Nice words, I am attracted to nice curvy hips and a nice firm behindalong with the sensuality that comes with.
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Nice words, I am attracted to nice curvy hips and a nice firm behindalong with the sensuality that comes with.
So long as the posts respect Merb rules that is no personal insults, etc.. the Mods will not intervene.
Haha, I don't think mods can really give the final answer on body type preferences, whether men or women are more superficial, or if Indies are inherently duplicitous. Seems like the debates are as old as time (except maybe the Indy one is more contemporary?).
Yes, those were the kind of debates conducted in the forum of Rome
spinners or bbws that is the question.Yes, those were the kind of debates conducted in the forum of Rome
Hilarious! This forum is lacking thumbs up buttons though!
No, you are not the only one. I read the 1st paragraph with a British accent, then I had to switch to a Borat accent when I read him fantasizing about a 400 pounds bald lady.
I have to say that the initial post screams of body shaming individuals who don't fit the so called Hollywood Beauty. The generalization and stereotyping of Independents as all fat, overweight, out of shape is misleading and false.
What I love about the Independents in Montreal is the spectrum of beauty that one can encounter.
When a person limits their perspective of what constitutes beauty, they limit their means to fulling experiences in life.
What I love about the Independents in Montreal is the spectrum of beauty that one can encounter.
When a person limits their perspective of what constitutes beauty, they limit their means to fulling experiences in life.
To a certain degree, I think the OP has a few valid points (ie. some SPs that post inaccurate photos of themselves, etc), but he certainly could have put it in better terms. Calling ladies "fat women", etc is not cool, and I don't agree with the bluntness of the overall post. It's very disrespectful, imho.
Also this guy is on a review board for crying out loud! Maybe doing a little research beforehand would've helped???
Also if you're hitting backpage for your hobbying needs, you really are asking for disappointment.
Also this guy is on a review board for crying out loud! Maybe doing a little research beforehand would've helped???
Also if you're hitting backpage for your hobbying needs, you really are asking for disappointment.
been singing with my band :rockon:
across the water, across the landlane:
I've seen every blue eyed floozy on the way :kiss:
but their beauty and their style :eyebrows:
Went kind of smooth after a while :yawn:
take me to them naughty ladies every time :hail::canada:
across the water, across the land
lane:I've seen every blue eyed floozy on the way :kiss:
but their beauty and their style :eyebrows:
Went kind of smooth after a while :yawn:
take me to them naughty ladies every time :hail::canada:
We should all thank the mods for being patient with this thread.
They could have shut it down with the opening post that reeked of misogynist rot.
The could have shut it down after my whitey knighty response to the op`s misdirected anger.
They could have shut it after a few misogynist creeps crawled out of the closet to make excuses for this pathetic individual.
No they let it ride and we saw angelic responses from some of the indies such as Delilah and Allanah.
Its interesting how a thread like this will be fertile ground to sprout both thorny weeds and beautiful flowers.
They could have shut it down with the opening post that reeked of misogynist rot.
The could have shut it down after my whitey knighty response to the op`s misdirected anger.
They could have shut it after a few misogynist creeps crawled out of the closet to make excuses for this pathetic individual.
No they let it ride and we saw angelic responses from some of the indies such as Delilah and Allanah.
Its interesting how a thread like this will be fertile ground to sprout both thorny weeds and beautiful flowers.
I felt the same way, and I was initially angry at the OP, but that was soon replaced by pity and sadness. I pity those who are so close-minded and ignorant that they cannot be respectful of others, and of the preferences of others. One of the things that I have always felt was so empowering about this industry, specifically the independent scene, is that it allowed opportunity for all types of women to flourish, regardless of body type, race, education, age... However I am cheered by the numerous positive responses in this thread and I continue to believe that the majority of gentlemen on this forum are in fact gentlemen.
Even those "healthy weight range" figures can be misleading. For instance, AR's website indicates that she is 5-1 and 160 pounds. And, based on photos, she might be classified as "thick," but most definitely not fat. My view is that she is a curvy and beautiful young lady.
I have a few points...
First, to the people who say that I seem pissed off or angry, yes I am, and for good reasons! That happens when you get scammed of hundreds of dollars several times. As a man, my job is not to give a lot of money to women just for fun like some people seem to think here. "Why is he angry? He was just scammed of 600$, I don't understand" is how you sound. I get scammed and I am the bad guy?
Second, to those who say that "people have different tastes"... Really? Then why 90% of SPs lie about their weight by claiming they are more skinny than they really are then? This doesn't fit with your narrative that people have different tastes. In fact it proves that slim women are much more in demand. There is a reason why serious agencies don't accept fat women among their ranks. It's bad business. A single fat woman in an good agency could cause the agency to lose all business and the agency would close. Yes, there is a demand for fat women, but it's far from being the majority of the demand. If there was such a demand for fat women, you would not need to scam men by using fake pictures and fake descriptions.
Third. The purpose of this site. The purpose of Merb was (and I specify it in the past because I am not sure it's still the case) for hobbysts to share reviews of girls to avoid being scammed and to make the hobby better for the clients. Merb wasn't created for white knights to defend the feelings of overweight women. It was made for the clients. If you want to ban me because of my thread, then it would just show that Merb is going down the drain. Several people already agreed that was I described in my first post is real. A lot of people think like me but I might be the first to say it openly.
I'll just use an example that happened to me. There is a famous indy who posted ads on Merb that I won't name. I am not sure if she still has ads. She demands over 300$. Her picture shows a nice body with huge tits. It's not really skinny, but not really fat either. So I checked the reviews on Merb : a bunch of positive reviews. So I meet her. I could not believe it. She was like 5 feet 11, 200 pounds. It was horrible! Afterwards, I felt like I just fucked a man. I am still not sure to this day. She was disgusting. Yet the reviews on Merb praised her and didn't mention her real appearance. You see, that's the problem here. There is too much shilling. We can't even trust reviews. People need to be able to speak up their thoughts to make this hobby better.
First, to the people who say that I seem pissed off or angry, yes I am, and for good reasons! That happens when you get scammed of hundreds of dollars several times. As a man, my job is not to give a lot of money to women just for fun like some people seem to think here. "Why is he angry? He was just scammed of 600$, I don't understand" is how you sound. I get scammed and I am the bad guy?
Second, to those who say that "people have different tastes"... Really? Then why 90% of SPs lie about their weight by claiming they are more skinny than they really are then? This doesn't fit with your narrative that people have different tastes. In fact it proves that slim women are much more in demand. There is a reason why serious agencies don't accept fat women among their ranks. It's bad business. A single fat woman in an good agency could cause the agency to lose all business and the agency would close. Yes, there is a demand for fat women, but it's far from being the majority of the demand. If there was such a demand for fat women, you would not need to scam men by using fake pictures and fake descriptions.
Third. The purpose of this site. The purpose of Merb was (and I specify it in the past because I am not sure it's still the case) for hobbysts to share reviews of girls to avoid being scammed and to make the hobby better for the clients. Merb wasn't created for white knights to defend the feelings of overweight women. It was made for the clients. If you want to ban me because of my thread, then it would just show that Merb is going down the drain. Several people already agreed that was I described in my first post is real. A lot of people think like me but I might be the first to say it openly.
I'll just use an example that happened to me. There is a famous indy who posted ads on Merb that I won't name. I am not sure if she still has ads. She demands over 300$. Her picture shows a nice body with huge tits. It's not really skinny, but not really fat either. So I checked the reviews on Merb : a bunch of positive reviews. So I meet her. I could not believe it. She was like 5 feet 11, 200 pounds. It was horrible! Afterwards, I felt like I just fucked a man. I am still not sure to this day. She was disgusting. Yet the reviews on Merb praised her and didn't mention her real appearance. You see, that's the problem here. There is too much shilling. We can't even trust reviews. People need to be able to speak up their thoughts to make this hobby better.
Great point. Obviously Birds felt so frustrated he felt he had to vent. Too bad he made some wholesale insulting stereotyping. A bad and unnecessary idea but an understandable reaction when you've been deceived, including what he sees as an attempted ripoff, and had a lot of time wasted. I'd be very frustrated also as would the rest of us.
If he's local he's lucky he can move on quickly. For travelers it's worse.
One emotionally overwrought customer won't change preferences of any kind. The ladies are understandably upset by the insult to them but it's not going to change their earning power with those who like them. The market will say where any escor or agency stands.
The real lesson is check things out with someone who can help. Don't go by adds alone. They are meant to increase sales, not testify to the truth. Get help from others who have met the escort you are considering or use a trusted member or booker for good info. Otherwise you are creating risks you don't have to take if you handle choices wisely.
Good luck
I didn't see your new post before I made this one. Really??? Do any of us ever expect any lady or agency to give a precise weight and height and update it daily.
So you accepted sex with someone you say was 5'11", 200 lbs after saying you like 110 to 120 lbs. OUCH! Credibility!!! Very damaging.
Bird, you my friend, are a fool. I am proof that you are so wrong it's sad.
When I first started in this industry, I worked for an agency. By far I was the fattest girl there, and I was working alongside some gorgeous, victoria's secret model-types. I was the most popular girl there, this is a fact, and not my imagination. Why? Because there are already so many slim girls out there, that that all look the same at agencies after awhile, and people like variety.
Why don't serious agencies accept fat girls? It's not because there isn't a demand for it you silly man. It's because they think, like you, that we aren't a popular body type, and therefore they don't know how to market us properly.
I met with a popular Montreal agency when I first moved here to sign up with them, they told me "we can't promise you'll do well, bigger girls usually don't" well unfortunately for them, I knew how wrong they were from the previous agency, so I decided to go independent instead of working for an agency that doesn't understand the market, and by God look at me now!
Go away Bird, you're a sad soul.
Also, in reference to BMI, it's been proven time and again that BMI Stats are not an accurate representation of health.
When I first started in this industry, I worked for an agency. By far I was the fattest girl there, and I was working alongside some gorgeous, victoria's secret model-types. I was the most popular girl there, this is a fact, and not my imagination. Why? Because there are already so many slim girls out there, that that all look the same at agencies after awhile, and people like variety.
Why don't serious agencies accept fat girls? It's not because there isn't a demand for it you silly man. It's because they think, like you, that we aren't a popular body type, and therefore they don't know how to market us properly.
I met with a popular Montreal agency when I first moved here to sign up with them, they told me "we can't promise you'll do well, bigger girls usually don't" well unfortunately for them, I knew how wrong they were from the previous agency, so I decided to go independent instead of working for an agency that doesn't understand the market, and by God look at me now!
Go away Bird, you're a sad soul.
While I appreciate the point you're trying to make samclemens, I am a proud fatty and still beautiful nonetheless. You can be beautiful AND fat, the two are not exclusive of each other
Also, in reference to BMI, it's been proven time and again that BMI Stats are not an accurate representation of health.
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