Toys should always be new (in the box). Maybe someone doesn't mind to use one with a condom on it; they should be properly disinfected.
Ask us anything part 3
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Honestly here are my 2 cents.. maybe if a provider offers Greek/PSE, but I can't guarantee the person will accept.. Many of us already have our own toys as well and I think some SP would not feel comfortable with you bringing a personal toy that's not in the box for hygiene reasons...
As for a butt plug.. I've used them on occasion with clients but it's rare and it was with regular clients sometimes who didn't book me for a long period of time. I use the smallest size. It's really not my favorite thing. If a client who read my ad asked to use their own butt plug on me I'd say no, definitely.
It doesn't hurt to ask but if it's a deal breaker if she says no I would not waste her time..
Yeah I do not push restrictions so would only think of something like a plug with a girl who gets down with the brown so to speak and who's offering. I'll just forget about it as it's too much of a hassle to buy one for every girl I see who's offering. My thumb or face will have to do.
I would ask the provider about bringing toys.
Bringing your own toys might not result in your toys being used on them, but on you
Many who are down for using toys, have their own toys, and for some it is concidered an extra to include toy play, or for them to bring their toy bag. (It takes time to properly care for toys after play.)
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I like when clients ask if they can bring something. I drive, so alcohol is not on my short list of drinks. Often I just ask for water.
One of my favorite people to visit, whether he has cum or not, by like 30 minutes in always reserves the second half of our time for "coffee time". (I keep a container of hot chocolate mix in my vehicle for when I go see him, because I use hotchocolate instead of sugar in my coffee.)
Drinking is for either when I go out to the clubs (2 times a year), at home when I am unavailable to work (but still rarely do), or mainly when I go to the campground. (They must think me an alcoholic there, my happy place there, is a smirnoff ice in 1 hand, and a tool of some sort in the other. While I get to work on a project that people turn to professionals for, while I figure shit out myself. DIY style.)
I would be tickled pink if I was given flowers.
I've had long term relationships that I was lucky to get a flower by year 3. It is such a sweet gesture. I was given a bouquet of fake flowers once from a precious client. I still have it in my room at home.
Well thank you, I'll start bringing them when I feel like it.I would be tickled pink if I was given flowers.
I was given a bouquet of fake flowers once from a precious client. I still have it in my room at home.
I order online to avoid the draw to areas I can't afford to be drawn to. It is easier to stick to the basics, but I don't think the flowers are an online item.
Hehehe down with the brown...
A lot of girls have a plug of their own. You can ask if they have one
Go on amazon at 5 bucks a plug you can buy as many as you want.
I would never use those cheap toys. I wouldn't put my livelihood at risk!
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Plus, I wouldn't want the cheap toy to break in half in my butthole...
I agree when I have bought toys mostly glass easily cleaned in boiling water. But I was thinking of a one time use product use it and throw it away. You could even put a condom on it.
Where is the thread about online privacy? I now have in my feed Sephora's ad about sex toys. Yes Sephora ...
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Tout d’abord un peu de contexte. J’ai grandi dans un environnement où je n’ai pas développé de saines limites. Aujourd’hui je réalise que j’ai besoin d’en développer afin de vivre des relations plus épanouies et je travaille activement sur moi dans ce sens.
Ça m’a pris quelques jours, mais j’ai lu l’ensemble des threads "Ask us anything". (oui, je suis très curieux de nature et j’ai beaucoup de temps libres). Je tiens d’abord à féliciter toutes celles qui répondent généreusement aux questions. J’ai remarqué à quelques occasions que certaines d’entre vous ont répondues avec fermeté et un doigté impressionnant à des questions inappropriées. Des réponses qui sans être méchantes, ni agressantes envers l’auteur étaient tout de même claires sur les limites à ne pas franchir.
Donc ma question est comment avez-vous développé cette capacité à exprimer vos limites avec autant de classe? Je suis preneur de tout conseil qui peut potentiellement m’aider dans mon cheminement.
Un talent naturel? Du travail sur vous avec des lectures ou des professionnels? Par obligation parce qu’il existe trop de morons? (Si c’est suite à des expériences traumatisantes, je suis désolé que ça vous soit arrivé, mon intention n’est pas de vous les faire revivre / passez à la prochaine question.)
Tout d’abord un peu de contexte. J’ai grandi dans un environnement où je n’ai pas développé de saines limites. Aujourd’hui je réalise que j’ai besoin d’en développer afin de vivre des relations plus épanouies et je travaille activement sur moi dans ce sens.
Ça m’a pris quelques jours, mais j’ai lu l’ensemble des threads "Ask us anything". (oui, je suis très curieux de nature et j’ai beaucoup de temps libres). Je tiens d’abord à féliciter toutes celles qui répondent généreusement aux questions. J’ai remarqué à quelques occasions que certaines d’entre vous ont répondues avec fermeté et un doigté impressionnant à des questions inappropriées. Des réponses qui sans être méchantes, ni agressantes envers l’auteur étaient tout de même claires sur les limites à ne pas franchir.
Donc ma question est comment avez-vous développé cette capacité à exprimer vos limites avec autant de classe? Je suis preneur de tout conseil qui peut potentiellement m’aider dans mon cheminement.
Un talent naturel? Du travail sur vous avec des lectures ou des professionnels? Par obligation parce qu’il existe trop de morons? (Si c’est suite à des expériences traumatisantes, je suis désolé que ça vous soit arrivé, mon intention n’est pas de vous les faire revivre / passez à la prochaine question.)
