What post are you responding to? Who said he was spending $24K/year on an SB? On an hourly basis, my spending on SBs is less than what I typically spend on escorts. That's part of the reason I like it.
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What post are you responding to? Who said he was spending $24K/year on an SB? On an hourly basis, my spending on SBs is less than what I typically spend on escorts. That's part of the reason I like it.
I signed up for Seeking and I have to say I am enjoying just browsing the ladies. It is apparent to me that many are just hooking. It is so obvious I fear that they may be a police sting operation. I have not tried to forge an arrangement yet but that are plenty of targets.
Has anyone ever groomed a young lady into an arrangement relationship but you met her in person first instead of the Internet?
^^^^^^ Up 2. If you have not joined yet you could put you are 4' tall with full body hair except your head and no penis and you would still get girl requests. ... If I am correct then it costs to see who is interested in you.
^^^^^^ Same thing, a bot with a fake picture is replying, mention you have no teeth and scurvy, they will still want to meet you.
She sounds perfect. Since I am no longer a MSOG guy and I like some social time and cuddling, two hours for $250 is great. If I know my Filipinas, they like some cuddling.
There are some young, urban 20somethins' with looks and bodies built for sex on SA, but they seem to be either incredibly demanding or TGTBT. I'm thinking a more mature, single mom or a young girl two hours outside of the city who is bored might be just the thing. Some of the small town girls on SA seem like they legitimately want to be entertained. If she's a single mom, perhaps even better.
I met the (half) Filipina single mom for the second time last week and it was a good encounter. She's not "perfect," but she's a sweet, hot-blooded, good looking woman. She is affectionate and she provides a level of service that my previous SB didn't really provide. Sex with the Filipina is more like sex with a high performing escort.
She also accepted my invitation to go for quick lunch at a nice Asian restaurant (owned by a guy from Singapore) after our encounter. It was a nice midday break.
I met her shortly after rejoining the site and things moved quickly. Though I liked her from the start, I did stay somewhat active on SA for the rest of my one month membership by searching profiles and exchanging messages with several other women. But I didn't meet anyone else and I let my membership lapse after the one month. I'll stick with the Filipina for now and see how things go.
The single mom demographic on SA has proved to be a good one for me. One downside with them is that they usually can't meet nights or weekends. But I've been able to work around their schedules.
Hi all,
I haven't posted in a while but this thread has most definitely blossomed. I'd like to share my experience on SA in order to help others who are on the fence or maybe have already joined the site.
It's been roughly three years since I've joined. I've met many women on the site. Some were quick meet and greet lunches, drinks, coffees to see the vibe. Sometimes we'd click, other times not. I never paid for these types of meetings and was not interested either. Anyone who asks for money upfront to meet receives a resounding no. Many meet and greets were first time intimate encounters where you'd basically meet at a motel for the first time. And then pretty much never again. I lost interest in those rather quick. Over the past three years, I've met three remarkable women. One was the first girl I ever met on the site, in January 2016, and I am still friends with her. We haven't been intimate in a long time, but we do go for food and drink at least twice a year. Haven't heard from her in a while, though; she was likely expecting the intimacy to continue at one point, but the vibe for me had changed. Which is par for the course these days I guess. The second of three became a great friend in the end. I've known her for two years now. We had only been intimate four times but met often for coffee and lunches and drinks. She was not on the site for very long and I assume was looking for more of an emotional connection. She is dating and wants the whole marriage/children type of arrangement. We do message each other on a weekly basis and really get along superbly. The last of the three I've know for over a year and a half. She is the one I've been the most intimate with. It is time that we both move on at this point, for a variety of reasons, but still remain friends and touch base from time to time.
To summarize lol, I've assisted to the tune of $200 to $300 per meet, and usually my friends would stay the whole time the room was rented for. We'd always engage in great conversation, listen to music and have amazing fun. There are a lot of women on the site that are really just there for the money, some are definitely professionals. But there are quite a few diamonds in the rough that need assistance but also appreciate some form of emotional connection. There is no longer that much of a stigma attached to the SD/SB type of dating. The younger girls today are definitely more open-minded. I am followed/follow on Insta girls from the site that I haven't even met yet (dates are still in planning mode). Sooooo, my advice is to stay away from those who want to be paid to meet for supper, drinks, etc., meet the girl next door/student types who are happy to meet for a coffee or drink to see the vibe, do not discuss any particulars while messaging on the site (use a texting app or whatever other form of communication you both can agree on), and negotiate between 200 and 300 per meeting. The more interesting types would rather meet someone they vibe on a regular basis for what is still a decent amount of assistance, rather than waiting for the big prize that may never come in the end. And from what I've been told, some men on the site do scam the girls with fake gift cards, offering less money than agreed upon, not showing up for dates, etc. If you're a decent fellow and treat the women with respect, you'll definitely have the same experiences I've had. Good luck!!!
I haven't posted in a while but this thread has most definitely blossomed. I'd like to share my experience on SA in order to help others who are on the fence or maybe have already joined the site.
It's been roughly three years since I've joined. I've met many women on the site. Some were quick meet and greet lunches, drinks, coffees to see the vibe. Sometimes we'd click, other times not. I never paid for these types of meetings and was not interested either. Anyone who asks for money upfront to meet receives a resounding no. Many meet and greets were first time intimate encounters where you'd basically meet at a motel for the first time. And then pretty much never again. I lost interest in those rather quick. Over the past three years, I've met three remarkable women. One was the first girl I ever met on the site, in January 2016, and I am still friends with her. We haven't been intimate in a long time, but we do go for food and drink at least twice a year. Haven't heard from her in a while, though; she was likely expecting the intimacy to continue at one point, but the vibe for me had changed. Which is par for the course these days I guess. The second of three became a great friend in the end. I've known her for two years now. We had only been intimate four times but met often for coffee and lunches and drinks. She was not on the site for very long and I assume was looking for more of an emotional connection. She is dating and wants the whole marriage/children type of arrangement. We do message each other on a weekly basis and really get along superbly. The last of the three I've know for over a year and a half. She is the one I've been the most intimate with. It is time that we both move on at this point, for a variety of reasons, but still remain friends and touch base from time to time.
To summarize lol, I've assisted to the tune of $200 to $300 per meet, and usually my friends would stay the whole time the room was rented for. We'd always engage in great conversation, listen to music and have amazing fun. There are a lot of women on the site that are really just there for the money, some are definitely professionals. But there are quite a few diamonds in the rough that need assistance but also appreciate some form of emotional connection. There is no longer that much of a stigma attached to the SD/SB type of dating. The younger girls today are definitely more open-minded. I am followed/follow on Insta girls from the site that I haven't even met yet (dates are still in planning mode). Sooooo, my advice is to stay away from those who want to be paid to meet for supper, drinks, etc., meet the girl next door/student types who are happy to meet for a coffee or drink to see the vibe, do not discuss any particulars while messaging on the site (use a texting app or whatever other form of communication you both can agree on), and negotiate between 200 and 300 per meeting. The more interesting types would rather meet someone they vibe on a regular basis for what is still a decent amount of assistance, rather than waiting for the big prize that may never come in the end. And from what I've been told, some men on the site do scam the girls with fake gift cards, offering less money than agreed upon, not showing up for dates, etc. If you're a decent fellow and treat the women with respect, you'll definitely have the same experiences I've had. Good luck!!!
C72,
Thanks for sharing your experience. I agree with your approach to SA and observations about it and they are similar to mine.
Like some of us, you seem to have the SA thing figured out. It's not that hard, but it is definitely more challenging than picking up the phone and ordering an escort in the same fashion that you would order a pizza. For some of us, the challenge is part of the fun and for others, that's a big reason not to try SA.
I like your observation that the women on SA seem to know that $200-300 per encounter is the going rate in many places. Well, even when there are restrictions on advertising, markets work well and prices get established at certain levels.
Thanks for sharing your experience. I agree with your approach to SA and observations about it and they are similar to mine.
Like some of us, you seem to have the SA thing figured out. It's not that hard, but it is definitely more challenging than picking up the phone and ordering an escort in the same fashion that you would order a pizza. For some of us, the challenge is part of the fun and for others, that's a big reason not to try SA.
I like your observation that the women on SA seem to know that $200-300 per encounter is the going rate in many places. Well, even when there are restrictions on advertising, markets work well and prices get established at certain levels.
Het guys,
It is probably already posted before in this thread, but I have no time to look it up...sorry...
How the beginning looks? Like with an escort and it gets more regular/stable as time goes? A drink in a public place at lower cost, just to see if it can work out? tc
Anything else you find interesting to let a newbie know is more than welcomed!
:kiss:
It is probably already posted before in this thread, but I have no time to look it up...sorry...
How the beginning looks? Like with an escort and it gets more regular/stable as time goes? A drink in a public place at lower cost, just to see if it can work out? tc
Anything else you find interesting to let a newbie know is more than welcomed!
:kiss:
I think they are talking about having a drink and meet up for the first time for free. That is, the SD buys the beverage. I imagine that this would have to be a tough pill for some escorts to swallow that want to dabble in the SB/SD relationships.
fly my advice is to avoid monthly cost. Too easy for the girl to collect monthly only to then find excuse to miss sessions...
the cost are entirely define by you and her. I had many girls who quoted me 300-400 an hour and up... More then agency sp, especially in montreal. On the north shore i had great findings at 150-200 per sessions. I did trid to talk about sessions or meet up with girl so no real time was defined.
One thing with SA you need to be able to do outcall, meaning the girl will come to you.
cheers,
OMG! Per my own experience, it's not a good idea to pay in advance! I'm done with this and only pay the lady when she show up at my place!
But is this usual? Because I did receive a LOT of messages and almost as much of different types of arrangements...kind of not used to choose when you are not used to this kind of bargain lol
Mon expérience pour un mois d’expérience sur SA:
60 messages envoyés (approx). Je ne montrais mon visage qu’à celles qui me répondaient.
40 réponses (approx) et échanges par messages. Très cool parfois mais aussi souvent très « sec ».
20 numéros de cellulaires échangés et textos échangés. Pour faire connaissance et « négocier » I guess.
9 personnes rencontrées (de 35 ans à 40 ans):
. 1 totalement disjonctée rencontrée pour un lunch. Frustrée de la vie. J’étais son paratonnerre à marde (elle ne recherchait pas de $$)
. 1 pour un drink avec qui on a cliqué, beaucoup de textos ensuite mais qui a disparu parce que trop occupée (elle ne recherchait pas de $$)
. 1 pour un lunch et un café qui ne voulait pas de $$ mais aller magasiner avec moi. Elle était insultée de la notion de SB ;-)
. 1 pour drink et gros french kiss dans le parking... No go. Fille bizarre
. 1 pour un lunch et à suivre. Elle veut des $$ (À négocier mais approx 200$-250$ par rencontre. « Rencontre » à définir)
. 1 pour un brunch et ensuite un souper. Elle ne voulait pas de $$ mais une relation sérieuse et ne comprenait pas le site. Elle m’a parlé de ses chats toute la soirée.
. 1 avec lunch et sexe. Cool fille mais PSE style et go home... Ressemble plus à un service d’escorte PSE je dirais mais avec la notion qu’il faut que ca clique avant entre nous... pas mon truc (250$)
. 1 avec lunch et sexe. La fille était cute mais réservée. Sexe nul... Faire la planche et partir... pas mon truc (200$)
. 1 relation intime répétée. 3 rencontres. Lunch + intimité + 100$. Souper-spectacle + intimité + 300$. Drink + intimité + 120$. Elle ne veut plus de $$. Ressemble plus à une relation ami-amant. Elle a 2 autres SD. Cool. Ca continu.
Ça doit ressembler à des stats typiques sur ce genre de site à mon avis
Mon commentaire: Sauf exception il y a 3 catégories de dame sur ce site
1) Des Professionnelles (indépendantes et agences aussi)
2) Des non-professionnelles qui n’assument pas leur status d’escorte
3) Des non-professionnelles qui explorent (beaucoup plus rares)
Ah oui... un 4ème type: Des femmes totalement perdue qui ne savent pas vraiment ce qu’elle font là et ce que veut dire SB et SD
My 2 cents : Il y a tout et son contraire sur ce site mais je dirais que c’est surtout un endroit pour des femmes qui n’assument pas leur status « d’escortes » ou ne comprennent pas que recevoir de l’argent pour du sexe est de la prostitution (j’utilise le mot sans jugement ici). C’est un endroit parfait par contre pour des escortes qui veulent se monter une clientèle régulière et « filtrée ».
Ubu (Région de Montréal)
60 messages envoyés (approx). Je ne montrais mon visage qu’à celles qui me répondaient.
40 réponses (approx) et échanges par messages. Très cool parfois mais aussi souvent très « sec ».
20 numéros de cellulaires échangés et textos échangés. Pour faire connaissance et « négocier » I guess.
9 personnes rencontrées (de 35 ans à 40 ans):
. 1 totalement disjonctée rencontrée pour un lunch. Frustrée de la vie. J’étais son paratonnerre à marde (elle ne recherchait pas de $$)
. 1 pour un drink avec qui on a cliqué, beaucoup de textos ensuite mais qui a disparu parce que trop occupée (elle ne recherchait pas de $$)
. 1 pour un lunch et un café qui ne voulait pas de $$ mais aller magasiner avec moi. Elle était insultée de la notion de SB ;-)
. 1 pour drink et gros french kiss dans le parking... No go. Fille bizarre
. 1 pour un lunch et à suivre. Elle veut des $$ (À négocier mais approx 200$-250$ par rencontre. « Rencontre » à définir)
. 1 pour un brunch et ensuite un souper. Elle ne voulait pas de $$ mais une relation sérieuse et ne comprenait pas le site. Elle m’a parlé de ses chats toute la soirée.
. 1 avec lunch et sexe. Cool fille mais PSE style et go home... Ressemble plus à un service d’escorte PSE je dirais mais avec la notion qu’il faut que ca clique avant entre nous... pas mon truc (250$)
. 1 avec lunch et sexe. La fille était cute mais réservée. Sexe nul... Faire la planche et partir... pas mon truc (200$)
. 1 relation intime répétée. 3 rencontres. Lunch + intimité + 100$. Souper-spectacle + intimité + 300$. Drink + intimité + 120$. Elle ne veut plus de $$. Ressemble plus à une relation ami-amant. Elle a 2 autres SD. Cool. Ca continu.
Ça doit ressembler à des stats typiques sur ce genre de site à mon avis
Mon commentaire: Sauf exception il y a 3 catégories de dame sur ce site
1) Des Professionnelles (indépendantes et agences aussi)
2) Des non-professionnelles qui n’assument pas leur status d’escorte
3) Des non-professionnelles qui explorent (beaucoup plus rares)
Ah oui... un 4ème type: Des femmes totalement perdue qui ne savent pas vraiment ce qu’elle font là et ce que veut dire SB et SD
My 2 cents : Il y a tout et son contraire sur ce site mais je dirais que c’est surtout un endroit pour des femmes qui n’assument pas leur status « d’escortes » ou ne comprennent pas que recevoir de l’argent pour du sexe est de la prostitution (j’utilise le mot sans jugement ici). C’est un endroit parfait par contre pour des escortes qui veulent se monter une clientèle régulière et « filtrée ».
Ubu (Région de Montréal)
Ubu, je ne crois pas que tes expériences soient typiques de SA. Tout d'abord, tu as rencontré des femmes de 35 à 40 ans alors qu'il y a très peu de filles de plus de 30 ans sur SA, du moins à Québec.
De mon côté, toutes les filles que j'ai rencontrées via ce site étaient des GND dans la vingtaine qui veulent du sexe pour des $ mais pas avec n'importe qui (comme une escorte). Elles veulent filtrer leur(s) SD. Elles entrent dans ta 3e catégorie.
De mon côté, toutes les filles que j'ai rencontrées via ce site étaient des GND dans la vingtaine qui veulent du sexe pour des $ mais pas avec n'importe qui (comme une escorte). Elles veulent filtrer leur(s) SD. Elles entrent dans ta 3e catégorie.
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