Its been 5 months now that i have last booked an SP (it feels weird and now i have cold feet)

[vanhamm]

I know i been a bit hard on my SP for lying etc, we texted each other a few times since then and i told her everything, she wanted us to meet but i said no. The thing is that I went through my bank account and did the math on how much I was spending on the hobby each month did vary (went back 6 months) from 700-1025$.

I can't blame my SP for doing what she does, its her job after all, give you a boost of confidence, lie and get the hook in you to keep you coming back. She still as a great body for her age and she was great sex.

But now since i saw how much money i saved i am scared to start this hobby again, its like i got over it, and see how the bank account is picking up, I invested a bit more in RRSP, and my mutual fonds.

I look at reviews but there seem to be a lot more negative then positive, and since i am a normal salary worker who makes around 60-70k per year I just don't see myself going with a high end at 300 plus per jour.

 

[Rebaynia]

SPs are a luxury for those who can afford it for sure. Especially in this economy. It's a good thing to get to save up for a while. You just keep doing what you feel is best for you.

 

[T'storm]

SPs are a luxury for those who can afford it for sure. Especially in this economy. It's a good thing to get to save up for a while. You just keep doing what you feel is best for you.

It is a luxury and like @vanhamm I do take breaks depending on the season and what my future plans allow me to do. If I need to save 300-400 every 2 weeks to get myself a new motorcycle then I will do that before spending my money on a lady and it would only last 1-2 hours.

 

[Zoe_Sixxx]

I didn't really have the budget to see SPs as often as I'd like, but I've recently made some life changes. I'm quitting smoking and I'm drinking a lot less alcohol. It's been two weeks so far. Things are going pretty good. I figure I'll be saving 100-200 dollars per week, which I will probably just redirect to seeing SPs.

 

[vanhamm]

I didn't really have the budget to see SPs as often as I'd like, but I've recently made some life changes. I'm quitting smoking and I'm drinking a lot less alcohol. It's been two weeks so far. Things are going pretty good. I figure I'll be saving 100-200 dollars per week, which I will probably just redirect to seeing SPs.

Life changes produce amazing results I used to order a lot $$$$ and see my regular SP 1-2 and sometimes 3 times per week, she as a great body and insane body so yeah but now that I quit and stop ordering I see my bank account growing and think about saving taking care of my mother now but when all is said and done i want to sell the family home and move to Quebec city i saw amazing condos there for 250k so early retirement. And maybe travels plans i am well overdue to hit Mexico again Xplor and the rest.

The vote is still out on trying to meet a women who knows with the weight loss and all maybe things will pick up.

 

[Rebaynia]

The vote is still out on trying to meet a women who knows with the weight loss and all maybe things will pick up.

Positivity and confidence go a long way. A confident, but kind man is a very attractive trait. If you do deside to get back into dating, I wish you the best, and, that you find an amazing partner, who treats you well, and you treat well in return. Don't let the mistakes of the past haunt or prevent your future.

Oddly enough things find you when you aren't looking for them. Enjoy your time and life. And if it is ment to be it will. It is only a possibility if you are receptive to it. And if you decide it isn't for you, if you are at peace with it, you will be happy either way.

 

[Allnitelong]

Positivity and confidence go a long way. A confident, but kind man is a very attractive trait. If you do deside to get back into dating, I wish you the best, and, that you find an amazing partner, who treats you well, and you treat well in return. Don't let the mistakes of the past haunt or prevent your future.

Oddly enough things find you when you aren't looking for them. Enjoy your time and life. And if it is ment to be it will. It is only a possibility if you are receptive to it. And if you decide it isn't for you, if you are at peace with it, you will be happy either way.

Well said…

 

[vanhamm]

Positivity and confidence go a long way. A confident, but kind man is a very attractive trait. If you do deside to get back into dating, I wish you the best, and, that you find an amazing partner, who treats you well, and you treat well in return. Don't let the mistakes of the past haunt or prevent your future.

Oddly enough things find you when you aren't looking for them. Enjoy your time and life. And if it is ment to be it will. It is only a possibility if you are receptive to it. And if you decide it isn't for you, if you are at peace with it, you will be happy either way.

Ok on the top of my head wrote this song hilarious but true with dating theses days

Friend zoned again V999v16 by @rawimprint069 | Suno

jazz fusion, orchestral, electric guitar, new age, progressive, electric bass, smooth male singer, art, emotional, zen song. Listen and make your own with Suno.

suno.com

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Clearly, I took a break from my hobby because I had a girlfriend in the past. When I resumed, the booking process made me quite nervous, and it took time for me to readjust to my hobby.To be honest, I was quite nervous about the situation,not due to financial concerns, but because I questioned whether I wanted to return to a hobby that can be quite addictive and expensive , especially with how easy it is to make a booking at the last minute. But after my first booking, I remembered the passion I had for this hobby, and since then, I’ve been reaching out to service providers nonstop. Furthermore, I discovered that it was often cheaper to hire a service provider than to go on a date, which led to my demand for their services being twice as high as my usual bookings. As long as I can afford it and remain single, there’s no stopping me.

Regarding the negative reviews you mentioned, I think you’re right. It seems that people are more inclined to write negative reviews than positive ones, likely because they prefer to keep good experiences to themselves. However, that’s a different topic, and I felt it’s off topic to bring up in your thread. I’m glad to hear that you took a break and realized how much money you’ve been saving. Good luck with your decision on whether or not to pursue this hobby further. By the way, it’s a fascinating thread!

 

[vanhamm]

Clearly, I took a break from my hobby because I had a girlfriend in the past. When I resumed, the booking process made me quite nervous, and it took time for me to readjust to my hobby.To be honest, I was quite nervous about the situation,not due to financial concerns, but because I questioned whether I wanted to return to a hobby that can be quite addictive and expensive , especially with how easy it is to make a booking at the last minute. But after my first booking, I remembered the passion I had for this hobby, and since then, I’ve been reaching out to service providers nonstop. Furthermore, I discovered that it was often cheaper to hire a service provider than to go on a date, which led to my demand for their services being twice as high as my usual bookings. As long as I can afford it and remain single, there’s no stopping me.

Regarding the negative reviews you mentioned, I think you’re right. It seems that people are more inclined to write negative reviews than positive ones, likely because they prefer to keep good experiences to themselves. However, that’s a different topic, and I felt it’s off topic to bring up in your thread. I’m glad to hear that you took a break and realized how much money you’ve been saving. Good luck with your decision on whether or not to pursue this hobby further. By the way, it’s a fascinating thread!

In the last few month i met 2 women, one was a dental hygienist, I went to my old clinic to get a tooth repair and she ask me all those questions about aging how i felt then escalated to are you single, in the end me mouth frozen hahaha she asked me out for drinks, I regret saying no because she was really cute 47 good job and seemed very mature. I am afraid, I have not been on a date in close to 8 or 9 years and last time I got insulted and the women well was sub part below average. I don't get it but beauty is in the eye of the beholder i guess. The second i my neighbor girlfriend friend who carpools. She saw me last winter all dressed well jeans nice black coat and beanie, she said she found me attractive. (maybe both women need glasses anyways), but I met her and we have nothing in common so I said sorry but no.

Like I said my regular SP is still hot even at her age, all tanned body is insane and her service is on and off but the last few times she got greedy no more 45 minutes 2 shots now it was 1h and she didn't force the second time. She said she saw how much other SP were charging and wanted to raise her price.

Like you i am scared too of going with another SP, and to start loving this hobby again. At 52 lost weight getting back fit i would rather try to find a good women who likes to travel and be active, forget online dating last month i tried elite singles recommended by my other neighbor and it was the same thing as other online dating sites.

So right now everything is up in the air no sure were i could meet a women at my age, worse next year will look into places i can travel alone and things i can do by myself

 

[S.S neo]

When i try to take a break ...

Evil, dick, evil, dick
Evil, dick, evil, dick

Late at night evil dick he comes to me he says
"Don't sleep alone, don't sleep alone."
Late at night evil dick he wakes me up he says, "Don't sleep
Alone
Don't sleep alone, don't sleep alone, don't sleep alone, don't sleep
Aloooooooooone."
Evil, dick, evil, dick
Evil, dick, evil, dick

I had this girl
She said she loved me
Thought there was no one ever above me
She wanted to marry
And have my child
But evil dick
He had to get buck wild
Took me out one night
Out with the freaks
If ever there was pussy, evil dick would seek
My girl caught me skeezin' she said
I wasn't shit!
I said, "It wasn't me, baby
It was the motherfucker
Evil dick!"

 

[vanhamm]

When i try to take a break ...

Evil, dick, evil, dick
Evil, dick, evil, dick

Late at night evil dick he comes to me he says
"Don't sleep alone, don't sleep alone."
Late at night evil dick he wakes me up he says, "Don't sleep
Alone
Don't sleep alone, don't sleep alone, don't sleep alone, don't sleep
Aloooooooooone."
Evil, dick, evil, dick
Evil, dick, evil, dick

I had this girl
She said she loved me
Thought there was no one ever above me
She wanted to marry
And have my child
But evil dick
He had to get buck wild
Took me out one night
Out with the freaks
If ever there was pussy, evil dick would seek
My girl caught me skeezin' she said
I wasn't shit!
I said, "It wasn't me, baby
It was the motherfucker
Evil dick!"

Get on SUNO AI and create that song hahah its great

 

[Rebaynia]

Ok on the top of my head wrote this song hilarious but true with dating theses days

Friend zoned again V999v16 by @rawimprint069 | Suno

jazz fusion, orchestral, electric guitar, new age, progressive, electric bass, smooth male singer, art, emotional, zen song. Listen and make your own with Suno.

suno.com

The problem was online dating.
It is better to meet people organically. Online dating seems to be a different thing all together.

The dental hygienist you spoke of, and I remembered, why I mentioned and receptive to it when out of the blue propositions happen . You are less likely to be friend zoned. And everyone is someone's type, even if we don't always feel like we are.