Why do escorts ask you what you're gonna do after?

[AlmostMidaged]

Since the thread took this turn, I’ll share…

I use to book a lady once a month. I liked her a lot. Between bookings we’d exchange 2 or 3 paragraph length emails. In a RDV she talked about adding me to her PS4 online so we could game together. There was no way to block her other friends real names so we couldn’t. I’m the one that realizes those limitations. A few RDV later she said she trusts and believes me more about keeping promises compared to most clients. Next RDV I hinted about hanging out off the clock down the line. Maybe 2 bookings later I asked her to an event. She said yes, but only with her social rate. That hurt my feelings and I stopped seeing her all together. Lol. I kind of felt like I’d be led on. Talk about being too good at your job! I don’t feel that way anymore though. Lol

It has been years since I stopped booking that lady. I still don’t know if I made the right decision. I’m still seeing escort. And I liked how she’d be all affectionate/ personality like only 1 other escorts of the 25+ Indy I saw over the years did.

 

[LC18]

Oh yeah, that sucks if the provider gave you the feeling that you guys had a different kind of relationship @AlmostMidaged

Good for her for setting her boundaries but sorry for you. Would you consider seeing her again?

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

@AlmostMidaged

In my book, despite that she definately lured you into it, in the end, you are the one who ended up asking, and sure enough, she went with the social rates thing. No surprise there, she was just "playing her cards". No harms.

 

[mr.assman]

I have always taken that question as small talk and use it to become friendly with them as well. It’s a conversation piece that can be considered air or using it to further your connection to the provider and vice versa. I have not taken the latter route, but if it does then I would for sure consider compensating them for their time. Unless it is agreed upon by both parties where it is no longer business, always assume it is and be willing to pay for it. Pretty sure most have it written somewhere that the donation is for their time too

I had booked a provider for a lengthy amount of time, we chatted for most of it since it was our first meeting as we hit it off. Eventually it went to the next step, she asked if I was ok for time and we continued until we were both satisfied. Before we even discussed her compensation, I was already going to give her something for her time she spent extra with me. It’s a gentlemanly thing to do, be that person that she wants to see. You will have a much better time.

 

[IamNY]

That’s why I like agencies. There’s no grey area, the girl stays another hour you pay for another hour.

 

[Anong]

Every time her hand touched my neck I got a boner and was thankful for the covering over my lap

In that age it is easy to get you pants dirty by just her touching.

 

[kabukicho]

I can add in one case, the girl had contemplated solo travelling and wanted to get ideas.