Yes!!! This!!! With proper consent beforehand - dirty talk can be hot ! (With proper discussion as to what ones limits are)
But please do not ask me to dirty talk or role play as I will probably laugh & kill the mood
However, if it happens naturally & there’s chemistry between a guy & myself - it’s nice but I cannot force it or follow a script.
^^^also this. I cannot stand insisters on what my boundaries are. Thankfully, I can get a sense of that through how the person texts but in the past when I was new in the industry I let stuff happen that I shouldn’t have let happen. Now, if I sense someone is pushing my boundaries even through text it’s an instant block. Bye.
I’ve had guys go right ahead and shove their fingers in my ass without even asking me. I also had a disrespectful man use “dirty talking” as an excuse just to be demeaning to me in the end and to allow himself to call me all the names under the sun.