Ask us anything part 3

[Fradi]

Believe it or not some men (very much married) are paying to text me. Why? They have wives, friends and coworkers they could text them…

Would they get nudes? No.
Would they get the thrill? No.
Would they get attention? Maybe not the kind they want.

As they say there is a market for everything.
If it makes them happy why not.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Believe it or not some men (very much married) are paying to text me.

Damn! I would pay some of my friends for not texting me!

 

[LC18]

the ones who enjoy my company not the ones that pretend to because I am paying them.

That’s the thing, I would never want to sit in a restaurant for 2 hours with someone I didn’t enjoy. Paid or not.

It obviously comes from a place of privilege because I can afford to decline a dinner date request from someone who doesn’t give me good vibes.

 

[Fradi]

That’s the thing, I would never want to sit in a restaurant for 2 hours with someone I didn’t enjoy. Paid or not.

It obviously comes from a place of privilege because I can afford to decline a dinner date request from someone who doesn’t give me good vibes.

See we do agree after all.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

To each their own needs, but I can relate to Fradi’s feelings. I’m the same as him, I have enough friends, hommes et femmes qui se feront un plaisir de m’accompagner pour une sortie. L’idée de payer une femme pour son temps à diner et converser me coupe toute envie de sortir de chez moi.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

That’s the thing, I would never want to sit in a restaurant for 2 hours with someone I didn’t enjoy. Paid or not.

It obviously comes from a place of privilege because I can afford to decline a dinner date request from someone who doesn’t give me good vibes.

my point too. I have declined a dinner date before because the person was rude during our exchange.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

To each their own needs, but I can relate to Fradi’s feelings. I’m the same as him, I have enough friends, hommes et femmes qui se feront un plaisir de m’accompagner pour une sortie. L’idée de payer une femme pour son temps à diner et converser me coupe toute envie de sortir de chez moi.

Très souvent les clients qui me book pour du social time sont célibataires et veulent une sortie qui ressemble à une vraie date. Sinon, ce sont des gens qui sont à Montréal pour le travail ou en visite chez des gens et veulent de la compagnie féminine pour agrémenter leur séjour

 

[Skym]

Do you like having an alcoholic beverage like wine (if offered) with your clients?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Do you like having an alcoholic beverage like wine (if offered) with your clients?

Personally I do! I've been significantly cutting down on my drinking since last winter so I appreciate being asked, but I think sharing some wine is appropriate for a longer booking
I've never had a bad experience drinking alcohol with clients, it's usually a reasonable amount like sharing a bottle or a few drinks. It definitely makes things relaxed and creates a festive atmosphere.

If a client was trying to get me really really drunk I would set boundaries. I also refuse to use party drugs with clients or receive someone who's on party drugs.

 

[LC18]

Do you like having an alcoholic beverage like wine (if offered) with your clients?

It depends what and when. I will never say no to champagne, I will have Prosecco maybe, cava not so much. White wine is also more yes than no. Red wine, no thank you. Anything else I will pass.

I know my limit and if I feel while I’m reaching it, I will politely tell my date that I am done drinking but they can carry on if they want.

I prefer drinking on longer dates because we both won’t feel rushed and won’t drink as fast.

I also like receiving bottles. Then again champagne or a good white otherwise I will not keep it, I don’t drink other type of alcohol.

Edited for clarity

 

[Lunaseraphim]

It depends what and when. I will never say no to champagne, I will have Prosecco maybe, cava not so much. White wine is also more yes than no. Red wine, no thank you. Anything else I will pass.

I know my limit and if I feel will teaching it, I will politely tell my date that I am done drinking but they can carry on if they want.

I prefer drinking on longer dates because we both won’t feel rushed and won’t drink as fast.

I also like receiving bottles. Then again champagne or a good white otherwise I will not keep it, I don’t drink other type of alcohol.

Yes this is something I forgot to mention.. I don't drink red wine, and I don't like having hard liquor offered to me. I used to enjoy receiving bottles as gifts but now that I cut down on drinking I'd rather enjoy wine in good company rather than alone, I'd rather receive something else as a present

 

[CuriousGent]

Diner date or social time is a very personal need. I understand both sides of the argument. I would fall on the side of the "no" to a diner date or social time, for the only reason that I would be very self conscious to not over step any boundaries while talking and trying to converse with the lady, second guessing every question does not make for a fun conversation.

 

[LC18]

I would be very self conscious to not over step any boundaries while talking and trying to converse with the lady, second guessing every question does not make for a fun conversation.

So you don’t talk at all when meeting people for a regular booking?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Diner date or social time is a very personal need. I understand both sides of the argument. I would fall on the side of the "no" to a diner date or social time, for the only reason that I would be very self conscious to not over step any boundaries while talking and trying to converse with the lady, second guessing every question does not make for a fun conversation.

I don't think you should feel self conscious part of our job is to allow you to have a pleasant time and decompress. the only types of questions i would avoid are things that are very personal like ''what is your real name'' or things that could trigger bad memories like ''what have been your worst experiences with clients'' etc, but you seem to want to be respectful

 

[CuriousGent]

So you don’t talk at all when meeting people for a regular booking?

of course but meeting someone for a 1h or 90minutes booking is different, between a shower at the start and another at the end, small talk, teasing, foreplay, sex 2 SOG the conversations have not been very deep or personal, but i would think sitting across from someone for 2h in a restaurent would involve more than light banter. I think humans are naturally curious in wanting to know about others but it is also absolutely normal and expected that an sp not want to share things about themselves. I remember asking what I thought was a simple question like so when you are not working what do you do for fun she said she couldn't share that information because she doesn't want clients showing up where she hangs out... never asked for a place just what she likes, it could have been i like to go to the movies, not looking to know which movie theater.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

A question for gents :

Does it bother you when providers talk about their job during the booking? I'm not talking about describing experiences with clients, more like chatting about our daily lives as an escort. Many clients like to ask questions about it, so I got used to talking about it very candidly, and I realized that maybe it's a turn off or impolite..

I guess a broader question would be.. are there subjects you don't like providers to talk about during bookings?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

of course but meeting someone for a 1h or 90minutes booking is different, between a shower at the start and another at the end, small talk, teasing, foreplay, sex 2 SOG the conversations have not been very deep or personal, but i would think sitting across from someone for 2h in a restaurent would involve more than light banter. I think humans are naturally curious in wanting to know about others but it is also absolutely normal and expected that an sp not want to share things about themselves. I remember asking what I thought was a simple question like so when you are not working what do you do for fun she said she couldn't share that information because she doesn't want clients showing up where she hangs out... never asked for a place just what she likes, it could have been i like to go to the movies, not looking to know which movie theater.

I'm sorry this SP answered in that manner, I understand where she's coming from, but asking someone what they do for fun is a perfectly fine question to ask! I think you ask questions like ''what do you like better, this or that?'' or ''what type of x do you like?'' or ''what are things you're fascinated with'' are very good topics of conversation. I think some SP's don't like talking about their personal interests and opinions at all. and I understand why, but personally I love getting to know each other

I have very good memories of certain clients because of passionate conversations we were having during the social part of the booking. I truly love people.

 

[DouMan]

Diner date or social time is a very personal need. I understand both sides of the argument. I would fall on the side of the "no" to a diner date or social time, for the only reason that I would be very self conscious to not over step any boundaries while talking and trying to converse with the lady, second guessing every question does not make for a fun conversation.

Why? Never forget that behind the label as "escort" that the ladies are normal everyday women like you meet at work, neighbors, gym and yes, even church.

So chill out, enjoy the conversation with the woman in front of you.

 

[LC18]

of course but meeting someone for a 1h or 90minutes booking is different, between a shower at the start and another at the end, small talk, teasing, foreplay, sex 2 SOG the conversations have not been very deep or personal, but i would think sitting across from someone for 2h in a restaurent would involve more than light banter. I think humans are naturally curious in wanting to know about others but it is also absolutely normal and expected that an sp not want to share things about themselves. I remember asking what I thought was a simple question like so when you are not working what do you do for fun she said she couldn't share that information because she doesn't want clients showing up where she hangs out... never asked for a place just what she likes, it could have been i like to go to the movies, not looking to know which movie theater.

Most of the time it’s the same kind of conversations we would have in a shorter booking and then things just flow naturally. If it doesn’t then you’re probably not a great match.

About that sp, it must have been a very specific pastime that you can only do at one place. Either way, she could have replied that she likes to watch tv or hangout with friends.

 

[DouMan]

A question for gents :

Does it bother you when providers talk about their job during the booking? I'm not talking about describing experiences with clients, more like chatting about our daily lives as an escort. Many clients like to ask questions about it, so I got used to talking about it very candidly, and I realized that maybe it's a turn off or impolite..

I guess a broader question would be.. are there subjects you don't like providers to talk about during bookings?

I don't mind at all as long as it's not about other clients or ladies, especially in a negative way.I even find it normal to talk about your work.

No matter what line we are in, if we like our job we will talk about it especially when we are successful. As long as we don't fall into bragging and $$, we have all the reason to be proud to share.