What surprises you the most about male sexuality

[yubokumin]

Considering the recovery period and the moment after orgasm / ejaculation. Post‑coital dysphoria — can cause sadness, irritability, or regret in some people after ejaculation. If negative feelings persist after sex. How incredibly sensitive the penis gets which can be pleasurable.

 

[yubokumin]

Not so surprising but sometimes your mind wants something and your body wants another thing. It must be so frustrating

For that, I’m really happy to be a woman

I often wonder how different our experiences are when it comes to sexual pleasure. Would exchange bodies at least once to find out.

 

[yubokumin]

The amount of men who were circumcised as a kid who are totally fine with it. My foreskin is such a huge source of pleasure that I thought men who had it removed without their consent would be angry about it, but no. I guess you can't miss what you don't remember ever having. (I'm aware it really bothers some circumcised men, but it's still a minority)

Educate us circumcised please

 

[Mandouke]

Educate us circumcised please

Circumcision in Quebec ( and in many other places) in the 1960s was usually done by doctors as a default or automatic position, often without the consent of the parents and definitely without the junior's consent.

Many mothers often initiated the procedure based on widely held beliefs of better hygiene and other factors. Thanks, Mom! The procedure began to decline for "non-religious" purposes in the 1970s. There has been a decline in circumcised males since.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Considering the recovery period and the moment after orgasm / ejaculation. Post‑coital dysphoria — can cause sadness, irritability, or regret in some people after ejaculation. If negative feelings persist after sex. How incredibly sensitive the penis gets which can be pleasurable.

I think that dysphoria exists in women too, but not everyone experiences it. I meet men who feel perfectly happy after an orgasm.. but I think some personalities are prone to want to ''chase the high'', or experience some kind of emotional crash. What people call ''post nut clarity'' in my opinion is just somebody's mood shifting, it's not so much clarity, more like looking at things in a more negative way.. I also think some people prefer the chase to the real thing, and once they get what they wanted, they don't want it anymore. To people like this sex is the conquest. Not only men are like this

 

[yubokumin]

I think that dysphoria exists in women too, but not everyone experiences it. I meet men who feel perfectly happy after an orgasm.. but I think some personalities are prone to want to ''chase the high'', or experience some kind of emotional crash. What people call ''post nut clarity'' in my opinion is just somebody's mood shifting, it's not so much clarity, more like looking at things in a more negative way.. I also think some people prefer the chase to the real thing, and once they get what they wanted, they don't want it anymore. To people like this sex is the conquest. Not only men are like t

Circumcision in Quebec ( and in many other places) in the 1960s was usually done by doctors as a default or automatic position, often without the consent of the parents and definitely without the junior's consent.

Many mothers often initiated the procedure based on widely held beliefs of better hygiene and other factors. Thanks, Mom! The procedure began to decline for "non-religious" purposes in the 1970s. There has been a decline in circumcised males since.

Sorry I should have been more precise, I was curious about the added pleasure as I don't know what I'm missing being circumcised.

 

[Carmine Falcone]

the fact that ejaculation and (male) orgasm are 2 different things

In men, there is no need for a distinction. Now, much like the economic concept of utility, the third or fourth orgasm in a row might not be as satisfying (much like donut #4 isn't as delicious as #1), but it's still an orgasm.

The distinction is important in women. Evolutionary biology is still trying to figure out the purpose of the female orgasm, considering that it's not essential to propagate the species. That's why an orgasm gap is a thing, that and compared to women it's not really hard to make a guy orgasm.

 

[LC18]

I often wonder how different our experiences are when it comes to sexual pleasure. Would exchange bodies at least once to find out.

I would love to know what an orgasm feels like from the man’s perspective because the way some of these men have been screaming, it definitely seems intense

 

[yubokumin]

I would love to know what an orgasm feels like from the man’s perspective because the way some of these men have been screaming, it definitely seems intense

Of someone figured out how to connect our brains to experience eachother they would be rich and we'd be thankful.

 

[TheJames101]

I would love to know what an orgasm feels like from the man’s perspective because the way some of these men have been screaming, it definitely seems intense

Some men are just very performative.

 

[LC18]

Some men are just very performative.

I’m not talking about them, I can tell when a man is enhancing his orgasm and when it’s genuine. A man that struggled to utter more than 4 words straight is not screaming of pleasure just to perform lmao, he’d be way too shy for that

 

[kstanb]

I would love to know what an orgasm feels like from the man’s perspective because the way some of these men have been screaming, it definitely seems intense

I would be surprised if the sensation is too different because it is the same organ, developing different for baby girls/ boys

I would guess the female orgasm is less intense but longer; in other words, the male orgasm is better for maybe 2 seconds, while the female one can keep going for a long time

Also, at least for me, after 2 orgasms, the pennis gets numb and sensible, so although a 3rd is still somehow enjoyable, it is not something I would look forward to; better to hug and cuddle and caress if I am having a good time

 

[LC18]

I would be surprised if the sensation is too different because it is the same organ, developing different for baby girls/ boys

I would guess the female orgasm is less intense but longer; in other words, the male orgasm is better for maybe 2 seconds, while the female one can keep going for a long time

Also, at least for me, after 2 orgasms, the pennis gets numb and sensible, so although a 3rd is still somehow enjoyable, it is not something I would look forward to; better to hug and cuddle and caress if I am having a good time

Orgasms for me are so intense that I often stop before they happen

 

[Hy5]

I would love to know what an orgasm feels like from the man’s perspective because the way some of these men have been screaming, it definitely seems intense

It's like getting rid of a painful itch

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

I would love to know what an orgasm feels like from the man’s perspective because the way some of these men have been screaming, it definitely seems intense

It can be done silently, too, like in this famous SNL song...

See: https://tenor.com/en-CA/view/andy-samberg-gif-18512530

(Unfortunately, unlike @DetectiveDavidMills I don't know how to embed GIFs here...)