What is the definition of GFE for you ?

[spinner addict]

What is the definition of GFE ?

For me its like the word says it "GIRLFIEND"

for me thats what it should be NOT the acronymes.

GFE should feel like you are with your girlfriend, meaning her being happy to be with you, talking about every thing and nothing, cuddle, making you feel at ease etc...
She as to make you feel like you are the only one.

All the acronymes like bbbj , cg, etc, etc are sex related of course but that is close to porn if i might say.

Meaning thats the "escort part" per say, when you have a girlfriend in real life you won't use all those acronymes to describe her.

So when you call an SP and it mention GFE it should both world like i described.

Anyway thats my POV, let me know yours.

Cheers

 

[BookerL]

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[Merlot]

Hello all,

This question has been asked many times. Guys often define it in ways that serves their fantasies because if their own girlfriends and wives were doing the same things they say a real girlfriend should they wouldn't be seeing escorts. I totally agree appreciation and good feelings should go both ways. It's not a "girlfriend experience" if the lady feels uncomfortable about the experience and the guy only cares he was satisfied. If you want a GFE then the lady's feeling should matter just as much, otherwise it's only about being demanding and selfish which would explain why some are not getting it at home. Be just as good to the ladies as you want them to be to you.

Cheers,

Merlot

 

[Stroman]

Here is the article from TinaMTL's Blog, I think she has the definition of GFE to the T:

"Girlfriend Experience"
GFE:

Clients perspective:
Most of hobbyists describe it as an escort service including;
1) Deep French Kissing;
2) BareBack BlowJob (oral on men without condom),
3) Dinner At The Y (oral sex on lady)
and
4) Covered Full Sex.

What a boring check-list guys!

In my opinion, these sexual acts alone will not make a man happy. Is this the "GFE" you are looking for?

How many times were you disappointed after a date because, even tho everything from your GFE list was checked, you still felt like something was missing?

Here is my definition of Girlfriend Experience or what it should be:

GFE means more than that stupid list!
It's an art where the illusion has to be indiscernible.
Duration of the date doesn't matter - it's an experience - not just a few sexual acts.

The Art of Seduction.

Many companions are really good at it.

The recipe of awesome GFE:
- being adaptive, accommodating;
- taking initiatives, being enthusiast, give full attention, eye contact;
- interesting personality, social skills, being able to discuss about anything;
- (last but the most important) being a warm, sensual and affectionate woman... "a good lover"...
+ all this in every meeting (if possible) [more about that later].

Client must feel totally comfortable ....just like being with a girlfriend.

Sex is part of the experience but (in my opinion and in what I offer) a really small part of the whole trip.

Boyfriend experience:
Guess what? We are not a couple, you are not my boyfriend, we are not in love.

You are a client. You pay me for good time.

Some escorts may not want to orgasm under these circumstances, some refuse it, some fake it.
Pleasure cannot be achieved by the same performance applied to all women.

Speaking for myself and the ladies I have had the chance to share opinions with, we only expect this;
- clean;
- not too demanding;
- respectful;
- polite;
- genuinely kind men.

What about bad meetings?
It's simple, there is two people in the room. It can be attributable to;

°°°°°Client's "fault":
- hygienic issue
- attitude (cocky, mean, unrespectful manners, too much demanding, tries to negotiate rates or restrictions, ETC.)

or

°°°°°Escort's "fault":
- hygienic issue
- attitude (doesn't like her job, doesn't care, ETC.)
- you caught her in a bad moment (multiple possible reasons for that...works too much, had a bad meeting, ETC.)

or

°°°°°No chemistry:
If none of the above is a problem. It's a chemistry problem.



It comes from the link: http://tinamtl.blogspot.ca/2015/03/girlfriend-experience.html

I can't take credits from that.

 

[UncleBob]

GFE has become a standard as DFK, BBBJ, DATY, CFS as a Minimum in a Service Point of view.

When we scan the Ads for meeting a lady for the first time, many of us are looking for GFE as a minimum START POINT.

Then, when the meeting arise, next thing is Physical aspect, then attitude, Higienic, and eventually chemistry.
But at Least, if Standard GFE is indeed provided, even if there is no chemistry (so probably no repeat), you might at least be satisfied sexually.

For me, Ultimately, I'm looking for Chemistry and Chemistry cannot be guessed from an AD... But you have more chances to find it with a Lady that advertise Standard GFE, i.e. VERY Open Minded.

When a girl is physically my type, and is clean and provide standard GFE sexual services, I will most likely have a good sexual experience but when chemistry is there too, this is a garantee of the BEST sexual experience and multiple meetings.

 

[spinner addict]

Well

Thks Booker for pointing out, in your own way, there was already a thread about the subject. Your a gent, you've could have said to me, do a search, there is already a thread on it, dumbo

But have to say that in the first thread you've linked, subject got off track quite latterly.

Now special thanks to special agent moody , for posting Tina's blog witch reflects EXACTLY how i think an GFE should be.

Especially those parts :

It's an art where the illusion has to be indiscernible.
Duration of the date doesn't matter - it's an experience - not just a few sexual acts.

and :

The recipe of awesome GFE:
- being adaptive, accommodating;
- taking initiatives, being enthusiast, give full attention, eye contact;
- interesting personality, social skills, being able to discuss about anything;
- (last but the most important) being a warm, sensual and affectionate woman... "a good lover"...
+ all this in every meeting (if possible) [more about that later].

Client must feel totally comfortable ....just like being with a girlfriend.

Sex is part of the experience but (in my opinion and in what I offer) a really small part of the whole trip.


Anyway still like to hear more from you guys on the topic.

 

[BookerL]

Well

Thks Booker for pointing out, in your own way, there was already a thread about the subject. Your a gent, you've could have said to me, do a search, there is already a thread on it, dumbo

Well thanks Fab
But I am polite and courteous ,I guess professional formation :lol:




Cheers




Booker

 

[2458p]

Me, when I ask for a GFE, I always hope that the girl is going for the Academy Award. After all it's basically that, an actress playing a character.

or like I love to say in french C'est du gros théâtre d'été :lol:

 

[Stroman]

Now special thanks to special agent moody , for posting Tina's blog witch reflects EXACTLY how i think an GFE should be. .

You're very welcome and thanks for giving credits to TinaMtl

 

[Numerati]

An SP who can keep the Honey Moon Phase going. Yet after a while even in this game that is not going to last. She is going to get comfortable with you down the line and it is all downhill from there.

 

[SylvainP]

After the "job", when you can hold her in your arms. When you feel so good when you are with her that you do not want to leave.

 

[spinner addict]

After the "job", when you can hold her in your arms. When you feel so good when you are with her that you do not want to leave.

ooohhhhh yaaaahh

that moment :hail:

 

[PopeDover]

It's an art where the illusion has to be indiscernible.
-TinaMTL

This perfectly sums up what the GFE really means, and it's also too high a standard for me to hold any SP to, not even regulars, or should I say especially not regulars. As Numerati says about the honeymoon phase, it just doesn't last, all illusions eventually vaporize. IMO, something preferable can take its place, but it's hardly what I would call GFE. I would describe it more as honest friendly relations with the provided benefits for both SP & client.

That being said, I welcome and enjoy the rare times I'm tricked. It's like being at a party and you run into an old friend you've lost touch with. The question I have is if the truly exquisite indulgence known as Tianna can pull it again.
:thumb:

 

[Numerati]

This is from my own personal experience. If you meet the SP for just two hour romps things might lasts a little longer and you may keep seeing each other for more than three sessions. If you treat the SP like someone you date like take her to dinner and such the limit is two/three encounters and no more than that.

 

[SilverDust]

Its when its time to leave, so you do. Find yourself walking in the wrong direction to your vehicle, so you turn around and look at the door you just left. You ring the bell and she lets you in ,she is still naked...OMG heaven again.

 

[Melyssa]

Selon ma conception, on peut résumer gfe par deux mots.

Sincérité et authentiticité

Mais je ne l'ai pas pantoute l'affaire :lol:

 

[Melyssa]

Hello all,

This question has been asked many times. Guys often define it in ways that serves their fantasies because if their own girlfriends and wives were doing the same things they say a real girlfriend should they wouldn't be seeing escorts. I totally agree appreciation and good feelings should go both ways. It's not a "girlfriend experience" if the lady feels uncomfortable about the experience and the guy only cares he was satisfied. If you want a GFE then the lady's feeling should matter just as much, otherwise it's only about being demanding and selfish which would explain why some are not getting it at home. Be just as good to the ladies as you want them to be to you.

Cheers,

Merlot

J'adore !

Et ça rejoint mes propos dans deux autres discussions, certains clients devraient voir plutôt un psychologue qu'une escorte.

 

[Doggyluver]

The experience should be close to that of spending time with your girlfriend without the drama of a girlfriend

1. DFK
2.BBBJ
3.DATY
4. FS ( this is business so although it would be unprotected with a Girlfriend, protected sex )

 

[SilverDust]

Merlot , I was just about to post something similar , you took the words right out of my mouth. Sharing and being in tune makes the session all the more enjoyable.

 

[SilverDust]

Selon ma conception, on peut résumer gfe par deux mots.

Sincérité et authentiticité

Mais je ne l'ai pas pantoute l'affaire :lol:

Et j'ai tousjours pense se que on lis ici et aiellure sur internet ce etais toujours sa.