Ask us anything part 3

[Rebaynia]

I have a question but I'm going to go in French, I feel lazy tonight trying to translate this...

That's fine, I translated it for myself. Ahh technology.

Do you think girls have to reframe some clients for whom the GFE goes to the head?

Yes

Customers who become a little too in love, even become stalkers etc.
How do you do it?

I can't speak for others, as I have my responce in my advertising. I shamelessly hide behind my relationship. I have lovelies who profess their love, but they are always informed, while I may have affection for them, my love and heart belongs to my Master, and unfortunately for them, that is a quality I need in my personal relationship, I have had vanilla relationships, and it doesn't work for me. But I do also appreciate what I have with them.

If they make me uncomfortable to continue seeing them, some I have had to let go. Others begrudgingly, accept the answer with a, "he's a lucky man."

And when in the SP/Customer relationship will you reframe?

Depends on how they proceed. I have friendships with some of them. If it has been a while they might reach out to say hi, and they are looking forward to seeing me again soon when they can. great!

But the ones who try to message every day and it feels like they are trying to really treat it as a relationship, I get exhausted with the social demand, I already have a bf I have these conversations with daily already. Especially when they start asking about personal details of my business. It is not their business to know. They often start showing these behaviors early on, so it is ended pretty quickly.

 

[LeDodo]

How peers' review/recommendation is objective?

If you don't recommend him then will that explicitly gives him the cue that he is not welcomed anymore? But I guess and hope it's rare as a situation...

 

[LC18]

What should I do if I need advice on how to deal with a situation with a reputable lady, but want to avoid creating a public post about it out of respect for her (even if she's not named I wouldn't want her situation to be exposed) ? How would you like that such a situation be dealt with by the ["your"] client?

Act like a grown man, message her

 

[MtlGuyNow]

Have you ever been interrupted by someone knocking at the door like a delivery, fire safety visit, etc? If yes what did you do?

During my first experience in Montreal the window washer in his basket swung by and pretended not to watch. I guess my companion was used to it.

 

[LC18]

[Clients]

I want my current clients to feel special and valued. What can I do?

 

[Alucard87]

[Clients]

I want my current clients to feel special and valued. What can I do?

Personally? I'd settle just for being nice and satisfying, leaving the chance for a return visit or ten. I don't need presents or something

 

[LeDodo]

[Clients]

I want my current clients to feel special and valued. What can I do?

For me it would be to remember or bring up discussions you had. Or mentioning that the other day for some reason you thought of him (e.g. he likes a singer and he/she is in town for a concert).

For my friends, I remember what they like and I will be able to relate to their likings when I see or hear something.

 

[LC18]

For me it would be to remember or bring up discussions you had.

I’ve noticed that, I remember being with a man and I told him something he told me the last time we were together and he seemed very surprised. Are people under the impression that we don’t listen to them?

 

[LeDodo]

I’ve noticed that, I remember being with a man and I told him something he told me the last time we were together and he seemed very surprised. Are people under the impression that we don’t listen to them?

Then you get what it takes to make someone feel special and valued/cared

Sometimes I say things that I don't remember but somehow the person remember because it marked in their mind.

 

[mtremblay]

[Clients]

I want my current clients to feel special and valued. What can I do?

Fidelity card! After 10 sessions, get the 2nd hour at a discount price or a complimentary extra on the next one.

More seriously, if you have returning customers, you already doing something right. Do you know why they are coming back? Put your energy on what matters with the loyal clients you like.

 

[CuriousGent]

I’ve noticed that, I remember being with a man and I told him something he told me the last time we were together and he seemed very surprised. Are people under the impression that we don’t listen to them?

most people don't listen or rarely pay attention, especially when they don't think they are going to see that person again. Most will forget the name of someone they meet randomly at a party or event because they don't expect to see them again, but will make a conscious effort to remember a coworker or client they meet the first time

 

[LC18]

Do you know why they are coming back?

Because they’re hoping I’ll bake them donuts and muffins

 

[LeDodo]

most people don't listen or rarely pay attention, especially when they don't think they are going to see that person again. Most will forget the name of someone they meet randomly at a party or event because they don't expect to see them again, but will make a conscious effort to remember a coworker or client they meet the first time

Actually one of the question I had although I think it really depends of the person, is to what extent do you remember your clients or their stories or information?
I would assume seeing them regularly helps the brain keep information.

 

[LeDodo]

Because they’re hoping I’ll bake them donuts and muffins

@LC18 be like:

 

[LeDodo]

How peers' review/recommendation is objective?

If you don't recommend him then will that explicitly gives him the cue that he is not welcomed anymore? But I guess and hope it's rare as a situation...

A bit following up on the providers' referral question, did it happen that by giving a MERB handle you don't like the client's comment and refuse?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

A bit following up on the providers' referral question, did it happen that by giving a MERB handle you don't like the client's comment and refuse?

What I can say is that we don't see all the clients who contact us, sometimes we even decide to not repeat with a client who wants to see us for a second session, and the reasons why will remain unknown. Or she will tell you if she's inclined to, but that's up to the provider you are contacting.

 

[LeDodo]

What I can say is that we don't see all the clients who contact us, sometimes we even decide to not repeat with a client who wants to see us for a second session, and the reasons why will remain unknown. Or she will tell you if she's inclined to, but that's up to the provider you are contacting.

Then it should be wiser to not insist if a client doesn't get feedback or is not able to get a meeting?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Then it should be wiser to not insist if a client doesn't get feedback or is not able to get a meeting?

It's rarely good to insist, in general.

 

[DouMan]

It's rarely good to insist, in general.

Not to say totally immature

 

[LeDodo]

I am assuming and I hope you receive lot of compliments about yourself (physically, intelligence, emotions, etc.). How do you deal with that?
You flip your hair? Of course I'm gorgeous
You are not so sensitive anymore?
You always take them as if it's the first time you're being told?