Sam21
So, you're saying that girls there are more open about casual sex and are more poor, two of the main factors involved in being willing to engage in prostitution acts, but do not, as I have stated, because saying someone or their mother is a whore is an insult? What, because it's a compliment here?
Seriously, I get the impression I offended you. If that's the case, this speaks more about you and how you view escorts than me. I respect who they are and what they do. I do not jump at the conclusion that all escorts have had an horrible life (or are themselves horrible persons). That's all I was trying to say in answer to the quoted text from your post.
Perhaps the wording was clumsy in suggesting that I or she do not think of her as an escort. There is obviously a difference in the occasional thing vs full time touring. At least in degree if not in principle. I would refer you back to the title of this thread if you got this idea. Btw, she told me her parents don't know what she's doing. I'm not deluded on parents in any society being super happy about this life choice.
Justify what? What have I done so far? I've been seeing escorts and cheating on my wife. Surely I'm not in the minority in this forum and do not have to justify this to you. I've fallen in love -call it lust if you prefer, that doesn't make it different from any other crush a man has on a woman at this stage of a relationship - with a woman, something all of us has presumably done. In my case, it is with an escort. If I did not see two of the serious potential pitfalls of this (unrequited love with someone who will keep having sex with, thus preventing me from moving on; going from buying/selling sex to trying to buy unbuyable love) , I would not have started this thread. Again, I refer you back to the title.
Eagerbeaver, I seriously doubt that non-stalking customers who fall in love with escorts are a main factor in driving girls away from the biz. These girls are so beautiful and charming that no matter their work, guys will fall in love with them. Of course meeting more men, especially if providing gfe services, will lead to more of it. I'm going to go on a limb in saying that social stigma and the difficulty in finding/maintaining a partner are much bigger factors. That and diminishing prospects with age.
Sol tee nutz, not that it has any relevance, but yes I have been there. More than once, more than one country, both central and eastern. Yes, it was a gran sweeping statement, it was not meant to be a dissertation on the subject. That would be a different thread. It was just to set aside an equally/bigger grand sweeping statement that all escorts have had terrible childhood and are therefore unable to lead a normal life afterwards. Poverty is not a blessing, but neither is it a curse (not talking about extreme poverty). For many years my family was living below the poverty line and I consider I had a great childhood.
