Come off!that is the lowest of the low an ethic for living,We are paid for our time. You are requesting some of our time when you ask us out for a drink. It’s not too far fetched to expect to be compensated.
Would you do unpaid overtime?
Come off!that is the lowest of the low an ethic for living,We are paid for our time. You are requesting some of our time when you ask us out for a drink. It’s not too far fetched to expect to be compensated.
Would you do unpaid overtime?
Vampire scenarios are so hot , especially when you are a direct descendent of parents from Transylvania lolI ask about what you gonna do after to know if I can steal your soul real quick discreet ninja style without any suspicion. Because I'm a vampire succubus
I'm so sorry guys but those questions ... hahaha smh
Lol, that's ridiculous. She's an SP, she can afford food. I hear this from guys so often. If you want a girl to go to dinner with you and you expect something out of it just because you paid for the food, that's so cheap.if you pay for the food, you shouldn't pay for the company. at least, I wouldn't, especially because I only go to high-end restaurants.
I would blame it on the emotional labour. At least you got to bang away the next day!Listen to an example of a lady playing by the rules and keeping work and friendship separate.
A few years ago I was planning to move homes. My ATF asked if she could come over and help me unpack and put away my stuff. She set some rules. No sex and no money .
After we finished, she went to the bathroom to clean up and pee. She left the door open and staring at me from 5 feet away was her pink pussy.. I was a horny guy climbing the walls. I asked if we could fuck . She said rules are rules and told me no. She wiped her pussy , pulled up her jeans and called a cab. I couldn`t sleep that night and had to see her the next day.....as a paying client.
Listen to an example of a lady playing by the rules and keeping work and friendship separate.
A few years ago I was planning to move homes. My ATF asked if she could come over and help me unpack and put away my stuff. She set some rules. No sex and no money .
After we finished, she went to the bathroom to clean up and pee. She left the door open and staring at me from 5 feet away was her pink pussy.. I was a horny guy climbing the walls. I asked if we could fuck . She said rules are rules and told me no. She wiped her pussy , pulled up her jeans and called a cab. I couldn`t sleep that night and had to see her the next day.....as a paying client.
I think your mixing the two.Lol, that's ridiculous. She's an SP, she can afford food. I hear this from guys so often. If you want a girl to go to dinner with you and you expect something out of it just because you paid for the food, that's so cheap.
I would never pay an SP to go have dinner with me, but I would also never ever expect them to do it for free just because I paid for dinner. I have gone out with many SPs over the years, but I would never get my panties in a bunch if an SP asked to be compensated for it. I would just decline. And yes, I have asked some SPs to join me for dinner after a session and I have declined when they ask for compensation. No harm no foul, I still continue seeing them for SP sessions.
I have also heard many guys get mad when an SP declines to go on vacations with them just because "he's paying for it". Want a companion? Pay for it or find someone who likes you enough to do it for free.
Honestly, I don't get the hate. If you don't like it, then just don't see her for social time and that's it.Come off!that is the lowest of the low an ethic for living,
Lol, that's ridiculous. She's an SP, she can afford food. I hear this from guys so often. If you want a girl to go to dinner with you and you expect something out of it just because you paid for the food, that's so cheap.
I would never pay an SP to go have dinner with me, but I would also never ever expect them to do it for free just because I paid for dinner. I have gone out with many SPs over the years, but I would never get my panties in a bunch if an SP asked to be compensated for it. I would just decline. And yes, I have asked some SPs to join me for dinner after a session and I have declined when they ask for compensation. No harm no foul, I still continue seeing them for SP sessions.
I have also heard many guys get mad when an SP declines to go on vacations with them just because "he's paying for it". Want a companion? Pay for it or find someone who likes you enough to do it for free.
This is exactly it, my expectation is not friendship but a fun adventure with a gorgeous woman.
On rare occasions when you see someone many times it turns into friendship also where you do enjoy having a lunch or dinner together or if they need a ride somewhere or just had a bad day and need someone to li*sten. Here is when you need to be aware and not take advantage and destroy the client/ SP relationship.
I don’t have a problem with this at all and enjoy the ladies company because she is having lunch or dinner because she wants to be there and is a friend.
This is what I have been trying to explain perhaps without success.
The other scenario of paying an SP to have dinner with me or for social time just doesn’t make sense to me and I have zero interest in it, I do however understand it from an SP point of view to her it is a job and she wants to be compensated for her time, nothing wrong with that.
I would blame it on the emotional labour. At least you got to bang away the next day!
Listen to an example of a lady playing by the rules and keeping work and friendship separate.
A few years ago I was planning to move homes. My ATF asked if she could come over and help me unpack and put away my stuff. She set some rules. No sex and no money .
After we finished, she went to the bathroom to clean up and pee. She left the door open and staring at me from 5 feet away was her pink pussy.. I was a horny guy climbing the walls. I asked if we could fuck . She said rules are rules and told me no. She wiped her pussy , pulled up her jeans and called a cab. I couldn`t sleep that night and had to see her the next day.....as a paying client.
/The bill already is on the host ,that looks a bit cheeky expecting to be paid for the time of gobbling .Honestly, I don't get the hate. If you don't like it, then just don't see her for social time and that's it.
Whatever policies a provider has, is hers to choose. Conversely as a client, you're free to not take part in a particular service or not choose to see a given provider altogether.
Honestly, I don't get the hate. If you don't like it, then just don't see her for social time and that's it.
Whatever policies a provider has, is hers to choose. Conversely as a client, you're free to not take part in a particular service or not choose to see a given provider altogether.
I totally agree with you.Absolutely no one is forcing you to pay for social time. If you don’t want to, don’t.
Respect those who do and those who ask.
Just say “I’m sorry but I’m not comfortable with that.” move on and find someone who wants to see you for free.
It’s that easy ❤️
I wIll not ask an SP out to dinner off the clock but at the same time I will not refuse a dinner invitation or drink invitation from a lady that actually wants to do that and spend time with me.
If she's the one that asks, unless mentioned, the default is "its just for fun" (i.e. off the clock).If she asks then it’s just for fun.
But always clarify it with the person before assuming anything
I think most of us are old enough and wise enough to understand and recognize a dinner or drink invitation without having to ask for clarification.If she's the one that asks, unless mentioned, the default is "its just for fun" (i.e. off the clock).
That'd be pretty shady to accept her invite, then be asked to pay for it right after. Client shouldn't need to ask for clarification on this. It'd also kill the mood, imho.
It's called being sociable. Meeting a SW is not only about blowing your load.Is it because they want to invite you to their house or something? What do you have to say to seduce them and end up inside their apartments? Just tell me what you need to do step by step as though you were giving me a guide on some dating simulation game, because I keep having people ask me the same question over and over again and I have no idea why they all ask the same damn question.
Funny thing you mentioned barber.They are like your barber…small talk is part of the job