In my experience, the only johns that escorts term "losers" are either drunk/high, unclean (smell bad), overly aggressive (physical), or do purposely something that was told as a limit (such as CIM).
Like any group, the SP population is made up of all sorts of people. An SP who calls me a loser just because I'm not interested in cruising noisy clubs is an airhead. I could care less what an airhead thinks. The SPs that I know to be quality individuals seem to like me just fine. So no worries.
To not make this thread against SP's, ( I think they are fantastic people )..... lost my thought pattern... Anyways, SP's rock.... People who worry, not so much..
Have has a few cocktails and a few bowls of cereal so need to add..... Men with pink shirts and white sunglasses..... Really ound: ( Sorry, seen one at the bank today ).
i have met both types of women
majority of the ones who would think you're a loser ARE the airheads
some might not be attracted to you but dont think less of you
some will think you're a loser cuz you act like one