Ask us anything part 3

[CuriousGent]

Ladies when screening a client you agree to see, for those of you who don't ask for pictures, you certainly build an image of the person in your mind when they provide a description, is that image usually close to reality when you open the door? this question make sense in my head don't know if it's coming out properly... lol

The few ladies I have seen have been face covered on their site or profile, the picture I have built in my mind before seeing has never been remotely close to reality... But I must also say I have never been disappointed so far either.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Ladies when screening a client you agree to see, for those of you who don't ask for pictures, you certainly build an image of the person in your mind when they provide a description, is that image usually close to reality when you open the door? this question make sense in my head don't know if it's coming out properly... lol

The few ladies I have seen have been face covered on their site or profile, the picture I have built in my mind before seeing has never been remotely close to reality... But I must also say I have never been disappointed so far either.

When I accept seeing clients without seeing their photos (usually because they provided other ways of screening), I don't really have an image in my mind of what they will look like and I have no expectations. I've worked at spas and often clients would book me and I had no idea what they would be like

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Can you count how many penises you have had in you?

Really? Dumbest question to ask to a provider.

 

[Zero_Six]

If a guy wants you to wear a specific outfit, what's the procedure? I wanted a woman to wear some fishnet sleeves and stockings I had brought, but she said no. They were clean and basically new, but I had worn them myself once or twice. Can't say I blame her for passing.

If I brought the items still in the package, would I have had better luck? Or do I need to basically order something from a wishlist?

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

If I brought the items still in the package, would I have had better luck?

Probably! Anything you bring to a provider should be still in its original packaging, even yourself!

 

[Zero_Six]

Probably! Anything you bring to a provider should be still in its original packaging, even yourself!

My original packaging? So no skin suit?

 

[LC18]

If I brought the items still in the package, would I have had better luck? Or do I need to basically order something from a wishlist?

Yes, only sealed items, unworn clothes, items still in packaging.

 

[Zero_Six]

Yes, only sealed items, unworn clothes, items still in packaging.

Follow up question. Are the clothes now hers or can I take them when I leave as memorabilia? Would she even want to keep them?

 

[LC18]

Follow up question. Are the clothes now hers or can I take them when I leave as memorabilia? Would she even want to keep them?

A few clients have bought clothes or accessories for our booking. I’ve kept them because they didn’t manifest any interest in keeping them. Only one man left with the stockings we used during the booking he has a foot fetish so I assume he’s probably using them at home when he misses me

 

[someoneany]

Really? Dumbest question to ask to a provider.

come on we can ask any question as long as we do not insult or humiliate anybody

 

[someoneany]

That's fkn rude dude, seriously!

come on we can ask any question as long as we do not insult or humiliate anybody

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Can you count how many penises you have had in you?

The question is "can you", so no, I can't.

 

[Julia Sky]

come on we can ask any question as long as we do not insult or humiliate anybody

You can, but that doesn't mean the question isn't rude and/or in bad taste. The wording was a little fucked up too. We may be sex workers but our job is about far more than just "having penises inside us". It's a weird question that serves no purpose.

Ladies when screening a client you agree to see, for those of you who don't ask for pictures, you certainly build an image of the person in your mind when they provide a description, is that image usually close to reality when you open the door?

I don't build an image for the person in my mind, no. It's not something that really even crosses my mind. The only time I really pay attention to someone's physical description is when it's a dinner date/social date and I'm meeting in public and need to be able to spot the person when I arrive, but even then I don't really have a mental image of them. I just keep pointers in mind (white shirt, brown hair, tall, etc).

Follow up question. Are the clothes now hers or can I take them when I leave as memorabilia? Would she even want to keep them?

I love when I get to keep the stuff clients bring (brand new toys or lingerie). It's not mandatory, of course you're free to keep it. But I'll admit part of me always starts wondering, when they keep it, are they going to have another girl use it?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

If a guy wants you to wear a specific outfit, what's the procedure? I wanted a woman to wear some fishnet sleeves and stockings I had brought, but she said no. They were clean and basically new, but I had worn them myself once or twice. Can't say I blame her for passing

If a client wants me to wear a specific outfit or costume, I'd prefer that he buys it. I don't always own what clients want me to wear. I get requests for very specific things sometimes, and it's annoying because I don't have these things in my wardrobe, I'm not a cosplayer. As for keeping the item or having it worn previously, that wouldn't be an issue with me. Every provider has different boundaries and things they're cool with or not. Personally I'd be cool with changing into something a client brought, it might even be really fun.

 

[Rebaynia]

Can you count how many penises you have had in you?

Are you seriously asking SPs what their body count is?
If I cared to check I probly could. But why would I want to go back and count? There are so many better things to do with our time.... like adding another penis to the count

But seriously, asking anyone their body count is down right tacky.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Can you count how many penises you have had in you?

None, I'm a virgin.

 

[Mw66]

Escorts that retire and return to civilian life....


For those that settle into normal long term relationships, how do they go about their past life intersecting with their new life?

From a % standpoint, how many keep their escort life secret from their relationship forever, how many eventually tell their partner after a commitment and hope it doesnt blow things up and how many dont even enter a committed relationship until they have their past life out in the open and its accepted?

How many retired escorts enter LTRs with former clients?

 

[LC18]

How many retired escorts enter LTRs with former clients?

At least 3 that I know of.

One is going to marry a former client, they don’t live together yet. He is funding her life and they spend time together here and there. They are house hunting and will move in together once the marriage is official

 

[RockytheSnail]

Hi everyone! Thanks for putting this thread together and taking the time to answer our questions
I’ve heard differing answers from various providers but wanted to set the tale straight- when is the “low season” for business in Canada/Montreal? I have a busy work schedule and am trying to find the best time to take a more extended break to visit some of my favorite providers in the area. Was thinking perhaps late fall or winter would be best, but it is amazing seeing gorgeous ladies in their summer minidresses, heels, and sandals!

 

[romaniamania]

I always do CBJ, but I'm getting tempted to go with BBBJ or CIM if it's offered. I know it's a YMMV thing, but I just wanted to ask because it seems like a good space here.

SPs, have you ever had someone skeptical about going for it? Did they cite health reasons, or playing it safe for a potential partner?