So how open minded are you Merbites? Could you long term relationship, date a SP? What if she was a GFE SP, would knowing that she is doing everything that she does with you, with other guys bother you? Should the SP`s just stay in the fanatasy world, hearing them complain about clients everyday & not getting enough sex on her working days, be a turn off? Would you tell yourself I can`t date her because of the health risk(very weak logic, since you are already using SP`s), or maybe you would feel too ashamed if friends or family ever found out about her, or maybe you are just too selfish & controlling to share her with anyone?
SP`s, do you allow your BF`s to see other people on the side or even other SP`s......... like a open relationship? Or do you tell them this is just work & what they want is cheating? Or is it better just to lie to them & tell them as little as possible about your work?
I have only met 4 Montreal GFE SP`s, and they all seemed just like a kind of woman I would date in the real world........ other than the fact that I normally do not date women that much younger than me. I find it is so nice to be able to talk about anything sexual with a woman, without that normal sexual hangups that we all have(until my trip to Montreal, I thought ATM was to demeaning & nasty to women, only gay men shaved their balls, or I would never kiss a woman, after a CIM), and to even laugh about what we like to do or turns us on. Even without talking to any of them about anything this personal, I know they all must have boyfriends and I would not be surprised if, at least 1 of their boyfriend`s knew what they did for a living. I now just wonder if Merbites respect SP`s as equals or do you think of them as your dirty secret? & Are SP`s okay enough with what they do, to trust men, knowing that most of their best clients are cheaters?
What about me, personally? I don`t know, like every relationship, it would depend on my experiences with that person, every relationship that I had are different. I would like to think I could, if it was a open & loving relationship........... the pro`s are huge to dating a SP, but so are my internal hangups. Still I am not in that situation, so in the end, I could not truely tell you that I am man enough to knowingly date a SP?