same.

 

[LC18]

Speak for yourself, nobody is the same.

Just like I guess some people love to have someone’s tongue shoved deep in their mouth…yes I fucking speak for myself like I always do

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Question for clients who browse the forum frequently : what makes you watch specific provider's review threads if you don't book them or don't intend to do so?
I'm just curious