Not important.
It is not my moment, it is yours! And often, clients confuse pleasure with orgasm. One of the things that turns me off the most is when a client says that he won't come before I do. I come when I feel I want to, because the moment and our energy get me there, not because I am physically stimulated or we ask me to. I do not come every time I have intercourse, and pressuring me to orgasm is setting yourself up for failure. Sex to me is far more than an orgasm. I find pleasure in many ways during our encounter, and it's not only sexual!