Disturbing Tendencies at Agencies

[overfiend]

I am wondering why agencies are allowing Racism like this. Anybody noticed yet how many escorts are now stating clearly who they do not want as clientele.
So they are broad brushing ethnicity on their do not want list????
I thought we lived in a society where we were better than this
But apparently stereotypical archaic thinking and racial segregation is well and alive
I know this is not new but was a bit lowkey and isolated.....but on this agency...it seems it is an super open policy
How do you feel about this people...escorts stating plain on their site they dont want certain ethnicities

 

[Fradi]

I think it is better this way.
At least now you know who is a racist and who is not ( in some cases it could be that they don’t want to run into relatives or friends).
It is better than booking someone and then being rejected and humiliated at the door.
At the end of the day whether you think it is racist or not everybody does have a choice as to who they want to be intimate with client and SP.
The difference is that a racist client will not book anyone he doesn’t like and you will never know about it.
Luckily there is still enough choices for every one.

 

[2fast2slow]

why are there these threads lately?? their body their choice, period. Calling it racism is uncalled for. We all lose in the end as we scare talent away.

 

[TheKing777]

Some of ladies are probably scared that it will hurt because of the stereotype that black guys have large penis.

 

[curly]

Some of ladies are probably scared that it will hurt because of the stereotype that black guys have large penis.

I'm not even sure it's that. They may also be scared of some of the shady people in the northern part of town...

 

[UncleBuck]

I’ve had the pleasure of discussing this topic openly without judgement with plenty of providers, and the responses are often a mixed bag. Saying Its because of or identifying it as racism is just being assumptious.

Some don’t see a certain ethnicity because, in their personal life, their social network is comprised of many who are of said ethnicity, may even be dating/have dated one, and don’t want anyone they may know knocking at their incall door.

A common one is that some providers were unfortunately been under the hand of a controlling pimp working LeoList in their past, and prefer to not run the risk of being found if said pimp was of a certain visible minority.

Some ethnicities tend to be on the hairier side, or just never groom their pubic regions, making it unpleasant for some providers who find this a major turn-off. Avoiding certain ethnicities may ultimately lower the cases of YMMV reviews caused by turn-offs, leading to a better reputation of the provider’s services.

Ultimately it’s their body, their choice. I don’t feel like this should even be a discussion.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Of course it is a discussion because when you are on the receiving end of this it just sucks and is a big ego breaker. These types of threads are coming up for a reason because racial restrictions seem to becoming more common. I looked at Luxury's website for example, and over half the girls had restrictions against Black men. I sympathize. I know what it feels like to be avoided because of your race. When I went to Cleopatra I was boycotted by the girls because I am brown. It is a ego breaker and frustrating. Girls would rarely approach me, I always had to go to them and when I did some gave me a weird vibe. I like Black girls but they often say brown men are not interested in Black women giving them more reason to avoid me. Needless to say I stopped going there because of that. At other clubs it is a totally different experience, lots of Black girls approach me at the other clubs. Having said that, I think the agencies took a good proactive step to add the racial restrictions of the girls on their profiles. I think this should have been done a long time ago. It saves both parties embarrassment and wasted time. Girls cannot be forced and racism is a personal choice, even if it is offensive it is their right to be racist so long as they cause no harm. There is not much else to be done. I would say if you are a Black man, your choice is limited to half, the pickings become a bit slim.

 

[envelopes]

Some of ladies are probably scared that it will hurt because of the stereotype that black guys have large penis.

Many ladies who told me they don't see certain groups is because they have been roughed up or robbed too many times by certain groups, so they don't want to risk it anymore.

Just repeating what I've been told.




I've personally been refused due to my race. I have no problem with it. It's.... an intimate act. They can choose whoever they want to see. Move on. These are escorts, not your dentist or your barber.

 

[MCTJ]

Anyway, at the rate at which immigration is going, eventually these restrictions will have to go: there won't be enough white clients left!

(Think this is exaggerated? Toronto is 56% visible minorities at the 2021 census. I'm not forgetting East Asians but you get my point.)

 

[LC18]

Basing your preferences on stereotypes created by the society is racism but I don’t think we’re quite ready for that conversation on merb.

 

[LC18]

I always laugh when people say they don’t want to see black men because they’re supposedly bigger below the belt. All the monster cocks I’ve had this year were white men. They were also well aware of their size and told me I didn’t have to do anything that could make me physically uncomfortable.

 

[LC18]

I also laugh when I see no Indian men because they smell funny. In my 5+ years of sex work, the men arguing about the shower and trying to avoid it were all white and embarrassingly older.

How are you 55 and still trying to avoid getting in the shower like a freaking k*d?

 

[LC18]

Only time it’s tolerable for me is when the person saying “no x race, no x religion” is from those communities. It’s to protect their privacy not to discriminate against people.

 

[EagerBeaver]

why are there these threads lately?? their body their choice, period. Calling it racism is uncalled for. We all lose in the end as we scare talent away.

Totally agree with this. Many black and other minority women I have seen told me they racially restrict due to privacy reasons and not wanting to be seen/identified by those in their own communities. Broad brushing it all as racism is flat stupid.

 

[LC18]

If one person of colour does something bad, then the whole group will be punished and discriminated against.

If a white person does something bad, it’s just that person that will be considered a bad apple. The rest of the group will be spared.

That’s why it’s unfair and will always be in my eyes. I have been discriminated against many years ago when I wanted to apply to agencies. One told me “we’ve had a bad experience with one black girl so we’re not hiring them anymore”

 

[Mandouke]

I have had this discussion with SPs I know and with more than one SP.

I recall the first time. It was with a mature Asian SP I see regularly. I had just arrived and when she entered the room she was crying and visibly upset. When I asked her what was wrong, did I do something wrong, she replied no. She then detailed the last client and their attitude, manners and hygiene, among other things and the whole experience, repeatedly saying that men from this ethnic group were all the same. She was a mess. I ended up just having a quick massage with her paying her the full rate and leaving.

I heard the same story, almost to a tee, from another provider who currently has racial restrictions on whom she sees. She told me an even more disturbing story. I felt sorry for her and many of the girls who are engaged in this business. The actions of this individual contravened the laws in Canada.

What I was able to sum up from these experiences is that it is a cultural thing. What these men are accustomed to in their countries of origin, in terms of their treatment of females, is not tolerated here in Canada. It is clearly defined in the criminal code of the country.

This problem will continue to persist as we allow more and more men from this demographic into Canada. I do believe that a woman has the right to pick and choose the clients she wishes to see, it is her body and her life. If she is regarded as racist for it, so be it.

 

[overfiend]

why are there these threads lately?? their body their choice, period. Calling it racism is uncalled for. We all lose in the end as we scare talent away.

ohh so if you hire a Plummer or go to place and they tell you we dont serve this type of ethnicity...that is all good?????. Not naive here.....i know lots of racists in our society...but i figure if you go into certain professions, you should also be more open to all. Also when you say NO Black or No Indians...that means you have a problem with skin color and not member. It is a myth that all Black have huge members...but even if that is true...why no Indians....what is the excuse there ? It is the same premise as saying all people having black skin are thieves......just because law enforcements stats are not in there favour...so can we broad-brush everyone in one ethnicity like this ??

 

[overfiend]

I’ve had the pleasure of discussing this topic openly without judgement with plenty of providers, and the responses are often a mixed bag. Saying Its because of or identifying it as racism is just being assumptious.

Some don’t see a certain ethnicity because, in their personal life, their social network is comprised of many who are of said ethnicity, may even be dating/have dated one, and don’t want anyone they may know knocking at their incall door.

A common one is that some providers were unfortunately been under the hand of a controlling pimp working LeoList in their past, and prefer to not run the risk of being found if said pimp was of a certain visible minority.

Some ethnicities tend to be on the hairier side, or just never groom their pubic regions, making it unpleasant for some providers who find this a major turn-off. Avoiding certain ethnicities may ultimately lower the cases of YMMV reviews caused by turn-offs, leading to a better reputation of the provider’s services.

Ultimately it’s their body, their choice. I don’t feel like this should even be a discussion.

I find it funny when we try to understand people who sell their bodies for a living...oh they hate dating some types of ethnicities...yet they will pork others on a industrial scale for money. I dont see that calling "dating" an escort an appropriate word. These are "call girls" and its a profession and not personal. Just like in real life if i have a public job, i cannot say i will serve only one kind of ethnicity and not the other. And please dont say that because these women value their body that they are choosy.....nope..it shows their mindset . just imagine if you skincare professional said "no black and No Indians"...how would that sound...even if you were white

 

[Gazoo64]

I feel that women should be able to choose which clients they see. There could be many reasons that they choose not to see a certain race of people, most have already been stated in this thread. None have to do with racism.

They’re giving their intimacy to the client, so obviously they have to feel comfortable and fully engaged. If they don’t feel comfortable and just go thru the motions, then they’ll get bad reviews and will be criticized!

It’s not like when they have an appointment with their accountant or car mechanic!! Obviously they are sharing very personal and intimate moments with their clients!

 

[overfiend]

Many ladies who told me they don't see certain groups is because they have been roughed up or robbed too many times by certain groups, so they don't want to risk it anymore.

Just repeating what I've been told.




I've personally been refused due to my race. I have no problem with it. It's.... an intimate act. They can choose whoever they want to see. Move on. These are escorts, not your dentist or your barber.

but you do agree these call girls are offering a businesslike service and they are not marrying us for the rest of our lives. Yes not Barber or else.....but i laugh when i say intimate. These women have been "had "by so many men that it is not an intimate act anymore but an act and a job . So comparing these escorts to normal women is not fair...especially when they are taking money and supposed to be offering a service .But i guess they can get away with it because we allow it .