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    Do you prepare differently for an SP than a regular date?

    I was curious to know if guys prepare differently for an SP than a regular date.

    I am having dinner tonight with a lovely little blonde I met a while back. We've been emailing a lot and this is our first real date. I am prepping pretty much the same way I do for an SP. Shower, shave above and below (I am an optimist), brushing teeth, picking out decent but casual clothes, packing away just about the same amount of money, condoms...

    Your thoughts...

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    Leave your cash at home and take a credit card.
    Don`t expect to score a home run on a first date with a regular girl...unless she plans to marry you

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    Of course I prepare myself differently.

    There's not too much preparation involved before going out with an SP besides calling an agency in order to get a girl. Sometimes, I shaved myself another time. What else? Yeah, going to the bank. That's about it. I keep it simple.

    Going out with a regular date involves more preparation. Choosing and buying good wine, making a reservation in a restaurant, cleaning the car, choosing my best clothes, buying her a small gift, going to the barber shop a few days (or few hours) before, etc. Sometimes, I even don't have sex few days before because the aim is pleasuring myself and herself and I have to be in top shape.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lanum View Post
    I was curious to know if guys prepare differently for an SP than a regular date.
    Answer for me : definitely not, though the basics of hygiene are the same.
    The difference is in mental preparation, this is not necessary for SPs!

    Meeting SP :

    Basics same : Shower, Shave, Get haircut, Dress nicely
    Get Cash!
    Prepare bag with condoms, mood music, Alcohol, Chocolate, Water
    A small gift if I have seen her before

    Meeting Date :

    Shower, Shave, Get haircut, Dress nicely

    You certainly want some cash handy but you don't need so much and you can use a credit card : definitely offer to pay for everything.

    I assume you have already put thought into the where/when, thought of a date she is likely to enjoy, while it is important to relax and be yourself, I try to have a half dozen conversation topics in case I need them. Try to "psych" yourself up before, esp if you have had a busy or stressful day.

    A small gift can be a plus... only if you are sure you have a "good idea" though IMHO, not something lame and unoriginal.

    I personally will usually bring a condom or two in my bag or wallet but I definitely don't expect to use it until we've kissed and the vibe has been good for a few dates and the "timing" of the date suggests that there is time available.
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    Cool A gentleman's view...

    Well, maybe I missed something or I am just old fashioned...and I have been called a "white knight"... but I prepare the same for either. Of course I believe my style of encounter with an SP is probably just a little different that the typical short meeting.

    The gentleman in me says be clean, be courteous, be kind, be gentle, be perceptive, be generous, be a little mysterious, be ready to have fun, be adaptive, and above all be nice...

    After all in either case is it not about treating the lady right?

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    For a regular date I might not shave my ass

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    Quote Originally Posted by rollingstone View Post
    For a regular date I might not shave my ass
    Would you walk backwards? LOL!
    Last edited by Jman47; 09-09-2009 at 08:34 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cloudsurf View Post
    Don`t expect to score a home run on a first date with a regular girl...unless she plans to marry you
    I wouldnt want to marry a girl that gives it up on the first date

    If she gave it up once who knows how many times she's given it up
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    Quote Originally Posted by master_bates View Post
    If she gave it up once who knows how many times she's given it up
    And the problem with that is.... ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ariane Valmont View Post
    And the problem with that is.... ?
    well, i can only speak for myself when i say my wife must be a virgin out of respect for me, since, you know, like, i'm a virgin, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by johnmbot View Post
    well, i can only speak for myself when i say my wife must be a virgin out of respect for me, since, you know, like, i'm a virgin, too.
    Thank you! That was precisely the kind of logical explanation I was hoping for.

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