Erectile dysfunction, death grip , too much fap what is it lol

[2fast2slow]

mid 40s sounds about right. Thats when i started having that problem too. I could be with the hottest provider delivering top gfe service and would still go limp or could not finish.
I severly reduced my porn consumption which helped, but did not 'cure' me. How I longed for those younger years when I was so sensitive I had the opposite problem of cuming too fast!
I turned to viagra which helped with erection, but wont help with overall under-sensitivity or finishing.
But now I've 100% cut out the porn since almost a year, i've reduced viagra to half the smallest dose and I space out my appointments to minimum 48hrs.
On my encounter yesterday with a good provider (but not the best I've had) I was super sensitive and had to stop her multiple times during bbj and came almost instantly in fs. I'm almost cured, next step is to cut out the viagra completely.
My progress has literally taken me years to achieve, because I waited too long to cut out the jerking off (with or without porn)

 

[Lexus3]

There is a spider that may help with ED.


According to a 2007 report by Live Science, a Brazilian wandering spider's venom stimulates a painful, hours-long erection. The venom boosts nitric oxide, a chemical that increases blood flow. Considered one of the deadliest spiders on the planet, its scientific name, Phoneutria, is Greek for "murderess."Aug 11, 2023

I have a fear of spiders and search countries I visit.

Cialis and Viagra also boost nitric oxide in the body.

 

[Mailloche]

So I never thought I'll ever have trouble with getting an erection and Cumming but here I am.

A bit of a background, mid 40s recently divorced.
Divorce has been devastating mentally. Going much better now.
Sex has always been awful with ex so always relied on myself.
That is, normally twice in the shower weekly with hot water manually.

I have noticed recently that it takes longer and it's much harder to get a hard on and cumming. Can't hardly cum multiple times either. Also I think I'm getting desensitized.

I was sure it was a problem of erectile dysfunction but now am not sure if it's also a problem of 'death grip'.
Any recommendations guys ? I have bought a pump but not sure if it'll help or make the matter worse.
So confused. And I thought that being divorced now I was going to be able to enjoy it more.

I'm in shape no history of high blood pressure.
But I do sleep very little. 4-5 hours daily.
I was thinking of getting treatment at elna sexual wellness but don't know if it's really a erectile problem and how costly it is. Or just stop masturbating. Not interested in meds if I can treat it otherwise.
Thought of going to see sp/ mp if it could help but really don't know.
Or maybe testosterone therapy

Any help advice is appreciated thanks !!

You mention "devastiting mentally" about your divorce. Did you have or still take anti depression pills? Some have this effect i know by experience it take me longer to cum, no erectile problem but sometimes feel less sensitive.

 

[sibar]

There are not many messages on sugar and insuline resistance and ED. I am not in any matter a dr or med specialist, but insuline resistance is one of the reason for organs not working properly.

Check this:

At my 55s, I personnally I take 2.5 mg of cialis every other day, and when needed ( with a sp...with gf not needed) I take 12.5 mg of Viagra. I do workout every day...really, I lift weights, kettlebell, spinning, cross country ski, and much more.. I still drink, sometimes too much, but I take care of my diet. I never buy bread, and I only eat pasta when I crave for my carbonnara...most important, I fast 12 to 16 hrs every day, and I break my fast with some green, vinegar and olive oil...

Thats my protocol, I want to cut buzz, but its not easy...

Keep working on yourselves, you should be your first priority...and sex is a good reason to stay fit!!

gl

 

[perso]

There are not many messages on sugar and insuline resistance and ED. I am not in any matter a dr or med specialist, but insuline resistance is one of the reason for organs not working properly.

Check this:

At my 55s, I personnally I take 2.5 mg of cialis every other day, and when needed ( with a sp...with gf not needed) I take 12.5 mg of Viagra. I do workout every day...really, I lift weights, kettlebell, spinning, cross country ski, and much more.. I still drink, sometimes too much, but I take care of my diet. I never buy bread, and I only eat pasta when I crave for my carbonnara...most important, I fast 12 to 16 hrs every day, and I break my fast with some green, vinegar and olive oil...

Thats my protocol, I want to cut buzz, but its not easy...

Keep working on yourselves, you should be your first priority...and sex is a good reason to stay fit!!

gl

Hahaha with a SP not needed for me. With wife, double the dose.