SP doesn't speak English

[AdeleBeaumont]

I believe this situation must be more common outside of Quebec but I'm still going to ask here.
Has it ever happened to you to meet with an SP that could barely speak English or French? If so, how did you manage communication? Did it kill the mood?

 

[protagoras]

Communication is the cornerstone, the basis, of all relationships. I think that this applies to the relationship between a courtesean and an SP. For me it is mandatory that you can at least be able to communicate - even minimally - in the language of the SP you meet.

Saint Ambroise wrote this: When in Rome, do as the Romans do. Hobbying almost exclusively in Brazil, I regularly meet SP that can barely speak English or French. As I am fluent in French, English, Spanish, Portuguese, German and Creole I always made a point of conversing with an SP in her mother tounge. For me, speaking in another language (and, as a corollary, learning other cultures), is part of the pleasure of hobbying abroad.

Being unable to communicate in the language of an SP is the ''glory hole'' of the mind....

 

[Carmine Falcone]

I've been in that situation before when my French wasn't as strong and it definitely makes the interaction less exciting.
Conversation is a big part of the experience. Yeah, you want to rock her world but communication definitely eases the rocking-her-world part.

As I am fluent in French, English, Spanish, Portuguese, German and Creole...

Respect to you polyglots. It's obvious some people have the neural wiring to pick up new languages easier than others.

 

[remuus]

to be polyglot is great, i need more effective study french

 

[Julia Sky]

I have never met a blind customer and I’ve been escorting for 3 years now!

 

[The Nature Boy]

Happens a lot to guys who travel.

It will either be one of the best sessions you have, or one of the worst.

If she is really into a session, she will go overboard with physical activity during the hour between cum number 1 and cum number 2 to get him going again, instead of talking. There are probably a few guys who secretly prefer that, as antisocial as it sounds.
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couldnt say it better. For me it depends on the lady. I usually won’t book more than an hour with non English speakers. If the providers a real go getter u won’t even need google translate. Sometimes you will just know what each other is saying. kinda like how George Clooney and brad Pitt knew what the little chinese acrobatic man In oceans 11 was saying to them. So far for me, blaaaa experiences had more to do with the sexual chem being off or provider not giving it their all.

i also used to think you couldn’t have a good session if the two of you couldn’t communicate, but I bit the bullet after a really cool SP was “how much are we really going to be talking?” Lol. She was right, she was awesome, and i don’t let language stop me now when seeing someone.

 

[jalimon]

Wrote about this before. One of the best session in my life was in Barcelona. The girl was ftom Hungary. She spoke Hungarian which surprisingly i do not, and Spannish only.

A lot of google translate, some spannish i know and having to mimic a dog by going Wouf Wouf to say I wanted to go doggy helped for a crazy session Hum got to be honnest too she was stunningly beautiful with natural DD boobs... that helps!

I even managed to bring her to an outside pub right by my hotel for a few drinks after... When chemistry is there language is less important.

The next day i had another girl. That one i was truly happy she spoke english...

cheers,

 

[AdeleBeaumont]

Serious question for Kayla and anyone else on the board.

Do you get a lot of blind customers?.

I have never had a blind customer but I’ve had someone who was deaf. Everything went great. It was a different experience for both of us.


I like to talk, everyone who has met me could tell you that I am cute shy but I talk a lot and smile a lot. I don’t want our session to be just about sex, some people need more than just that. So yes, if someone couldn’t speak in French, English, Spanish or Japanese. I would have a hard time communicating with them

 

[EdaBlackwood]

I have never met a blind customer and I’ve been escorting for 3 years now!

I actually have 3 legally blind clients. They still have some vision but walk with canes. Although I cant really discern why Patron brought this up as an interesting aside.

I am really happy to see so many board members believe in communication. I have the hardest time securing anglophone clients here (while I do speak french I do not speak enough to negotiate work thoroughly or comfortably) and it is often met with hostility.

 

[AdeleBeaumont]

Jali, if you ever plan on seeing that Hungarian lady again and want to impress her, PM me lol.

Can I PM you too? I have an Hungarian gentleman that I'd love to surprise

 

[applebaum]

I live in San Diego, so hobby in Tijuana. I started learning Spanish to speak with the SPs. It does make the session so much better.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Happened to me at the Econolodge a couple of times, now I always request an English speaking escort. Need to chat a little instead of just grunting and pointing at my dick.
Same with the Asians in Vancouver, suck suck and you so big gets tiring.... and the you so big I know is BS.

 

[jalimon]

Happened to me at the Econolodge a couple of times, now I always request an English speaking escort. Need to chat a little instead of just grunting and pointing at my dick.
Same with the Asians in Vancouver, suck suck and you so big gets tiring.... and the you so big I know is BS.

haha funny. I remember once asking if I could finish in her mouth... She said Yes yes so big so big haha

Cheers,

 

[AdeleBeaumont]

I live in San Diego, so hobby in Tijuana. I started learning Spanish to speak with the SPs. It does make the session so much better.

Very sweet of you to learn a few words for them, they must be very special

 

[arrowdec]

This is often the case with escorts from MAE; they speak only a handful of words in English. While some common terms, "harder", "slowly", "doggie", "stop", etc, they understand, using hand motions/signals is not uncommon. I would wager this applies to a number of younger Asian SPs.

Truthfully? Get into a good enough mood with a woman, ask/take a pause/indicate before doing something unusual or stupid, and you don't need to worry too much about talking if all you want is the physical element. I'd say talking adds a great layer, from dirty talk to setting proper boundaries, and is something I enjoy having. But, sometimes, I can't resist a beautiful young Chinese woman, and I have yet to be disappointed there.

 

[luvdozer]

Typically, i research the girls before booking them when I am visiting Montreal and i dont book a girl when the review says she speaks no english at all. However, during one of my trips, I was really enamored with Yara's (XO) pics and I booked her. I simply had not noticed that she does not speak english and Sam didnt mention it because it never really came up in our discussions. When she arrived and we both learned that we didnt speak a word of eachother's language, I could see that she became nervous. I just skipped the usual chit chat over wine and cheese and went to the bedroom. It was a little awkward for a minute but we got past it pretty fast.

I would say that not speaking any english at all deprives me of one of the things I specifically come to Montreal to enjoy - the fun of flirting and chatting with a pretty girl before real GFE sex. I have booked several girls whose english was pretty limited - Angie from euphoria comes to mind - but even limited english and a fun personality is all that is needed for a great session.

 

[Halloween Mike]

My main language is french, i much prefer when providers are able to speak it. I do speak english but i got accent and its not as natural to me as speaking french(written is a different thing), so in the context of an SP meeting it kinda add a bit of stress when she only speak english but ultimately ill roll with it. I never met anyone who spoke neither french or english. If i knew it in advance i guess i could prepare and write some files and such, but if i would be on the spot i would be very uncomfortable with the situation. Unless she would have a super friendly attitude and physical aura and put me at great ease, i think i would call back the agency to cancel.