It is not a matter of ''grudge'',it is more that you get to know if the person who writes is someone that you find interesting usually so it does makes me read it out of curiosity but there is others that I tend to avoid because from experience those thread tends to go downhill fast ..
In all my personas I avoid confrontation and it is the same here,there used to be people in Merb that the minute they would write in a thread I would stop doing so,same in a thread they start......I like comedy and light banter,not soul searching and drama,be it in movies or in my favorite toy,I mean Merb...
