1- GFE is not GFE anymore: now, you have to double check about the DFK and DATY parts before booking with an agency, but if the trend continues, you'll have to double check the BBBJ (or just plain BJ) part as well in 2024.
Times have changed ... 2023 GFE/PSE is not the same as 2000 GFE/PSE. Even in civilian relationships. When I was younger, dating a cute girl that swallowed - was instant wife material. Fast forward to just a few years ago, I met a rather conservative looking girl that swore she only enjoyed anal sex and considered vaginal sex was only for the few times she felt romantic. She would ask me to cum on her face every night so she could rub into her skin like a face cream. I don't even know what category I would place that in.
Lots of people seem to really be adamant about DFK... but from the SPs POV, I can also understand why they could be reluctant. Next time you see a girl you're open with, just for the fun of it, ask her to show you the worst DFK a John insisted on doing with her... I feel bad for the shit they have to endure sometimes.
2- Physical ratings are inflated: By giving 10s left and right, you lose credibility by creating false expectations, hence disappointment.
I agree with you. As more Johns enter the conversation the more unreliable it gets. The only way it works is if everyone comparing have comparable tastes and similar scale (ex: Anchored Rating Scales).
For example, a porn star I just can't find attractive is Mia Khalifa. Her face to me is a 3-4/10 max, but I know a ton of guys that give her a 10/10 - nobody is right or wrong, just have different tastes right? Many sites have removed multi-axis star ratings and replaced with simple up-down voting, some places don't even have the downvotes anymore. Perhaps there are better ways?
3- The industrialization and dehumanization of sex work: The Incall business model implemented by XO and Euphoria is a financial success for them. Their girls get fully booked really fast. BUT... 90% of the sessions are 1h sessions with really short breaks in between. What do you think is going on? There's 0 intimacy, 0 romanticism and, in the end, pretty much 0 human connection. 18-22 yo spinners get pounded up to 5-6 times a day, day in day out, by a line up of guys eagerly waiting for their turn outside. I'm sorry but there's nothing appealing about this... quite the opposite when you really think about it.
Industrial.... you've been to Econo Brossard or to a full service strip club right? Those are way more hardcore in my opinion... you can practically smell the lube as you enter the door with used condoms overflowing the minature garbage.
Eupho and XO 1h session, considering its really 45-50 min and rarely full sex for that time. Really, 1h session is a 20-30 min physical session for which you're paying an hour for. Which I think is more than sufficient. But if a guy really wants intimacy and romance... he might as well book for 2-3 hours. Perhaps that's what people really associate with a GFE?
4- Indy rates: I get it... you got expenses and you're worth it. What's funny though is that at this price (and, dare I say, age) range, your targeted audience is a lot smaller.
I might not always agree with their "evaluation", but hey, if they can reach the success they're looking for good for them. In the end, somethig is only worth what someone else is willing to pay for it. You can sometimes get a feel for the market though, discounts are often a sign that sales aren't great. Ego is a very cruel thing when you're an entrepreneur, can't imagine how much more it might hurt in the sex industry. I know a few girls that make an ok living but nowhere near what they would want others to think. The "fake it 'till you become it" is really popular out there ... but that's a sucker's play.
Also I've always had a bit of an issue when they say : Do you realize how much I have to pay to get my hair done, my makeup, my nails, gym, etc..... I always ask myself, but wouldn't you regardless? That's 100% a you thing. We all have expenses, that's why we work in the first place. I can't just tripple my price because I want to have a Lambo and expect my clients to be happy about it. They would drop me in a heartbeat and walk away hysterically.
Besides, nice to see a women that takes care of herself, but the reality, I've rarely met a guy that cared enough for that. I offer it to my gfs because it makes them happy, but in all honesty as long as her nails are clean, I don't really care how they are decorated. Its even worst with an SP, that just means your grip is going to be weak due to those horrific nails, I won't be able to pull on your hair cause you got extensions, and cum on your face will reveal 50 shades of makeup.... ya no thanks.
*I'm sorry - to all I may have offended with crude but honest remarks and writing style.
