Unjustified bad reviews

[Fradi]

It is only now I am starting to realize how lucky I have been with the Indy’s I have been seeing.
There is never an alarm set, they have never rushed me out, I am the one usually reminding them that it is time, and in most cases the answer is, don’t worry, relax finish your wine, and take your time with the shower.

Most will treat you that way when you are kind and respectful and generous with them.
It is always a two way street.
I have yet to try agencies, for now I am quite satisfied with the Indy’s that advertise on Merb.

 

[ShyMan]

It is only now I am starting to realize how lucky I have been with the Indy’s I have been seeing.

I'll look up your reviews on these Indies. (I've been scared away by their requests for much higher donations, as compared to agency ladies. So reviews that focus on services and actual experiences would be helpful.)

 

[Halloween Mike]

I also began setting my own alarm in self defense because on occasion some girls would start their clocks when they arrived at the hotel entrance, and cut short our time together. And occasionally no one would set the alarm, and an argument would ensue regarding what time did she arrive and how much time was left remaining. Needless to say, such arguments effectively ruined the mood for the session. And yes, sometimes I would put this in the review, but it can all be prevented.

I rarely "need to use all my time" personally , only time i did was when we talked a bit too much at the beginning, wich is partly my fault for not cutting it short. I used to be more shy than now and would only "speed things up" at the 20 minutes mark but nowadays i cut it to 10 mins max because otherwise im the one thats loosing on what i pay for. If we end up finishing 20 mins before the end then we can talk. It seem easier too, since we got into an intimate moment i feel it flows more naturally most of the time. Plus she is naked while talking and we can be laying on the bed, its just better all around. Also i don't have the stress to finish on time.

I don't set an alarm per say because it would be a bit akward, at least if she don't go to the bathroom before we start, but when i hear the knock on the door i always look at the time so i know exactly when my time will end. There was ONE time i was really cheated on time, a long time ago (2011 or so) , the person i saw appeared to be on molly and/or just wanted to rush me but her atttitude was weird and recalling it , it was one of my worst session. She refused to get naked , saying her "costume" took too much time to put back on, so she just popped her breast out (the panties part was removable) , she litteraly hurted me while sucking as she was way too hard on my dick, sex was ok, but short, and eventually i still managed to cum (i was youger, greener in the hobby) and she allowed me to jerk in her mouth, also physically she was nice looking, but then after i cam, she got to the bathroom, dressed back up and said she had to leave because she had other clients. She was out with a full 20 minutes left on the clock. Then again would i really have wanted to lay in bed with her talking? Chemistry was zero pis une barre as we say in french.

The agency offered me a free session to make it up but only with her, since it happened with her, they said "she want to make it up to you" but first i didn't really wanted to see her again, and i wasn't ready to come back in Montreal until months later and had no idea if they would had honor it. Eventually the agency shut down and this is pretty much when Goodgirls opened and i started to use them most of the time.

At least i did came and had services, but really a bad session all around.

 

[EagerBeaver]

The guys who complain about having the last 10 minutes cut off should book another half hour so they don’t have to rush and have extra time. Problem solved. If it’s that important that it’s the basis for a bad review there is no reason not to book the extra half hour. Either you can take care of your business in 50 minutes or not. It’s totally a foreseeable issue.

In fact, BTO wrote a famous song about Taking Care of Business in the allotted time:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=NCIUf8eYPqA

 

[Glendon]

Oh you know... I think a very good % of bad reviews come from a mantrum lol. Lots of clients will say "she’s a clock watcher" when what they really mean is "I tried to overstay". Lots of guys will say "Service was mechanical" in order to avoid saying "She was good but for x reason my dick wouldn’t get up". Lots of bad reviews have to be taken with a grain of salt because one thing you learn with time is guys review their own self here too, not just the girl, and if anything touches a man’s ego (like a soft dick or not being able to overstay or bend someone’s boundaries), they can be very childish lol

You are quick to defend negative reviews. You always defend escorts even when they are at fault, yet you are the same girl who belittled other escorts when we met.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Oh you know... I think a very good % of bad reviews come from a mantrum lol. Lots of clients will say "she’s a clock watcher" when what they really mean is "I tried to overstay". Lots of guys will say "Service was mechanical" in order to avoid saying "She was good but for x reason my dick wouldn’t get up". Lots of bad reviews have to be taken with a grain of salt because one thing you learn with time is guys review their own self here too, not just the girl, and if anything touches a man’s ego (like a soft dick or not being able to overstay or bend someone’s boundaries), they can be very childish lol

REPLYING TO THE ABOVE QUOTE:

You are quick to defend negative reviews.

The quote of Julia Sky you put up did not "defend" negative reviews, it shed a different light on them as not being so much a statement about the escort as they are of the reviewer. Julia is correct that in many cases, reviews are ego driven, good and bad, and her point is a valid one. Reviews must be seen in this light to fully evaluate their informational value.

 

[Glendon]

REPLYING TO THE ABOVE QUOTE:



The quote of Julia Sky you put up did not "defend" negative reviews, it shed a different light on them as not being so much a statement about the escort as they are of the reviewer. Julia is correct that in many cases, reviews are ego driven, good and bad, and her point is a valid one. Reviews must be seen in this light to fully evaluate their informational value.

Here is part of her statement: " Lots of bad reviews have to be taken with a grain of salt"

 

[Glendon]

I posted a negative review about a girl. It quickly got deleted. The girl kind of admitted that she did not keep her words. Her excuse, she was new which was a lie. I had seen her ads a year before we met. My review was ego driven and I was throwing a mantrum? What ego? You are paying for sex. Ego is not even part of the equation. Better save the ego for something else.

 

[Flyingby]

You are quick to defend negative reviews. You always defend escorts even when they are at fault, yet you are the same girl who belittled other escorts when we met.

Yeh...you are pretty much the definition of her mantrum post. I can just hear the whiny voice.
She lied in her ads. Indy...humpchies not reviewed on merb. Your odds are 50/50

 

[Fradi]

Not to sound too much like a white knight,
well ok I will be exactly that.

I have seen Julia several times and have talked to her often.
She is one of the sweetest and most honest SP I have met, who does defend other SP, yet when they outright step out of line is not afraid to call it and has spoken out several times in defence of clients also on her Twitter. An equal opportunity kind of girl but obviously knows much more about being an SP and their life than any client ever will.

I do agree with her that many negative reviews are probably a reflection of a pissed of John who was not able to perform or get what he wanted out of it.
As far as ego, I have read many reviews, and based on them, with all the orgasms provided by Merb Johns and their fabulous skills these ladies should undoubtedly be paying us and none of this has anything to do with the male ego at all.

Sadly I seem to skimp in the orgasm giving department, instead I provide, wine, snacks, gift certificate, and a whole lot of kindness and respect, I am working on the humour part, that doesn’t cost anything.

Should negative reviews be written, yes, but with a whole lot of self reflection prior and why ruin a girls reputation and livelihood over a couple of hundred bucks when you are not 100 % sure you were not part of the problem.

These SP also talk and know each other and have their own network, they can spot a negative review that is not warranted a mile away, what do you think your chances are of getting an above average session form one of these ladies if you happen to book them next.

 

[Glendon]

Yeh...you are pretty much the definition of her mantrum post. I can just hear the whiny voice.
She lied in her ads. Indy...humpchies not reviewed on merb. Your odds are 50/50

Your odds of being a douchebag and ass kisser are 10^(∞)/100

 

[Flyingby]

Your odds of being a douchebag and as kisser are 10^(∞)/100

Don’t know about douchebag. But asS kisser oh yeh. I love to doggy position daty and then move to dato. Something about kissing and lightly biting an ass gets me ready for round 3 and 4!

Fradi: well said!

 

[Glendon]

Fradi

I started seeing escorts in late 2014. At the time I was in my late 20s. Over the years, I have met some really nice girls and a lot of bad ones too. Almost, all of the bad ones were not from MERB. I no longer wish to see any escorts. I have retired.

 

[Glendon]

Don’t know about douchebag. But asS kisser oh yeh. I love to doggy position daty and then move to dato. Something about kissing and lightly biting an ass gets me ready for round 3 and 4!

Fradi: well said!

Brown noser was what I meant.

 

[Fradi]

I have retired.

You have retired yet you post about negative reviews and then proceed to call out one of the sweetest SP on this board, who is kind enough to provide feed back to us on a regular basis, that is honest and yes sometimes blunt.
Life is not always pretty and guys on a hooker review board generally speaking don’t always carry with them a lifelong happy relationships with women, so you will get some douchebags as you call them who have no idea how to treat a woman and blame them for their short comings.
There are of course exceptions we all have our reasons for seeing escorts.

What is your purpose, what are you gaining with theses posts, I don’t get it.
It is like making sure you inform people that someone was a douche bag after he is already dead.
Your retired, be retired, I am also, but only from work, now it’s playtime.

 

[jalimon]

Je pense que Glendon nous fait glander la la

 

[Glendon]

I also said I wanted to post some positive reviews. I am not gaining anything. That is not the purpose. Julia may be very sweet. I have met Julia. She was the sweetest, but you only look at what you want to look at. It is all business at the end of day. I am retired, but many of the escorts I have seen are still around. I wanted to share my experience for the longest time but could not. I was not aware of MERB's existence Which I am sure that I will be kicked off sooner or later . It seems like everything I say just bothers you. just stay true to your words. If you are retired, and it is playtime for you. Go for it. Your first post made more sense. Now, you are just frustrated. You can defend Julia Sky or any other girl all you want, but you will never amount to more than client or a "friend". Bravo. Great achievement. Pay an escort to be your friend.

 

[Glendon]

Je pense que Glendon nous fait glander la la

Je dois admettre que c'était bien.

 

[EagerBeaver]

I was not aware of MERB's existence Which I am sure that I will be kicked off sooner or later

You have said this a few times now and seem to want this to be a self fulfilling prophecy. Others have come on MERB and have correctly predicted their ultimate banishment. They were what I call "suicide by cop" posters. I would suggest that an internet survival instinct may serve you well. It is a trait that is normal for our species.

 

[Fradi]

Glendon,

i know I will never be anything than a client, however I am a client that they look forward to seeing, and actually so far quite a few have never actually made me feel like a client, Julia is one of them.
The first time I feel like just another client is the last time I see that particular lady.
That is my negative review that I stick to, but I don’t publish it for all the world to see and ruin her reputation or livelihood, for me it is something to fill a void, for them it is to pay rent and live, a huge huge difference.

Yes it is a fantasy that we are paying for and if you are smart you realize that, but what a fantasy it is with some, it extends way beyond the bedroom.

I have had the real relationship as well for most of my adult life so I know the difference, nothing compares to a loving relationship and family but life has a way of ending that sometimes.