Personnaly, If a girl refuses me, I would keep from telling the world about that.
It could be my look, my age, my smell... No way I will tell the community... Of course it depends of the context. For sure I would text the agency to know more (if agency girl)...
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I once scared off an SP with an e-mail. Apparently, she didn't understand my sense of humor and something I wrote made her feel "uncomfortable." I thought I was being cute and funny. With age, I have become a lot less cute and I am no longer funny. Sometimes less exposure is better. I wrote one too many e-mails to her. Live and learn. My bad. Next!
It is the easy reason as it enables the client to shift the blame away from self-accountability...t.
Bottom line is guys have to be accountable for their behaviors, dress, hygiene and manners and should not be allowed to point the finger of blame elsewhere when the reality is that it falls back on them.
Everyone is a victim these days. We don't teach accountability anymore. We teach victimhood. Just claim you were discriminated against. One of the Marine Corp's Leadership Principles used to be Seek responsibility and take responsibility for your actions. The key is seek responsibility. I saw news footage of a relative of a black teenager who shot upon breaking into a house. She explained that "we be from da hood an [her cousin] wa jas doin what he need to get da things he need. You know what i'm sayin?" Apparently, the fact that he crawled through the bedroom window all hopped up on drugs of some old woman to rob her doesn't mean that she should of shot him. He was the victim. Unbelieveable.
So now we are discriminating against grannies.
Is there no end, or shame.
The poster thought Sam was dangerous and was afraid to contact him, if I were you I would stay away from any old age homes from now on.
Use the "R" word or any word with an -ist on the end of it and everyone is paralyzed with guilt.
I have met a few of these agency owners. I keep expecting to meet Huggie Bear from the Starskey and Hutch show but no. They're regular guys.... At least Mike from Elite wears a lot of gold.
Had you been at the XO party you would not have been disappointed. The XO party was held several days before Halloween, and Uncle Sam wore a costume very appropriate to the occasion. Let's just say that it brought back memories of this song, which could be the XO theme song:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rdPOAhBp2Ag
Red and white, blue suede shoes, I'm Uncle Sam, how do you do?
Gimme five, I'm still alive, ain't no luck, I learned to duck.
Check my pulse, it don't change. Stay seventy-two come shine or rain.
Wave the flag, pop the bag, rock the boat, skin the goat.
Wave that flag, wave it wide and high.
(song written and performed by the Grateful Dead)
I like that one about Uncle John's Band