Finding Gems Like Back in the Days

[Renude]

So after a long hiatus,

im back on Merb. At first I’m on a mission to find a specific gem. I found her but have yet to see her. That’s on me...

But the more I’m on here, the more I realize things have changed and the hobby is not quite the same. Never mind the prices, but there used to be a ton of TOFT’s; guys just dying to find and share these new girls on the scene.

Now it seems to be the safe bets, repeating the same gems that have been reviewed over and over. Where’s all the new gems found on the escort ads? Where’s the adventures in some remote areas? Where’s the street girls where there too we have found gems???

Is it just me or some old timers feel that nostalgia?

 

[CLOUD 500]

Harper's Bill C-36 and now government covid restrictions created the perfect recipe for scammers and con artists or just bad service. I long the days of finding gems at stripclubs that fun stripper who gave extras and were available for take out. Those days are long gone and it is much worse on those sites like Leolist and Annonce Intime. Almost all fake pictures and none do GFE. Merb is the only place and there is Twitter and Tryst.Link. The rest is a waste of money.

 

[Numerati]

Also remember. The sugar daddy sites, LonelyFans, and other web base dating channels have taken a chunk of the female population from the hobby scene. Especially the sugar daddy type sites.

 

[Renude]

Harper's Bill C-36 and now government covid restrictions created the perfect recipe for scammers and con artists or just bad service. I long the days of finding gems at stripclubs that fun stripper who gave extras and were available for take out. Those days are long gone and it is much worse on those sites like Leolist and Annonce Intime. Almost all fake pictures and none do GFE. Merb is the only place and there is Twitter and Tryst.Link. The rest is a waste of money.

Cloud500, like I said in my intro I come way back in the mere early days: and so do you!

remember the girls of the south shore? Tammy, Samantha? Those were the good days.

never heard of Tryst.link. How does that work for ya?

 

[Renude]

Also remember. The sugar daddy sites, LonelyFans, and other web base dating channels have taken a chunk of the female population from the hobby scene. Especially the sugar daddy type sites.

You really think so? I guess it makes a bit of sense, too girls get scooped up by rich dudes that spoil them just as much as they would be making working as escorts. But still, there can’t be that much! Tons of honeys looking for money!

But it makes me think and wonder, there are so much ways to make money today, what stopped them from trying? Plus sites like TikTok gives them exposure (while flaunting their charms) exposure that could pay off way more long term.

 

[Numerati]

You really think so? I guess it makes a bit of sense, too girls get scooped up by rich dudes that spoil them just as much as they would be making working as escorts. But still, there can’t be that much! Tons of honeys looking for money!

But it makes me think and wonder, there are so much ways to make money today, what stopped them from trying? Plus sites like TikTok gives them exposure (while flaunting their charms) exposure that could pay off way more long term.

Looking how things are evolving in the Pay 2 Play set up I think so now that the some what pretty to that way hot girl can have so many channels to profit from their youth/beauty. Also with all these avenues to market their beauty and craft they can be an "SP" without feeling "dirty" and label as an SP. That legitimize their decision to be a professional girlfriend. Also look how many girls/women show their faces! You definitely don't see that before.

Very interesting you asked this. I came to this conclusion by watching a few youtube vids from a few guys who market their male lifestyle channels and they interviewed women who are side dishes who are also searching/banging the top 5% of men. These women are on tiktok, SA and dating sites. They are SPs without the being an SP. Also they are looking for a husband doing this. LOL. Yeah I can say that is going to be tough. These top guys know better and these gals are just pump and dumps and no way they are going to put a ring on you.

 

[AlmostMidaged]

You really think so? I guess it makes a bit of sense, too girls get scooped up by rich dudes that spoil them just as much as they would be making working as escorts. But still, there can’t be that much! Tons of honeys looking for money!

But it makes me think and wonder, there are so much ways to make money today, what stopped them from trying? Plus sites like TikTok gives them exposure (while flaunting their charms) exposure that could pay off way more long term.

Generally speaking, I think the ones on those websites are prettier/hotter than the average SP, and probably more confident overall in what sort of attention their looks can command. I would also venture a certain issue seldom discussed is much lower across the board starting out.

 

[Lloyd's of London]

I think that back 15 years ago there were so many more choices. Craigslist was full of ads with all kinds of pics. There were also the paper ads like in the J de Montreal, Gazette, Voir and Mirror. It seems like every woman and her aunt Celine was in the game. We are from the baby boom generation. There are less young people these days.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Cloud500, like I said in my intro I come way back in the mere early days: and so do you!

remember the girls of the south shore? Tammy, Samantha? Those were the good days.

never heard of Tryst.link. How does that work for ya?

Nopes never heard of those girls. Where they strippers? Back then I was not really into escorts I was strictly at the clubs and had many take outs. Those were the days. Tryst Link has many legit GFE escorts on it. You will find some that advertise on this board on it. I would avoid sites like Leolist and Annonce Intime. All scams and almost none do GFE.

 

[Mistral]

Every active hobbyist with a sense of duty should TOFTT at least once a year and report on it.

 

[sene5hos]

Every active hobbyist with a sense of duty should TOFTT at least once a year and report on it.

Yes Mistral, it's a good idea, and would be beneficial for all the members.

As I am in my sixties I don't TOFFT, I leave that to the younger ones.

I go there for sure values, girls who have a website, who advertise themselves on this site and who have beautiful reviews.

 

[Fradi]

I think that back 15 years ago there were so many more choices. Craigslist was full of ads with all kinds of pics. There were also the paper ads like in the J de Montreal, Gazette, Voir and Mirror. It seems like every woman and her aunt Celine was in the game. We are from the baby boom generation. There are less young people these days.

I don’t think so, I think there are just as many LL has far more than the mirror or J. Montreal.
There is Hunpchies, AI, Tryst Link, Lyla,. Twitter is full of SP you start with one and it will lead you to as many as you want.
Then there is Indy Companions that has close to 100 independents, multiple agencies.
Anybody that can’t find an SP that can tick all their boxes in Montreal is a lost cause, this is by far one of the best and easiest places to hobby in the world.
Yes some sights you need to know what you are doing and are full of scams and bait and switch, some are completely safe and you get exactly what you see on the girls or agencies web sight. There are literally hundreds of women to choose from on a daily basis.

 

[CLOUD 500]

@Patron

This only applies to Merb advertised agencies and Indys and more or less to escorts using Twitter with some presence on Merb. If you go out of Merb to sites like Leolist/Humpchies/Annonce Intime the standard is à gaffe style (No DFK, No BBBJ) type of service and most are scams with fake pictures. I am not convinced of the way you sold the market as the norm.

 

[oobe]

The only thing I miss from the past, honestly, are the spinners.

The big butt epidemic!
Guys seems to love it though, can't understand why

 

[CLOUD 500]

The big butt epidemic!
Guys seems to love it though, can't understand why

And too many fake tits. Way too much plastic surgery nowadays.

 

[Flash Gordon]

I think there were more part timer and short timers back 10-15 years ago. Now you get the fast food style get them in and get them out service.

 

[Mrmagoo]

I think there were more part timer and short timers back 10-15 years ago. Now you get the fast food style get them in and get them out service.

I agree with the part time point, but also debutantes would be more open.

I remember some debutantes/ part timers and short timers like Kacey indy (DT, facef.ck, greek, ATM), Louisa Plaisirsrebels, DT-choke, CIM, greek), Sandi sexynadya, DT-Cim, Jordan CIM, greek (tight like brand new) and Louna Indy (DT FF greek) which were not only among my all time favorites for service, but also no man made, no tattoos (or barely noticeable).

They worked rarely and quit quickly.

My biggest annoyance nowadays is tattoos, above the more restrictive services among debutantes.

 

[Funkyner]

I remember the days that I was waiting for a good old @UncleBob reviews.
Bob was a real trooper for TOFT. He found many gems for the crew and always shared them with us.
I tried to follow his path, but I always have been a little coward after putting myself in really bad situations...
Nowadays, I always go for the "fair bet" and barely look for SP if there not a well known indy or working for an agency.

 

[Renude]

Nopes never heard of those girls. Where they strippers? Back then I was not really into escorts I was strictly at the clubs and had many take outs. Those were the days. Tryst Link has many legit GFE escorts on it. You will find some that advertise on this board on it. I would avoid sites like Leolist and Annonce Intime. All scams and almost none do GFE.

Remember the girls at Cleo’s? The ones that used to put out more? What was her name the hot one I think started with an M. That was fun. Did you ever attend a Merb reunion there with the “Big Guy” (does anyone know what happened to him? He’s got to be in his mid 60’s now)?? He was a true TOFT agent...

Yeah those were fun times...

 

[UncleBob]

I remember the days that I was waiting for a good old @UncleBob reviews...

Ha ha, thanks ! That was the good Ol'days...
According to me, The game on ad sites started to get worst than ever about a year or 2 before Covid actually.
I changed too, but I still scan the ads once in a while (on humchies mostly, AI is flooded by Scammers (Steam Card type mostly) now) and I rarely see prospects in my taste (Gfe, Spinners).
And prices have increased a lot, so it costs more to get scammed. (Also, GFE is rarely offered or is extra...)
Since before it was already frustrating when we got scammed or B&S while toftting @ 120/30min, then now @ 180/200/30min, it's enough, at least for me, to change strategy.
In my case, I hobby a lot less and stick to a couple of regulars.

But I would say today, the times are favorable more than ever to Reputable Agencies and Indies.

I guess Onlyfans and Seeking Arrangements have contributed a lot to this...

UB