The Bitching thread

[DouMan]

SCREENING - PROVIDING YOUR ID

What's up with the screening, guys? Like on all social media in this day and age, are we willing to give up our intimacy and anonymity in hopes of meeting an SP?

- Your driver's licence?​

- Your LinkedIn?​

I have no problem with my regulars / fav knowing me on a very personal level, but then they are few and far in between.

For Indies especially, screening MUST be done. There must be different, reliable ways.

Just thinking out loud here but how about making both sides equal?

The lady asks for my drivers license, or personal facebook account, or personal linkdn?
No problem, in exchange of her exact same information.

Not too sure that boat would really float.

 

[AirBo]

I will just reiterate what I mentioned in other threads (where my comments keep being removed because not being relevant to the thread…)

This is one of the reasons I made this thread. So review threads don't get polluted with back and forth.

Come bitching here and talk about it

 

[DouMan]

Some good points but trust me you dont want the government involved

They'd probably call it S Cul du Qu

 

[LC18]

The lady asks for my drivers license, or personal facebook account, or personal linkdn?
No problem, in exchange of her exact same information.

So that we can be stalked, followed and maybe worse?

So that if she doesn’t give a good service you can harass her in her personal life?

Sounds like a good idea…

We are a lot more vulnerable than our clients so this is not a very realistic approach.

 

[Fradi]

Whats the saying? The last thing anyone wants to hear is “we’re from the government and we’re here to help”

It is exactly like when Russia decided to help all the iron curtain countries and now Ukraine.

 

[NoChurchInTheWild]

So that we can be stalked, followed and maybe worse?

So that if she doesn’t give a good service you can harass her in her personal life?

Sounds like a good idea…

We are a lot more vulnerable than our clients so this is not a very realistic approach.

yup. what an idiotic post by him.

 

[Fradi]

So that we can be stalked, followed and maybe worse?

So that if she doesn’t give a good service you can harass her in her personal life?

Sounds like a good idea…

We are a lot more vulnerable than our clients so this is not a very realistic approach.

I totally agree with you however where I don’t agree is that most of you make out as if giving out our personal identification is totally safe and it is like handing it over when you get a drivers licence. That is not the case at all, there are many horror stories with clients being harassed and threatened as well. Yes if you do your research you reduce your chances of that happening but it is not nearly as safe as SP make it out to be.

I know you have said that if someone is not comfortable doing that they should move on and that is exactly what I do.

 

[cpp433]

yup. what an idiotic post by him.

No not really, u think the same shit couldnt be done by a lady? Extorting men threats to expose their activities to their jobs, LE, significant others???? Please dude, see this is the thinking that i was just talking about!!!

 

[Fradi]

No not really, u think the same shit couldnt be done by a lady? Extorting men threats to expose their activities to their jobs, LE, significant others???? Please dude, see this is the thinking that i was just talking about!!!

I don’t think that it happens nearly as much and I totally agree with LC18 that an SP is in a much more vulnerable position than clients most times as it is their livelihood and for a reputable SP it doesn’t make sense to screw it up.
However what you say does happen and it is not a one in a million occurrence and not nearly as safe as SP make it out to be so for that reason no I will never give my government ID to an SP I have never met before.

 

[cpp433]

Right, i didn't mean to insinuate it was common practice, nor do i believe gentleman are rabidly attacking the ladies in droves either, so fuck it if were gonna do it then we both give our personal info then we both have skin in the game and much less likely either party fucks over the other

As far as when it does happen its usually when the lady will be leaving the industry and the reputation no longer matters, it was quite awhile ago and only twice I remember a lady really screwing guys over, both were very popular a d well respected ladies in the industry, one was in niagara falls, the other in montreal, so to believe their reputation will protect you is naive

 

[DouMan]

So that we can be stalked, followed and maybe worse?

So that if she doesn’t give a good service you can harass her in her personal life?

Sounds like a good idea…

We are a lot more vulnerable than our clients so this is not a very realistic approach.

Yes I agree with you that the odds are in fact quit different, even though the John could also be harassed or stalked by pimps.

This being said, my comment was effectively based only on the top layer of the subject.

It goes without saying that the ladies safety is much more at risk.

So ... guess my boat just sank

 

[Fradi]

Not only that but if you don’t like to screen, guess what legalization would do? You really want to get a receipt for the sexual services you’ve purchased?

If it was tax deductible yes.
It is an essential life service after all.

 

[AlmostMidaged]

I desire to pay DFK and DATY a nice woman tonight, despite it being 8pm the day after Christmas. Lol. Years ago I could scour the web and accomplish my desire. It wouldn’t be easy, but it was acheivable. Random announce sites had dishonesty, but it didn’t feel so prevalent. Perhaps time has made me more skeptic. Perhaps all my acquired knowledge has dulled my desire in tandem with my plummeting testosterone.

I want someone to turn back time for me! Let me experience that rush of last minute satisfaction! Give me back my glorious youth! Let me retain the memories and knowledge I have now and love back then!

 

[DouMan]

yup. what an idiotic post by him.

Paleese refrain on the harsh words. I am a very sensitive person and tend to shed a tear when spoken to in such a mannner.

More seriously now, no disrespect was meant to either parties and, as explained, my comment was top layer based on mutual trust between John + SP.

Sadly we must admit that the % of shit head Johns would never allow such a venue.

Love you too @NoChurchInTheWild

 

[Fradi]

I want someone to turn back time for me! Let me experience that rush of last minute satisfaction! Give me back my glorious youth!

Not going to happen but here is an idea.
With an ample amount of $$$ there are many gorgeous SP who will happily relive your youth with you.

 

[AirBo]

When I was younger, dating a cute girl that swallowed - was instant wife material

Sophie! Marissa! Melanie F! Melanie B! Brenda! Benedicte! Laetitia! Sandy! Barbara! Florence! Virginie! Claire! Minnie! Mégane! Irina! Emilie!

Fast forward to just a few years ago, I met a rather conservative looking girl that swore she only enjoyed anal sex ............. She would ask me to cum on her face every night

Karine! Clara!

 

[MCTJ]

Personally I have nothing to complain about, except for the inconvenience of outcall agencies often being 15-30 min late, but that's understandable. Generally speaking though I found that my experiences have improved by switching from incall to outcall agencies, which is reflected in point 3: the industrialization of the (incall) agency business. Outcall girls tend to be in a better mood due to the fact that they have time to relax in the car and to socialize with other girls (or the driver) between clients.

Regarding the purpoted lack of GFE service, that's not something I have exeprerienced with Vog and Luxury. I always make sure to have an impeccable hygiene (fresh shower, good breath, shaved facial hair, clean haircut, clean hands/nails) and to be polite and respectful. I believe this goes a long way in making sure the SP is comfortable to provide her best service.

 

[AirBo]

GIRLS STATS ON AGENCY WEBSITES

Except for XO and Euphoria who dominate the "teen spinner" market, having some basic notions of "Escorts Mathematics 101" is a must.

- Age = Age + 5​

- Weight = Weight + 20​

If you keep that in mind, you won't be disappointed.

 

[MCTJ]

GIRLS STATS ON AGENCY WEBSITES

Except for XO and Euphoria who dominate the "teen spinner" market, having some basic notions of "Escorts Mathematics 101" is a must.

- Age = Age + 5​

- Weight = Weight + 20​

If you keep that in mind, you won't be disappointed.

Also worth noting that some escorts have a superpower in that their age stays constant with the passage of time

 

[AirBo]

NEW IN THE BUSINESS!!!

Some girls seem to be "New to the business" forever. Which leads me to ask: How many c*cks does it take to upgrade status?