Ask us anything part 3

[Julia Sky]

Couple pounds down, you compliment. Couple pounds up, shut your mouth it's just more to grab. Or a better sit on my face experience

I personally think compliments about weight loss aren't great either. Hear me out :

Some people lose weight due to illness, depression, etc. It sucks to get complimented on being sick. Some people actively want to gain weight but instead they lose it and the compliment could hurt their esteem, too, in this context. So many variations of why it's not great to compliment someone's weight.

I lost weight when I was younger because I ate one or two meals max per week for several months due to eating disorder - people congratulating me on the weight loss at the time were essentially saying "congrats on mistreating your body and having poor mental health".

Im back in the gym recently, and if I lose weight I hope people will congratulate me on being back in the gym (because Ive been saying I wanted to for a while) and doing something that makes me feel good, but not on the weight loss itself. I don't like compliments about weight in any context. They're weird and you never know how someone feels about their weight or how they got there in the first place!

 

[jeffmathers]

I personally think compliments about weight loss aren't great either. Hear me out :

Some people lose weight due to illness, depression, etc. It sucks to get complimented on being sick. Some people actively want to gain weight but instead they lose it and the compliment could hurt their esteem, too, in this context. So many variations of why it's not great to compliment someone's weight.

I lost weight when I was younger because I ate one or two meals max per week for several months due to eating disorder - people congratulating me on the weight loss at the time were essentially saying "congrats on mistreating your body and having poor mental health".

Im back in the gym recently, and if I lose weight I hope people will congratulate me on being back in the gym (because Ive been saying I wanted to for a while) and doing something that makes me feel good, but not on the weight loss itself. I don't like compliments about weight in any context. They're weird and you never know how someone feels about their weight or how they got there in the first place!

I wish this was taught in school. I didn't learn about this until my early 20s (Maybe late teens after high school)

 

[jeffmathers]

I was asked "Are you sure you want to apply this reaction?" When liking a post in Julia Sky's advertising thread. Of course that was my intention.

 

[philonius]

Here's a question for SPs that's probably lost in the last 130 pages here I don't want to read through: Do you have a preference regarding cut/uncut?

I imagine most will say IDC as long as it's clean but I mean like, all things being equal, a personal preference. Do you enjoy one more than the other?

 

[LC18]

Here's a question for SPs that's probably lost in the last 130 pages here I don't want to read through: Do you have a preference regarding cut/uncut?

I imagine most will say IDC as long as it's clean but I mean like, all things being equal, a personal preference. Do you enjoy one more than the other?

I do have a preference. Won’t say which it is.

 

[Julia Sky]

Here's a question for SPs that's probably lost in the last 130 pages here I don't want to read through: Do you have a preference regarding cut/uncut?

I imagine most will say IDC as long as it's clean but I mean like, all things being equal, a personal preference. Do you enjoy one more than the other?

Depends on the activity, and also on the person's hygiene and their specific anatomy. It's not as simple as "I prefer this"

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I personally think compliments about weight loss aren't great either. Hear me out :

Some people lose weight due to illness, depression, etc. It sucks to get complimented on being sick. Some people actively want to gain weight but instead they lose it and the compliment could hurt their esteem, too, in this context. So many variations of why it's not great to compliment someone's weight.

I lost weight when I was younger because I ate one or two meals max per week for several months due to eating disorder - people congratulating me on the weight loss at the time were essentially saying "congrats on mistreating your body and having poor mental health".

Im back in the gym recently, and if I lose weight I hope people will congratulate me on being back in the gym (because Ive been saying I wanted to for a while) and doing something that makes me feel good, but not on the weight loss itself. I don't like compliments about weight in any context. They're weird and you never know how someone feels about their weight or how they got there in the first place!

I agree with everything you're saying here.. I don't really want to talk about my relationship to my body and weight here but yea...

I get that people see providers based on what they look like in part, but... And this is where I stop.. I don't want to explain anything to anyone here but a little bit of reflection goes a long way.

(I'm specifically thinking of reviews and back handed compliments here)

 

[LeDodo]

I got often asked why as a man I have stretch marks ...

 

[Enjoying life]

I agree with everything you're saying here.. I don't really want to talk about my relationship to my body and weight here but yea...

I get that people see providers based on what they look like in part, but... And this is where I stop.. I don't want to explain anything to anyone here but a little bit of reflection goes a long way.

(I'm specifically thinking of reviews and back handed compliments here)

Luna is a good example of a great person with fantastic qualities which is so refreshing to me!

 

[Anong]

I want to see that ad

"i only cater man with no erection issues, even some students have erection issues if they jerk off a lot, bad sleeping habits, unhealthy life style, coke, alcoholism, medications but with me always get hard, f youre an older man with erection issues you must do viagra before our session, I don't attend guys on coke/cocaine previous the encounter, am aware forums might have sabotaje hateful ppl that make bad reviews just because (it happend to me before when i was new on LL i receive too much attacks textings saying "oh i read this on merb about you") and i want to avoid it, therefore i want to make CLEAR my rate is for my TIME and SERVICE with a man can hold erections, erections = sex, if you're not in conditions of keeping erections I respectfully ask you don't book with me cause i don't mean to "steal" your money for an incomplete service"

I enjoyed reading it.LOL

 

[Alucard87]

i only cater man with no erection issues, even some students have erection issues if they jerk off a lot, bad sleeping habits, unhealthy life style, coke, alcoholism, medications but with me always get hard, f youre an older man with erection issues you must do viagra before our session, I don't attend guys on coke/cocaine previous the encounter, am aware forums might have sabotaje hateful ppl that make bad reviews just because (it happend to me before when i was new on LL i receive too much attacks textings saying "oh i read this on merb about you") and i want to avoid it, therefore i want to make CLEAR my rate is for my TIME and SERVICE with a man can hold erections, erections = sex, if you're not in conditions of keeping erections I respectfully ask you don't book with me cause i don't mean to "steal" your money for an incomplete service,

I enjoyed reading it.LOL

Has it happened that a guy has ED and instead of getting off of getting YOU off or whatever demanded a refund? If so I get it, that's crazy but if not where's the humanity? You're getting paid anyhow.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Has it happened that a guy has ED and instead of getting off of getting YOU off or whatever demanded a refund? If so I get it, that's crazy but if not where's the humanity? You're getting paid anyhow.

No, men who have ED are usually conscious of it and I try to find ways to make the booking pleasurable for them regardless. I have clients who are over 70 and what they're looking for is not necessarily a physical release. I think it's shitty for a provider to insult men who have ED.. it's not kind. Sometimes guys are also nervous and it takes them a bit of time to ease into it.

When it comes to things like a client who used coke or another substance and can't get it up.. that's a different story and it's not my fault. But I've never been asked for a refund even in that case.

 

[jeffmathers]

i only cater man with no erection issues, even some students have erection issues if they jerk off a lot, bad sleeping habits, unhealthy life style, coke, alcoholism, medications but with me always get hard, f youre an older man with erection issues you must do viagra before our session, I don't attend guys on coke/cocaine previous the encounter, am aware forums might have sabotaje hateful ppl that make bad reviews just because (it happend to me before when i was new on LL i receive too much attacks textings saying "oh i read this on merb about you") and i want to avoid it, therefore i want to make CLEAR my rate is for my TIME and SERVICE with a man can hold erections, erections = sex, if you're not in conditions of keeping erections I respectfully ask you don't book with me cause i don't mean to "steal" your money for an incomplete service,

I enjoyed reading it.LOL

Are you a client or a provider?

 

[Anong]

Are you a client or a provider?

I am a man like you with a DICK. You asked to see the ad and I Coped that part which interest you. Why you think I am a Provider?

Is not you who wrote:
"I want to see that ad"

 

[Alucard87]

I am a man like you with a DICK. You asked to see the ad and I Coped that part which interest you. Why you think I am a Provider?

Is not you who wrote:
"I want to see that ad"

Holy smokes bro you really should have made that clear, I too took it as you were the chick.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I am a man like you with a DICK. You asked to see the ad and I Coped that part which interest you. Why you think I am a Provider?

Is not you who wrote:
"I want to see that ad"

Next time just use the standard quotation marks! Its that easy

 

[jeffmathers]

Holy smokes bro you really should have made that clear, I too took it as you were the chick.

Yeah @Anong both of us were confused. You could have used quotation marks.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

i only cater man with no erection issues, even some students have erection issues if they jerk off a lot, bad sleeping habits, unhealthy life style, coke, alcoholism, medications but with me always get hard, f youre an older man with erection issues you must do viagra before our session, I don't attend guys on coke/cocaine previous the encounter, am aware forums might have sabotaje hateful ppl that make bad reviews just because (it happend to me before when i was new on LL i receive too much attacks textings saying "oh i read this on merb about you") and i want to avoid it, therefore i want to make CLEAR my rate is for my TIME and SERVICE with a man can hold erections, erections = sex, if you're not in conditions of keeping erections I respectfully ask you don't book with me cause i don't mean to "steal" your money for an incomplete service,

I enjoyed reading it.LOL

I'm wondering if she wrote all of this because a guy couldn't get it up, felt ashamed and wrote a bad review about her as a way to retaliate and accused her of stealing his money.. In any case, it's way too specific.

 

[Anong]

Holy smokes bro you really should have made that clear, I too took it as you were the chick.

Apparently, you never saw my any post?

 

[Anong]

I'm wondering if she wrote all of this because a guy couldn't get it up, felt ashamed and wrote a bad review about her as a way to retaliate and accused her of stealing his money.. In any case, it's way too specific.

A MERB advertiser.