I don't understand people harshly judging people on OF or those who pay for it
Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2
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I am not judging people. I will always better enjoy seeing and touching real people than pay for views.
I keep trying to get Americans to come here because 1st, I can’t go there and 2nd it’s cheaper here with their American $$
You know this may seem like hyperbole but, I am really worried about traveling to Canada and leaving the USA if the election goes to Trump. His threats of mass deportation are scary to a minority like me even though I was born in the USA.
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I think it's weird considering the fact that so many people who judge probably watch a ton of porn for free without compensating anybody. A lot of people also have misconceptions about OF and have the misogynistic idea that it's an easy way for women to make tons of money that they don't deserve. I've had an OF for a little under 2 years and only made about 3000$ on it in total, and honestly most of my followers were people who had seen my escort ad. I deleted my OF last february or march I believe, and I still have people tell me they remember it when they book me, which makes me feel kinda strange.
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I hate how porn has normalized inc3st. Every other video is “mom fucks her step son” “bro finds her step sis stuck under the bed and fucks her”
People that aren’t related can no longer have sex or what? Bring back the “sexy employee seduces her boss for an augmentation” and the “horny neighbour brings a special package”
People that aren’t related can no longer have sex or what? Bring back the “sexy employee seduces her boss for an augmentation” and the “horny neighbour brings a special package”
That's partly why I think it's way better for people to pay cam girls or pay for OF. I'm tired of porn with all the barely legal and inc3st shit, among other things. I have nothing against porn but the mainstream porn industry fucks with people's minds a lot
I know. It's like that part. I'm all for ethical and them owning their content. Also, it is not just your provider or pornstar on it. There is a bit of everything for everyone. Want to see an out of town provider but aren't sure or said provider is out of your budget? She may be on OF. You have providers who are face out on OF while face in everywhere else. Your favorite stripper? She most likely have OF and is doing things not allowed in strip clubs or you get to keep interacting with her outside of her work. Cosplayers? Streamers? Same thing. And so on.
Not everything is behind paywall or you have to tip to DMs or is porn.
I personally enjoyed my favorite who use it to show her new asset during the pandemic/confinement
My issue now is that a lot of people ask me why I DON'T have an OF and I've had some people complain about it.I know. It's like that part. I'm all for ethical and them owning their content. Also, it is not just your provider or pornstar on it. There is a bit of everything for everyone. Want to see an out of town provider but aren't sure or said provider is out of your budget? She may be on OF. You have providers who are face out on OF while face in everywhere else. Your favorite stripper? She most likely have OF and is doing things not allowed in strip clubs or you get to keep interacting with her outside of her work. Cosplayers? Streamers? Same thing. And so on.
Not everything is behind paywall or you have to tip to DMs or is porn.
I personally enjoyed my favorite who use it to show her new asset during the pandemic/confinement
I deleted my OF personally because I don't like the company, it's really hard to get paid on it and I wanted to use another platform but they don't take my ID. When I get my passport or driver's license I might consider camming and doing online stuff again, but I don't love tons and tons of people having images of me. I agree with you, there is a lot more diversity when it comes to people's content online and a lot of people who are very different from your average conventionally attractive young cisgendered white woman have large followings and get support. It's a lot harder than it used to be to build a following tho.. and you have to be extremely creative. When I was doing OF people constantly asked me for content that I wasn't comfortable making, and you'll inadvertently end up having to do more and more hardcore stuff and collab with other people if you want followers. That's what's kinda unfortunate about it, and that's also why I recommend encouraging creators who don't have huge amounts of followers and to tip them.
I hated how during college when I worked for Domino's Pizza delivery, every female at the door expected to see my dick in the box when I flipped open the top to show them the pizza before they paid me. I was like no miss/mam, I don't do that, I only got thirty minutes to get to the next home. Thanks porn for normalizing pizza delivery dick in a box.
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And violence: "You will shut the fuck up girl, if you want to be my son's girlfriend you will suck his dick in front of me and I will judge you."
This. Is. Crazy.
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The thing for me about porn in all seriousness is the more accessible it is the less effect it has in my opinion for people over a certain age.
I think over the years it was very hard to get at first when I was younger and going through puberty unless you were over a certain age. Plus if you or one of your friends had a magazine you had to hide it because in the shame culture of the puritan USA you didn't want your parents to find out 40 plus years ago. Like I remember to this day the name of the first Playboy centerfold I ever saw the first time I looked at a girly magazine. Cathy Larmouth June 1981 may she rest in peace. If I want to go back to a time in my childhood, I can google her name. Centerfold by the J Geils band was a huge song. Sneaking a peek at your friend's dad's hustler in their parents bedroom when you are an adolescent and have no idea what is going with the changes you are going through was very exciting. I bet most men remember the first time they came from jerking off. Men of a certain age know what the classic hustler sitting pose was. It was fantasy but, I never saw full on hardcore porn till I was much older. Going to a strip joint seemed like a rite of passage when I turned 21 but, you realize quickly it is a waste of money and time. The girl in most cases is not going home with you just a fantasy. Some people are into that and more power to them but, I am not going to spend 20 bucks for a short three songs lap dance over booking an SP for a couple hours. If I go to a strip club today usually when I am out of town. It is very rare and only to have a beer and maybe put a dollar or two for the MainStage dancer, not going to the VIP room.
I cannot imagine what would have gone through my mind let alone the minds of a boy today introduced to a porno film by his friends, or a google search on their phone at a much younger age than I was, in the early 80s if I had the access of today back than. A magazine, I knew I liked looking at a beautiful nude woman but, it was a static image. The films and situations out there are crazy, you can find almost anything. It is too young to be exposed to that and minds are so malleable at that age. It has to have an affect on your psychosis at a young age and how you think about women. There was a release of statistics on viewing preferences by men and women on pornhub a while back and it is pretty scary that the number one category for men was teens. I think for women it was Lesbian sex. I don't blame any SP at all if they have stringent screening requirements or some that have a password on their website. Your safety has to be your top concern.
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Normalisation of a kink while stripping away the safe part (consent and so) is not ok. So bizarre
You can do that at a regular bar too! I wouldn't go to a fancy restaurant just to use the WiFi for example when I can do that at McDonald's
Well, at least. Lol
Aw I think Mimi is a cute nickname, in France they use it to mean mignonne (cute)
Well, I mean I am not a big drinker and sometimes when I go to a strip joint I just sit at the main bar. The one place I went to in Montreal was a huge disappointment. The bartenders were more attractive than the dancers. I had heard so many stories about Montreal dancers back in the day but, I never went when I was younger. Now maybe because I went on a weeknight or the wrong place. It was called Chez something on St Catherine's I think. Sure I can get a beer at a regular bar but, seeing a pretty woman dance once in a while is nice while having a beer.
Good thing you're only paying the bartender then I guess? /s
So I don't know if the info is lost on you but : these women are at work and don't get paid a hourly wage.
I'm sure listening to live jazz music while scrolling merb would be fantastic too but like I said, sitting at a table at Modavie in the old port just to use the WiFi wouldn't be super nice
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