In less than a year lost all my ATF Indys

[energystar15]

Due to marriages, retirement, moving out of town and career commitment - all 4 of my Indy ATF can no longer see me. All within the last couple of months

These were 4 women that I visited at least once every few months or so, each, for years... They were exactly my type and always charged me reasonable amounts and we'd often meet in their houses/condos

Now my roster is gone all at once and stuck to the usual parlours I've gone to. Finding it hard to find replacements. Especially replacing 4 women who I've built a decent connection over 10 years.

Such is the circle of life in this industry. Just curious how you guys deal with these scenarios. Maybe some suggestions:

Woman focussed on having a joint experience. Not transactional
Beautiful face (subjective but these were all 9/10 faces)
Large breasts
Long legs
Plump, not BBL, ass
No barbie lip filler
Fit but not body builder
Not crazy about tattoos
$200-400 price range for the hour

I think I posted this more to start a discussion or vent, than expect any recommendations. Plus I'm being hyper specific. But feel free to send some my way!

 

[LC18]

Hey that’s a very good topic and that makes me wonder:

Has anyone lost their ATF due to retirement? How did you feel about it?
Were you ever able to find a replacement?

 

[Albacor]

Hey that’s a very good topic and that makes me wonder:

Has anyone lost their ATF due to retirement? How did you feel about it?
Were you ever able to find a replacement?

It happens to all of us, like Dua Lipa said:
"They say I come and I go
Tell me all the ways you need me
I'm not here for long
Catch me while you can".
C'est la vie, dont fall in love with your SP, let's move on...

 

[bodick7]

all 4 of my Indy ATF

I would say favorites instead of ATF

Hum...Be patient. Maybe some will get back in business.
From my POV, I found 4 is too much anyway...

 

[energystar15]

It happens to all of us, like Dua Lipa said:
"They say I come and I go
Tell me all the ways you need me
I'm not here for long
Catch me while you can".
C'est la vie, dont fall in love with your SP, let's move on...

Love is a strong word... More like opening a can of Original Pringles - can't stop eating them until I reach the bottom and there's none left. Then I gotta buy a different can but they don't have any more original. Just sour cream and onions... I don't like sour cream OR onions. But I either stop eating Pringles or try something new.

... I went far with that analogy, but I think it explains how I feel lol

 

[energystar15]

I would say favorites instead of ATF

Hum...Be patient. Maybe some will get back in business.
From my POV, I found 4 is too much anyway...

Lol I used ATF cause I kept going back to them after 10 years of meeting them. But ya you're right ATF should be for the ONE

To be honest, some were already retired but would see me at hotel whenever I reached out

 

[Albacor]

Love is a strong word... More like opening a can of Original Pringles - can't stop eating them until I reach the bottom and there's none left. Then I gotta buy a different can but they don't have any more original. Just sour cream and onions... I don't like sour cream OR onions. But I either stop eating Pringles or try something new.

To your consolation, i lost 10 regulars in the past:
One changed career, one has health issue so she stopped, one moved to Toronto, and last one got pregnant, i still seeing her during her pregnancy, and she stopped after giving birth ! So i moved on and find other ones.
Let's try peanuts if you cant find original Pringles?
Don't be sad, cheers !

 

[bodick7]

To your consolation, i lost 10 regulars in the past:
One changed career, one has health issue so she stopped, one moved to Toronto, and last one got pregnant, i still seeing her during her pregnancy, and she stopped after giving birth ! So i moved on and find other ones.
Let's try peanuts if you cant find original Pringles?
Don't be sad, cheers !

..or spicy treat.

 

[Gazoo64]

I feel for you. Wow, losing 4 favourites in a short amount of time is tough to deal with. It’s tough losing an ATF, it’s happened to all of us.

My current ATF is the one I’ve had the best link with. We enjoy each other’s company, it feels better than with other ladies that I’ve met. I don’t want to think about the day she’ll retire, I’ll just enjoy it while it lasts.