I don't offer carcalls because I can host some place. The main point is probably that it's not everyone that have access to an incall. If it was my case, I would never host to my own place, I would rent an hotel but my rate would go up at the same time. For some people, that's not possible. Sexual services/experiences are sometimes offered because of financial needs. It's not all glam and luxury but it doesn't mean the people providing it are worth less. In any case if one off my lovely regular was asking me to realize this as a fantazy, I would probably say yes. It's all about the trust and the way it's asked.
I think maybe you misunderstood because I wasn't saying providers doing carcalls were worthless. They do what they need to do, as any of us would.
I couldn't understand why the gentleman would prefer a carcall when incall was available and equal distance.
This was during curfew so there was like no one on the streets. I'm just not comfortable with it and have zero desire to get in a car with a stranger late at night when I have a safe incall. It wasn't a regular, it was someone I had never met.
Outdoor workers have a lot more knowledge on how to keep themselves safe and they can keep an eye on each other. I would have been on my own with absolutely no one who knew where I was and who I was with.
As I mentioned, this wasn't out of necessity. There were other options and the gentleman knew it. I couldn't understand why he would insist on it when it wasn't advertised.
Sorry if I didn't communicate this clearly.
I totally understand that many providers don't have that choice and I don't judge them in any way. It just didn't make sense in the context when the gentleman was trying to convince me.
