Why do escorts ask you what you're gonna do after?

[Rosie Sparkles]

I ask about what you gonna do after to know if I can steal your soul real quick discreet ninja style without any suspicion. Because I'm a vampire succubus


I'm so sorry guys but those questions ... hahaha smh

 

[masmasak]

We are paid for our time. You are requesting some of our time when you ask us out for a drink. It’s not too far fetched to expect to be compensated.

Would you do unpaid overtime?

Come off!that is the lowest of the low an ethic for living,

 

[hob12]

I'm new to the hobby was kinda surprised at that question too.

Too bad I had nothing interesting to say haha.

 

[Fradi]

I ask about what you gonna do after to know if I can steal your soul real quick discreet ninja style without any suspicion. Because I'm a vampire succubus


I'm so sorry guys but those questions ... hahaha smh

Vampire scenarios are so hot , especially when you are a direct descendent of parents from Transylvania lol
You should put that in your bio.

 

[cloudsurf]

Listen to an example of a lady playing by the rules and keeping work and friendship separate.

A few years ago I was planning to move homes. My ATF asked if she could come over and help me unpack and put away my stuff. She set some rules. No sex and no money .
After we finished, she went to the bathroom to clean up and pee. She left the door open and staring at me from 5 feet away was her pink pussy.. I was a horny guy climbing the walls. I asked if we could fuck . She said rules are rules and told me no. She wiped her pussy , pulled up her jeans and called a cab. I couldn`t sleep that night and had to see her the next day.....as a paying client.

 

[envelopes]

if you pay for the food, you shouldn't pay for the company. at least, I wouldn't, especially because I only go to high-end restaurants.

Lol, that's ridiculous. She's an SP, she can afford food. I hear this from guys so often. If you want a girl to go to dinner with you and you expect something out of it just because you paid for the food, that's so cheap.

I would never pay an SP to go have dinner with me, but I would also never ever expect them to do it for free just because I paid for dinner. I have gone out with many SPs over the years, but I would never get my panties in a bunch if an SP asked to be compensated for it. I would just decline. And yes, I have asked some SPs to join me for dinner after a session and I have declined when they ask for compensation. No harm no foul, I still continue seeing them for SP sessions.

I have also heard many guys get mad when an SP declines to go on vacations with them just because "he's paying for it". Want a companion? Pay for it or find someone who likes you enough to do it for free.

 

[IamNY]

Listen to an example of a lady playing by the rules and keeping work and friendship separate.

A few years ago I was planning to move homes. My ATF asked if she could come over and help me unpack and put away my stuff. She set some rules. No sex and no money .
After we finished, she went to the bathroom to clean up and pee. She left the door open and staring at me from 5 feet away was her pink pussy.. I was a horny guy climbing the walls. I asked if we could fuck . She said rules are rules and told me no. She wiped her pussy , pulled up her jeans and called a cab. I couldn`t sleep that night and had to see her the next day.....as a paying client.

I would blame it on the emotional labour. At least you got to bang away the next day!

 

[hob12]

Listen to an example of a lady playing by the rules and keeping work and friendship separate.

A few years ago I was planning to move homes. My ATF asked if she could come over and help me unpack and put away my stuff. She set some rules. No sex and no money .
After we finished, she went to the bathroom to clean up and pee. She left the door open and staring at me from 5 feet away was her pink pussy.. I was a horny guy climbing the walls. I asked if we could fuck . She said rules are rules and told me no. She wiped her pussy , pulled up her jeans and called a cab. I couldn`t sleep that night and had to see her the next day.....as a paying client.

Damn she helped you unpack and move your stuff? You should at least have provided pizza and beer!

 

[Fradi]

Lol, that's ridiculous. She's an SP, she can afford food. I hear this from guys so often. If you want a girl to go to dinner with you and you expect something out of it just because you paid for the food, that's so cheap.

I would never pay an SP to go have dinner with me, but I would also never ever expect them to do it for free just because I paid for dinner. I have gone out with many SPs over the years, but I would never get my panties in a bunch if an SP asked to be compensated for it. I would just decline. And yes, I have asked some SPs to join me for dinner after a session and I have declined when they ask for compensation. No harm no foul, I still continue seeing them for SP sessions.

I have also heard many guys get mad when an SP declines to go on vacations with them just because "he's paying for it". Want a companion? Pay for it or find someone who likes you enough to do it for free.

I think your mixing the two.
If I take an SP for dinner it is because we are friends and enjoy each others company. There is no sex involved would never expect it or try to use it to take advantage of her.
You are right they can afford to pay for dinner ( I would never allow that, when I ask a friend to dinner it is always on me even when it is a golf buddy ) another reason if they actually have dinner with you that you know they are your friend and actually care enough to have dinner with you.
This is not something to look for and it happens very rarely but it is a nice feeling when it does.
Same thing for a vacation I would take an SP who is a friend on a vacation even without sex if we were close enough friends, why not I do that with family members all the time.

 

[charmer_]

Come off!that is the lowest of the low an ethic for living,

Honestly, I don't get the hate. If you don't like it, then just don't see her for social time and that's it.
Whatever policies a provider has, is hers to choose. Conversely as a client, you're free to not take part in a particular service or not choose to see a given provider altogether.

 

[LC18]

Lol, that's ridiculous. She's an SP, she can afford food. I hear this from guys so often. If you want a girl to go to dinner with you and you expect something out of it just because you paid for the food, that's so cheap.

I would never pay an SP to go have dinner with me, but I would also never ever expect them to do it for free just because I paid for dinner. I have gone out with many SPs over the years, but I would never get my panties in a bunch if an SP asked to be compensated for it. I would just decline. And yes, I have asked some SPs to join me for dinner after a session and I have declined when they ask for compensation. No harm no foul, I still continue seeing them for SP sessions.

I have also heard many guys get mad when an SP declines to go on vacations with them just because "he's paying for it". Want a companion? Pay for it or find someone who likes you enough to do it for free.

This! It’s ok not to want to pay for a dinner date if that’s not your thing but to be mad because a SP expects to be compensated for her time is something I don’t quite understand.

So thanks for understanding.

P.S: I won’t go on a date for free but I will definitely offer discounts or extended dates at a lower cost to regulars that I appreciate. It’s my way of showing my gratitude. At the end of the day, I still have bills to pay so I unfortunately cannot give my time away

 

[masmasak]

This is exactly it, my expectation is not friendship but a fun adventure with a gorgeous woman.
On rare occasions when you see someone many times it turns into friendship also where you do enjoy having a lunch or dinner together or if they need a ride somewhere or just had a bad day and need someone to li*sten. Here is when you need to be aware and not take advantage and destroy the client/ SP relationship.
I don’t have a problem with this at all and enjoy the ladies company because she is having lunch or dinner because she wants to be there and is a friend.
This is what I have been trying to explain perhaps without success.
The other scenario of paying an SP to have dinner with me or for social time just doesn’t make sense to me and I have zero interest in it, I do however understand it from an SP point of view to her it is a job and she wants to be compensated for her time, nothing wrong with that.

I would blame it on the emotional labour. At least you got to bang away the next day!

Listen to an example of a lady playing by the rules and keeping work and friendship separate.

A few years ago I was planning to move homes. My ATF asked if she could come over and help me unpack and put away my stuff. She set some rules. No sex and no money .
After we finished, she went to the bathroom to clean up and pee. She left the door open and staring at me from 5 feet away was her pink pussy.. I was a horny guy climbing the walls. I asked if we could fuck . She said rules are rules and told me no. She wiped her pussy , pulled up her jeans and called a cab. I couldn`t sleep that night and had to see her the next day.....as a paying client.

Honestly, I don't get the hate. If you don't like it, then just don't see her for social time and that's it.
Whatever policies a provider has, is hers to choose. Conversely as a client, you're free to not take part in a particular service or not choose to see a given provider altogether.

/The bill already is on the host ,that looks a bit cheeky expecting to be paid for the time of gobbling .

Honestly, I don't get the hate. If you don't like it, then just don't see her for social time and that's it.
Whatever policies a provider has, is hers to choose. Conversely as a client, you're free to not take part in a particular service or not choose to see a given provider altogether.

 

[LC18]

Absolutely no one is forcing you to pay for social time. If you don’t want to, don’t.

Respect those who do and those who ask.

Just say “I’m sorry but I’m not comfortable with that.” move on and find someone who wants to see you for free.

It’s that easy

 

[Fradi]

Absolutely no one is forcing you to pay for social time. If you don’t want to, don’t.

Respect those who do and those who ask.

Just say “I’m sorry but I’m not comfortable with that.” move on and find someone who wants to see you for free.

It’s that easy

I totally agree with you.
I just want to explain if someone misunderstood things.
I have never made the first move and asked any escort to have dinner with me or to spend any time with me that is not paid for and I won’t.
She is the one that has to do that on her own.

Life is not ever as simple as that, we are human beings and when you see someone many times and for a long period of time on rare occasions a special bond forms and you become friends also. This does not mean that you abuse that friendship and expect things for free that are not offered.

I wIll not ask an SP out to dinner off the clock but at the same time I will not refuse a dinner invitation or drink invitation from a lady that actually wants to do that and spend time with me.
Yes it is an amazing feeling when that happens, I won’t deny that it is great when a gorgeous woman finds you interesting enough and a nice enough companion to spend time with over dinner or lunch. Is that on my mind or is that what I am looking for when I make contact for the first time with an escort, of course not, I am neither that naive nor that stupid.

I have no issues with escorts charging for companionship if that is what the person wants after all it is their business and they can run it anyway they want. Nor do I have a problem with a client paying for that companionship it is his money he can spend it on whatever makes him happy.

 

[LC18]

I wIll not ask an SP out to dinner off the clock but at the same time I will not refuse a dinner invitation or drink invitation from a lady that actually wants to do that and spend time with me.

In my book, if you ask, you have to be willing to pay or walk away. If she asks then it’s just for fun.

But always clarify it with the person before assuming anything

 

[charmer_]

If she asks then it’s just for fun.

But always clarify it with the person before assuming anything

If she's the one that asks, unless mentioned, the default is "its just for fun" (i.e. off the clock).

That'd be pretty shady to accept her invite, then be asked to pay for it right after. Client shouldn't need to ask for clarification on this. It'd also kill the mood, imho.

 

[Fradi]

If she's the one that asks, unless mentioned, the default is "its just for fun" (i.e. off the clock).

That'd be pretty shady to accept her invite, then be asked to pay for it right after. Client shouldn't need to ask for clarification on this. It'd also kill the mood, imho.

I think most of us are old enough and wise enough to understand and recognize a dinner or drink invitation without having to ask for clarification.
Whole different story when you are booking, their web sight is usually pretty clear on the cost of a 4 hour dinner and “dessert” combination.
We are aware that escorts charge for their time it is on their web sight quite clearly in black and white.

 

[Flyingby]

They are like your barber…small talk is part of the job

 

[DouMan]

Is it because they want to invite you to their house or something? What do you have to say to seduce them and end up inside their apartments? Just tell me what you need to do step by step as though you were giving me a guide on some dating simulation game, because I keep having people ask me the same question over and over again and I have no idea why they all ask the same damn question.

It's called being sociable. Meeting a SW is not only about blowing your load.

 

[Fradi]

They are like your barber…small talk is part of the job

Funny thing you mentioned barber.
When I came to Canada I went to get a haircut ( I was 16) and for the first time ever it was a female barber and hot as hell.
Every time her hand touched my neck I got a boner and was thankful for the covering over my lap and hoped it would go away by the time she finished.
Needless to say I looked forward to haircuts after that for years but was too shy to say anything which was probably best anyway, although I am sure she knew, there was always that smile on her face and she did tease me all the time asking about girlfriends.