Wow, you thumbed me up. I take it that you're interested in me.
Why do escorts ask you what you're gonna do after?
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Recognizing you are a nice guy and a good mechanic. Nothing more.
You're totally missing the point here. It would be very stupid of her to decline any johns who are willing to pay her, just to watch her smile, eat, drink and pretend to be so interested in the conversation.
Here's a true fact, one of my very real good friend is a former stripper, who now do private gigs. I know for a fact she is not having any real sexual intercourse (she would tell me). So she meets her clients at their hotel room, performs sexy talk, contact dances, eat and have a few drinks with them, of course they are allowed to jerk off, she can, sometimes, "help" them but nothing more. And you know what? she gets out of there with $1500-$2000 for a few hours. Do you think she is interested in them?
His job is to repair your car my job is to spend time with people. I don’t have sex with every client, quite a few don’t actually hire me for sex.
To stay on the topic, I personally ask that question to be polite. I would never invite myself on an extended date.
It really isn’t in my plans to go out with a client after our date whether it’s paid or not. I just shower and go home to nap.
It really isn’t in my plans to go out with a client after our date whether it’s paid or not. I just shower and go home to nap.
Is the not having sex part your decision or his ?
Don't get me wrong, I know a few guys that pay for simple companionship (without sex), just to be able to blow off steam. But they know they have that option else they would just go to a therapist.
Your sense of humor is special...
I watched your ads here on MERB. A lot is promoted but "spending time" not so much...
Don't get me wrong! You do what you want but we are on an "escort review board" here and not a social meeting club.
You even quote: incall downtown Montreal /outcall to hotels only no private residences, * +50 for PSE, * +50 for GREEK, * +80 for PSE+GREEK
Yes intimacy is part of the package but that’s not what my rate is for.
I based my rates off time not activities.
Hence why it is more expensive if you choose to do PSE or greek, because it takes me more time to get ready. It also takes me less time to get ready for a social date so it’s cheaper.
I am solely speaking for myself, maybe you could ask another provider. I’m sure they would have very different opinions
I based my rates off time not activities.
Hence why it is more expensive if you choose to do PSE or greek, because it takes me more time to get ready. It also takes me less time to get ready for a social date so it’s cheaper.
I am solely speaking for myself, maybe you could ask another provider. I’m sure they would have very different opinions
They're just trying to make conversation. I'd say it's a pretty normal thing to ask
The way you say it sounds so nasty. Like he put a thumb up your ass or something, lol.
The expression is better worded as: "you gave me the thumbs up". Just a fyi
I'm gonna leave this here as my last comment about paying for someone's social time... or not.
Considering you, providers, all agree with having clients paying you for your precious social time. How do you explain that so many SWs have asked me, in the most serious way, for my professional time...for free! I'm talking at least a dozen of them. Is this what we call double standards?
Btw, I never accepted.
The "social time" shuts up the needy Johns with an simple rebuttle without buthurting them / keeping them on the hook and/or increases their revenue stream that's literally part of their job.
Some guys seem to need to be reminded that they are paying for a fantasy. 95% of the SW have 0% interest in creating a friendly bond with a John no matter how cool or how much of a stud she made him think he was. If a guy is inviting her in hopes she's wanna hang or bang off the clock... I mean, guess she was that good? smh lol
There are RARE exceptions. In which case you'll know because it will be clear. It will sound something like: "Hey, I like you. I finnish at xyz time if you want to go for a drink or a bite after I'm DONE WITH WORK I'm totally down". If she doesn't say something that obvious... you're definitly paying per hour on top of expenses why even bother thinking otherwise?
Girls constantly try to mooch off of you, why even bother telling them what you do in the first place?
It a seduction game. Providers live in a reality where guys say yes. So its not really surprising that they try. There are guys that have a shitload of cash where taking a girl on a 10k shopping spree doesn't even show up on their statements. You don't even need to be that rich to blow a fraction of that on fun. There are guys that are totally in to being a finsubs. etc...
If you're not however, I totally get how annoying it can be to constantly have people asking for help not realizing how much of my time/effort they are asking for (that extends to friends and family too). So I don't blame them. I also don't feel bad laughing as I ponder in shock realizing that she might think I was the type of person to say yes in the first place.
Some guys seem to need to be reminded that they are paying for a fantasy. 95% of the SW have 0% interest in creating a friendly bond with a John no matter how cool or how much of a stud she made him think he was. If a guy is inviting her in hopes she's wanna hang or bang off the clock... I mean, guess she was that good? smh lol
There are RARE exceptions. In which case you'll know because it will be clear. It will sound something like: "Hey, I like you. I finnish at xyz time if you want to go for a drink or a bite after I'm DONE WITH WORK I'm totally down". If she doesn't say something that obvious... you're definitly paying per hour on top of expenses why even bother thinking otherwise?
Girls constantly try to mooch off of you, why even bother telling them what you do in the first place?
It a seduction game. Providers live in a reality where guys say yes. So its not really surprising that they try. There are guys that have a shitload of cash where taking a girl on a 10k shopping spree doesn't even show up on their statements. You don't even need to be that rich to blow a fraction of that on fun. There are guys that are totally in to being a finsubs. etc...
If you're not however, I totally get how annoying it can be to constantly have people asking for help not realizing how much of my time/effort they are asking for (that extends to friends and family too). So I don't blame them. I also don't feel bad laughing as I ponder in shock realizing that she might think I was the type of person to say yes in the first place.
SW expecting someone's time and labour without compensation isn't really a double standard because no one claimed it was only one group in one kind of situation doing this. All types of people do this outside of SW. Some people don't consider others time as valuable and some people don't even realize what they're expecting. It's just people, not any specific type of occupation.
Also, it's m possible that some SW do intend to offer an exchange of services/time as fair compensation. Which would be an entirely different situation.
So I rarely get involved in this Forum but this subject got my attention. I've seen quite a few Providers over the years and you always feel when you click with someone. After seeing one popular provider a few time, she asked me if I had any plans that afternoon and invited me to diner. We then went to her place and I slept over. We dated for a few months... You never know what can happen.
Not really...the only way you get to know someone is by spending time with them. And the more time, the better. Also...some ppl might maybe want to take a coffee with a SP first just to see if there's any chemistry between them and a given SP. Better chemistry leads to a better session, imho.
Nobody's looking for friendship, love, etc. It's a business transaction, pure and simple. But even in business, you want to get along with the people you interact with. And the ones that I do get along with, I tend to repeat with. The ones I don't is usually a "one and done" deal.
I`d rather an escort ask tons of questions than stay shy and not talk.
BTW even though we don`t expect friendship or "feelings" it sometimes happens....we are social beings .
BTW even though we don`t expect friendship or "feelings" it sometimes happens....we are social beings .
This is exactly it, my expectation is not friendship but a fun adventure with a gorgeous woman.
On rare occasions when you see someone many times it turns into friendship also where you do enjoy having a lunch or dinner together or if they need a ride somewhere or just had a bad day and need someone to listen. Here is when you need to be aware and not take advantage and destroy the client/ SP relationship.
I don’t have a problem with this at all and enjoy the ladies company because she is having lunch or dinner because she wants to be there and is a friend.
This is what I have been trying to explain perhaps without success.
The other scenario of paying an SP to have dinner with me or for social time just doesn’t make sense to me and I have zero interest in it, I do however understand it from an SP point of view to her it is a job and she wants to be compensated for her time, nothing wrong with that.
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