First time: Which escort?

[normalguy2]

This is my first time dealing with this sort of thing.

I'm really unsure on which girl to choose from.

I was hesitating between Vicky, K.I.M and the new girl from montreal girlfriends.

I have two questions;

Should I pick a more experienced SP over a newer one? Since I'll probably uncomfortable with the whole thing myself.

And secondly;

Is it wise to do the deed at your own home?

 

[Dragonatic]

This is my first time dealing with this sort of thing.

I'm really unsure on which girl to choose from.

I was hesitating between Vicky, K.I.M and the new girl from montreal girlfriends.

I have two questions;

Should I pick a more experienced SP over a newer one? Since I'll probably uncomfortable with the whole thing myself.

And secondly;

Is it wise to do the deed at your own home?

Well, for my opinion, a newer one is the best. Since she will be new to this (they don,t have the same attitude and the knowledge of the more experienced girls) it will look like your are doing sex with a "girl-next-door", a bit like a fuckfriend... its more "natural" and I prefer it this way.

And I walways do this at my own home. No motel to pay, I'm in my bed, my things, so I know all is good and clean and I prefer doing sex with a girl in my own bed, especially if you take a GFE. I don,t think you would go in a motel to fuck your girlfriend??

 

[normalguy2]

Well, for my opinion, a newer one is the best. Since she will be new to this (they don,t have the same attitude and the knowledge of the more experienced girls) it will look like your are doing sex with a "girl-next-door", a bit like a fuckfriend... its more "natural" and I prefer it this way.

And I walways do this at my own home. No motel to pay, I'm in my bed, my things, so I know all is good and clean and I prefer doing sex with a girl in my own bed, especially if you take a GFE. I don,t think you would go in a motel to fuck your girlfriend??

Thanks for the reply!

Do you have any preference between the SPs I listed above? The new girl I meant was Billie.

 

[Dragonatic]

Personally, I don't like the type of girl you listed, like most of the girls in agency. Its weird to say but.. they are "too hot" or like "too top model". I prefer very natural girls like Hailey from Asservissante.

I know most of the guys want the very hot sexy chicks but I don't like when its "too cute to be true" lol I very like doing sex with a girl that could be like a normal girl that you can see each time at the market... not the top models!

 

[protagoras]

Well, for my opinion, a newer one is the best. Since she will be new to this (they don,t have the same attitude and the knowledge of the more experienced girls) it will look like your are doing sex with a "girl-next-door", a bit like a fuckfriend... its more "natural" and I prefer it this way.

Interesting comment, Dragomatic but unfortunately I don't concur with you on this one.

I think that a more experienced escort would be more apropriate. The reason is simple: A girl new to the business can be too clumsy and too passive. On the other hand an experienced escort know how to make you feel good and comfortable from the start of the session.

 

[EagerBeaver]

I agree with Protagoras. I have never met KIM but I have met Vicky, and both are experienced. Vicky has a kind of "show" or "shtick" that she does that might relieve some of the nerves for someone less experienced. What I mean by this is she sort of adopts this Mae West sexy persona.

As for as the second question, never see any girl in your home. You set yourself up for many possible problems. Just spend a few extra bucks and go to the Chablis. It's stupid not to.

 

[Dragonatic]

I think that a more experienced escort would be more apropriate. The reason is simple: A girl new to the business can be too clumsy and too passive. On the other hand an experienced escort know how to make you feel good and comfortable from the start of the session.

Well, thats what I like. Sometimes a girl a little clumsy is so cute in her attitude. Its really like if you are meeting a girl in the "normal life". My ex-girlfriend was like this. She was not very experimented (she got 3 boyfriends in her life and she fucked only 2 guys in her life) and she was a bit clumsy the first times we did sex. It was so cute to see her this way.... So this is why I prefer a new girl in this industry, cause it will be more like the "girl-next-door". Afterall, we have our own choices and this is not discutable!

As for as the second question, never see any girl in your home. You set yourself up for many possible problems. Just spend a few extra bucks and go to the Chablis. It's stupid not to.

After hobbying for over 10 years in my own home, I never got a problem. What problems are you talking about?

 

[Merlot]

Hello normalguy2,

A friend of mine just met Vicky. She seemed to be much like Miss Samantha in her deeply giving intimacy skills. She would make an incredible meeting. However, I wonder if meeting the very best first isn't the worst thing. You may think all escorts are like this and/or you may crave repeating the experience like an addict. If you have the what it takes to stay in touch with reality and keep control of yourself and your finances then these two are two of the best you may ever meet.

Enjoy,

Merlot

 

[hungry101]

How about I answer your question in a different way. What is important to you? Is it the overall looks of the girl? Services offered? Price? Maybe its something else like the age of the girl (many guys are looking for youthful girls). I also want her to arrive in a sexy outfit and wear lingerie or something. I know that I have considered all these things when chosing an SP. I have learned over the years that the most critical ingredient to a successful date is PASSION! I often overlook this and get caught up in the sexy pictures on the web site. I often pick the sexiest girl wearing a sexy outfit (an outfit that she will not be wearing on our date anyway) that will provide the minimum services. I recommend that you read reviews and pick the most passionate girl. Passion may be subjective criteria but so are looks. Maybe passion has something to do with the chemistry between the hobbyist and the SP? I rarely experience extreme passion with 18 and 19 year olds (just my experience). It's usually an SP in her 20's that will drink wine with me that likes to LFK and talk for about 15-20 minutes prior to the sex. I also try to be her first date of the night too. The most pasionate girls that I know that are still working are Carolyn of Xxxtase and Cierra of GOF and maybe Allyson of Devilish...Maybe I was lucky and met them at the right time of day on the right night.

Read reviews and make passion the most critical variable.

 

[EagerBeaver]

After hobbying for over 10 years in my own home, I never got a problem. What problems are you talking about?

Extortion, for one, theft, for another. If you are a person of considerable assets and the lady leaves the business it would be very easy for her to blackmail you based on any kind of personal info she picked up in your home.

I have a naive friend who is a wealthy attorney who met a lady through Adult Friend Finder. A dating website but it's mostly wannabe girls, non pros who will have sex for money. He brought her to his house second date. Third date, she went on his computer and accessed all his financial information. He was in shock.

Dragonatic, you may not have had a problem but why tempt fate? If you want to live on the edge that's your business, but it's plain stupid to take these kinds of risks if you reward your privacy and your assets.

 

[Dragonatic]

Extortion, for one, theft, for another. If you are a person of considerable assets and the lady leaves the business it would be very easy for her to blackmail you based on any kind of personal info she picked up in your home.

I have a naive friend who is a wealthy attorney who met a lady through Adult Friend Finder. A dating website but it's mostly wannabe girls, non pros who will have sex for money. He brought her to his house second date. Third date, she went on his computer and accessed all his financial information. He was in shock.

Dragonatic, you may not have had a problem but why tempt fate? If you want to live on the edge that's your business, but it's plain stupid to take these kinds of risks if you reward your privacy and your assets.

Well, if you use a good agency like xxxtase, develish.... I don't think you will have problems with extortion. For all the problems like theft well, I have surveillance camera everywhere in my house so its not a problem (I have good assurances too). For the rest well, the SP can't really do something bad at your home. She come in, you go in your bedroom to fuck her, after she go to bathroom and then byebye... You don't let the sp play on your computer what a dumb! loll So she can't really take personnal informations on you...

 

[EagerBeaver]

Well, if you use a good agency like xxxtase, develish.... I don't think you will have problems with extortion.

Maybe so but it is wishful thinking at best. Are those agencies guarantors of the character and integrity of the girls they send you?

You don't let the sp play on your computer what a dumb! loll So she can't really take personnal informations on you...

It was an overnight date. She got up in the middle of the night while he was sleeping and got on his computer, having cased out his place the previous date.

You never let your guard down, period. You sound like you are willing to do so. Good luck.

 

[Dragonatic]

Maybe so but it is wishful thinking at best.

True. Maye I don't really care since I'm well equiped (cameras) who knows..

 

[Dragonatic]

It was an overnight date. She got up in the middle of the night while he was sleeping and got on his computer, having cased out his place the previous date.

You never let your guard down, period. You sound like you are willing to do so. Good luck.

On my computer there is someting called password lol... and like I said, since I have cameras she will be in trouble after.....

 

[EagerBeaver]

On my computer there is someting called password lol... and like I said, since I have cameras she will be in trouble after.....

He told me she attempted to access his financial information (online banking, etc). I don't believe she was successful. She was a grifter, a scammer. There are plenty of the same out there.

 

[protagoras]

Well, thats what I like. Sometimes a girl a little clumsy is so cute in her attitude. Its really like if you are meeting a girl in the "normal life". My ex-girlfriend was like this. She was not very experimented (she got 3 boyfriends in her life and she fucked only 2 guys in her life) and she was a bit clumsy the first times we did sex. It was so cute to see her this way.... So this is why I prefer a new girl in this industry, cause it will be more like the "girl-next-door". Afterall, we have our own choices and this is not discutable!

I was not refering to you in particular Dragonatic but I was speaking in general. Imagine the situation where both the John and the escort are clumsy and inexperienced. In any situation there must be someone who is able to take the lead. So, choosing an experienced or a novice one is surely conditionned by what you expect form an encounter with an escort.

 

[Dragonatic]

I was not refering to you in particular Dragonatic but I was speaking in general. Imagine the situation where both the John and the escort are clumsy and inexperienced. In any situation there must be someone who is able to take the lead. So, choosing an experienced or a novice one is surely conditionned by what you expect form an encounter with an escort.

Yea you're right. But whats better than 2 inexperienced person! I mean, no one will lead more than the other one, they will do their mistakes and will learn together! And no one will feel like if they are "worst" or "smaller" than the other (not in shape but in experience).

 

[normalguy2]

Thanks for the helpful advice so far!

I think I'll still go with my original plan of doing this at home. I'd rather spend the money on the SP than on a hotel room lol.

Just another question;

is it customary to book a SP just one day in advance? Or do I have to call a week before? What about the actual day? Is it like Vegas where she can come right away?

 

[Dragonatic]

Just another question;

is it customary to book a SP just one day in advance? Or do I have to call a week before? What about the actual day? Is it like Vegas where she can come right away?

Most of agency when you call they will come right away, or with 1 or 2 hours delay. But if the girl you want don't work this day then they will book you for the next time she will work.