Hello, I was just curious. On what age did you lose your virginity? And what way did you loose it? I’m 23 years old and still a virgin. Never experienced anything in my life not even a blowjob. How did your first sex felt and how was it?
I’ll play.
It goes back to the very early 90’s. I was 13 years old Montrealer on a two-week vacation in Puerto Rico. I’ll be damned if I know how or why, but I caught the eye of the cutest 16 years old American blonde. She was from Virginia, but she sure wasn’t a virgin, I’ll tell you that much!
Long story short, after a couple of days of hanging out and teasing each other, I got to walk her back to her room from an afternoon at the hotel pool. Riding up the elevator, she gave me that knowing smile I’ll never forget. I followed her to her room, nearly refusing to believe my luck for what seemed about to go down as she invited me in. She then turned to me, in her wet bikini and hotel towel, with the same devilishly mischievous smile from the elevator.
« My parents probably won’t be here for a good 15 to 20 minutes… We’ve got time. »
And boy, did we ever.
In retrospect, that experience might very well explain why I still prefer hotel outcalls, petite angels with horns and just why I love this hobby so damn much!
Cheers!
It goes back to the very early 90’s. I was 13 years old Montrealer on a two-week vacation in Puerto Rico. I’ll be damned if I know how or why, but I caught the eye of the cutest 16 years old American blonde. She was from Virginia, but she sure wasn’t a virgin, I’ll tell you that much!
Long story short, after a couple of days of hanging out and teasing each other, I got to walk her back to her room from an afternoon at the hotel pool. Riding up the elevator, she gave me that knowing smile I’ll never forget. I followed her to her room, nearly refusing to believe my luck for what seemed about to go down as she invited me in. She then turned to me, in her wet bikini and hotel towel, with the same devilishly mischievous smile from the elevator.
« My parents probably won’t be here for a good 15 to 20 minutes… We’ve got time. »
And boy, did we ever.
In retrospect, that experience might very well explain why I still prefer hotel outcalls, petite angels with horns and just why I love this hobby so damn much!
Cheers!
My first time was awful so I make sure to give a good experience when people come to me to lose their V card. It has only happened twice.
Man you must’ve felt really good back thenI’ll play.
It goes back to the very early 90’s. I was 13 years old Montrealer on a two-week vacation in Puerto Rico. I’ll be damned if I know how or why, but I caught the eye of the cutest 16 years old American blonde. She was from Virginia, but she sure wasn’t a virgin, I’ll tell you that much!
Long story short, after a couple of days of hanging out and teasing each other, I got to walk her back to her room from an afternoon at the hotel pool. Riding up the elevator, she gave me that knowing smile I’ll never forget. I followed her to her room, nearly refusing to believe my luck for what seemed about to go down as she invited me in. She then turned to me, in her wet bikini and hotel towel, with the same devilishly mischievous smile from the elevator.
« My parents probably won’t be here for a good 15 to 20 minutes… We’ve got time. »
And boy, did we ever.
In retrospect, that experience might very well explain why I still prefer hotel outcalls, petite angels with horns and just why I love this hobby so damn much!
Cheers!
I lost it at 23. Don't despair young man. Work on yourself, stay positive and good things will happen.
I will also tell you with some hindsight : don't masturbate like a maniac/watch too much porn while you do that.
I will also tell you with some hindsight : don't masturbate like a maniac/watch too much porn while you do that.
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Thank you for your advice. I haven’t even masturbated for like 2 months now
I was a 13-year-old boy and had just started high school. I was at a friend's place on a Friday night when his parents left for the cottage for the weekend. He invited all the guys and gals from high school over for a party. There was beer and pot and with that a lot of horny teenagers in their prime.
I got lucky with a young lady my age exactly and will never forget the experience. It was pre HIV so there were no condoms used. As I lay on my friend's bed with her after some heavy petting, necking and fingering etc. She said to me; "Fuck me, but don't get me pregnant........my father will kill you". Needless to say, that put a damper on the moment, I pushed it in once and pulled it out and came. One push and it was over!
I got lucky with a young lady my age exactly and will never forget the experience. It was pre HIV so there were no condoms used. As I lay on my friend's bed with her after some heavy petting, necking and fingering etc. She said to me; "Fuck me, but don't get me pregnant........my father will kill you". Needless to say, that put a damper on the moment, I pushed it in once and pulled it out and came. One push and it was over!
Oh, my first BJ, the teenage triumph of a secret rendezvous in the school washroom at 13.I was bursting with joy and confidence as I strutted through the hallways, feeling like the king of the world. It was as if I had hit the jackpot and embraced my newfound manhood!But let's not forget the other side of the story. Poor girl, embarrassed and with siblings in the same school. I can only imagine how awkward and uncomfortable it must have been for her. The mere thought of her walking those halls, knowing her secret escapade was the talk of the school, brings a sarcastic tear to my eye. Ah, the joys of teenage love and its everlasting consequences!
Those moments are all part of the grand tapestry of life. They shape us into the magnificent beings who we are today. So, here's to the hilariously awkward journey of growing up! Cheers!
Those moments are all part of the grand tapestry of life. They shape us into the magnificent beings who we are today. So, here's to the hilariously awkward journey of growing up! Cheers!
The first time was awkward and definitely not noteworthy other than the fact that it was the first time.
I can tell you that my dad who was older than boomers lol took my brother to a prostitute when he was 16:said he should learn from the best, too bad he died just after I reached my 16th birthday lol, but I was an early starter so it wouldn’t have been the first.
I was 14 it was with a stunning Italian girl in my class, I was pretty popular as I was a total ,jock and was on many of the school sports teams, the fact that she was in to me meant much more than the sex, we were both too immature and inexperienced., it was awkward to say the least. She moved the year after and I lost contact with her she was very pretty and that long jet black hair I still remember that, the sex not so much and asking for condoms from the lady at the pharmacy was embarrassing as hell.
I can tell you that my dad who was older than boomers lol took my brother to a prostitute when he was 16:said he should learn from the best, too bad he died just after I reached my 16th birthday lol, but I was an early starter so it wouldn’t have been the first.
I was 14 it was with a stunning Italian girl in my class, I was pretty popular as I was a total ,jock and was on many of the school sports teams, the fact that she was in to me meant much more than the sex, we were both too immature and inexperienced., it was awkward to say the least. She moved the year after and I lost contact with her she was very pretty and that long jet black hair I still remember that, the sex not so much and asking for condoms from the lady at the pharmacy was embarrassing as hell.
I always despise the term virginity and the weight society place on ''loosing'' it. I had intimacy before my hymen was ''broken'' years before and I do value those experiences as much as the ones that were penetrative. I got mad one day thinking I would give this ''power'' to someone, bought myself a dildo and did it myself. Like that, the next time I had sex it wasn't hurting or weird, I didn't want to wait for ''the one'', you know. I find all of this romantisation of the first time to be anxiety inducing for nothing. I love having ''virgin'' clients because I feel like choosing to do it with a professional is empowering to them. With me, they don't need to perform and can focus on their own experience. I'm glad when I inspire this amount of trust.
I rarely post on the forum, but since i've actually pay for my first time, let me chime in.
Let's say that puberty was pretty mean to me during my high school tenure so I didn't get any attention during this time. In my early 20's, i've had a few opportunities at parties meeting people, but I was too anxious and afraid of not knowing what I was doing so I would just ignore any attention.
Like you, I started questionning myself if I should just pay for the first time and be done with it. I did some research, and I found an escort agency that specialized in first time. Only problem is that the agency was in the netherlands and it was really costly. For 4 years after, I just gave up and kind of went on with my life, until I had the opportunity to go to the netherlands for an exchange student program.
I went, and I said to myself if it doesn't happen during my exchange, i'll contact them on one of my last day, which I end up doing, I was 24 at that time, i'm now 30.
I'll give you my perspective now that i've had a bit more experience, I would say that it feels really good after the first time, definitely a weight lifted off my shoulder. What I appreciated about paying is that she took control and I was just following instructions so it calmed my nerves. She also gave me a lot of good tips now that I look back at it. After the 1st time, it won't solves all your issues tho. When I got back to Montréal, I Found an Indy Girl and I explained that I wanted some practice and tips and she was awesome about it.
A few things to consider, I got so used to pay for play, that I stopped looking for actual relationship because it was just so easy and conveniant, so be mindful of that, put boundries because sex with someone who throughly cares about you is still the best feeling i've had by a mile. If you're looking for tips and too just be done with you're first time, I think it's a valid option, you won't however, have a great sexual experience since it will probably be quick, it comes with time. My final tip is if you end up going for it, be sure that the provider knows It's your first time so either tell the agency or the Indy beforehand.
btw It's okay to be a virgin and to wait, I know what you're feeling because I've been there, but I did found people eventually that didn't care I was inexperienced. We tend to be harder on ourselves than others. Good Luck !
Let's say that puberty was pretty mean to me during my high school tenure so I didn't get any attention during this time. In my early 20's, i've had a few opportunities at parties meeting people, but I was too anxious and afraid of not knowing what I was doing so I would just ignore any attention.
Like you, I started questionning myself if I should just pay for the first time and be done with it. I did some research, and I found an escort agency that specialized in first time. Only problem is that the agency was in the netherlands and it was really costly. For 4 years after, I just gave up and kind of went on with my life, until I had the opportunity to go to the netherlands for an exchange student program.
I went, and I said to myself if it doesn't happen during my exchange, i'll contact them on one of my last day, which I end up doing, I was 24 at that time, i'm now 30.
I'll give you my perspective now that i've had a bit more experience, I would say that it feels really good after the first time, definitely a weight lifted off my shoulder. What I appreciated about paying is that she took control and I was just following instructions so it calmed my nerves. She also gave me a lot of good tips now that I look back at it. After the 1st time, it won't solves all your issues tho. When I got back to Montréal, I Found an Indy Girl and I explained that I wanted some practice and tips and she was awesome about it.
A few things to consider, I got so used to pay for play, that I stopped looking for actual relationship because it was just so easy and conveniant, so be mindful of that, put boundries because sex with someone who throughly cares about you is still the best feeling i've had by a mile. If you're looking for tips and too just be done with you're first time, I think it's a valid option, you won't however, have a great sexual experience since it will probably be quick, it comes with time. My final tip is if you end up going for it, be sure that the provider knows It's your first time so either tell the agency or the Indy beforehand.
btw It's okay to be a virgin and to wait, I know what you're feeling because I've been there, but I did found people eventually that didn't care I was inexperienced. We tend to be harder on ourselves than others. Good Luck !
At 13 I had my first sexual experience with someone else than myself. She wasn’t my gf, she barely speak french and I barely speak any english. She wasnt from the hood so nobody knew her as we met at the Outremont arena, where I had saturday morning practices, the arena wasn’t in my hood neither so it was kind of neutral territory for both of us.. She came up to me saying I don’t know what, I looked at her saying I didn’t understand. She pointed at my crotch gesturing the well known bj movement. Seeing my smile, she took me outside to the back of the arena , and right there, kneeling in the snow she proceeded to suck me to the very last drop! From then, saturday practices took a different meaning, I remember sometimes, trying to discourage my dad to come with me, luckily for me, he had to work most of the saturdays, especially in winter.
Well, if any of you had the pleasure to have first sex early and with someone who loved you or wanted to have fun with you, count your blessings.
Not all of us did, so don't nag the poor man here.
Yasta8932, if that can encourage you, I did have my first sex in my early 20s. By then, girls expect a man who knows what he's doing and I didn't, so it was a disaster. I did see an SP a few times afterwards who was amazingly kind and caring to me and helped me. After that, I was conformable with the expectations women my age had about a sexual partner and it was all good going forward. Pretty good actually. This is why I've also dvelopped a huge respect for SPs and what they do.
So there is light, man. Don't wait for that perfect girl and that perfect situation. If you have no experience at all at 23, things are going to be challenging unless she is very patient and loving. And know that your first sex is not the dream people or movies make it look like, we are often clumsy and need to learn how to do it well. And in this, a girl you pay to show you is generally much more patient and forgiving than a civilian girl who expects to be courted and seduced. My only regret is that I did not do it sooner.
Not all of us did, so don't nag the poor man here.
Yasta8932, if that can encourage you, I did have my first sex in my early 20s. By then, girls expect a man who knows what he's doing and I didn't, so it was a disaster. I did see an SP a few times afterwards who was amazingly kind and caring to me and helped me. After that, I was conformable with the expectations women my age had about a sexual partner and it was all good going forward. Pretty good actually. This is why I've also dvelopped a huge respect for SPs and what they do.
So there is light, man. Don't wait for that perfect girl and that perfect situation. If you have no experience at all at 23, things are going to be challenging unless she is very patient and loving. And know that your first sex is not the dream people or movies make it look like, we are often clumsy and need to learn how to do it well. And in this, a girl you pay to show you is generally much more patient and forgiving than a civilian girl who expects to be courted and seduced. My only regret is that I did not do it sooner.
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The first time was a long, long time ago, now I'm over 40, that happened when I was just beginning my teens, with a curvy white girl 1-2 years older than me, a complete disaster, both inexperienced, but we were learning together for a while until I had to move to another city with my family.
It’s been so long, I’m not even sure if I ever been a virgin!
wait a sec. what made it known to whereby it was the talk of the school?
In my quest to showcase my ultra-macho prowess, I spilled the beans to one friend, and before you knew it, the scandalous tale went viral through the grapevine. Because, boys will be boys.Can't resist a good gossip!
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