Diner date or social time is a very personal need. I understand both sides of the argument. I would fall on the side of the "no" to a diner date or social time, for the only reason that I would be very self conscious to not over step any boundaries while talking and trying to converse with the lady, second guessing every question does not make for a fun conversation.
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So you don’t talk at all when meeting people for a regular booking?
I don't think you should feel self conscious
part of our job is to allow you to have a pleasant time and decompress. the only types of questions i would avoid are things that are very personal like ''what is your real name'' or things that could trigger bad memories like ''what have been your worst experiences with clients'' etc, but you seem to want to be respectfulof course but meeting someone for a 1h or 90minutes booking is different, between a shower at the start and another at the end, small talk, teasing, foreplay, sex 2 SOG the conversations have not been very deep or personal, but i would think sitting across from someone for 2h in a restaurent would involve more than light banter. I think humans are naturally curious in wanting to know about others but it is also absolutely normal and expected that an sp not want to share things about themselves. I remember asking what I thought was a simple question like so when you are not working what do you do for fun she said she couldn't share that information because she doesn't want clients showing up where she hangs out... never asked for a place just what she likes, it could have been i like to go to the movies, not looking to know which movie theater.
A question for gents :
Does it bother you when providers talk about their job during the booking? I'm not talking about describing experiences with clients, more like chatting about our daily lives as an escort. Many clients like to ask questions about it, so I got used to talking about it very candidly, and I realized that maybe it's a turn off or impolite..
I guess a broader question would be.. are there subjects you don't like providers to talk about during bookings?
Does it bother you when providers talk about their job during the booking? I'm not talking about describing experiences with clients, more like chatting about our daily lives as an escort. Many clients like to ask questions about it, so I got used to talking about it very candidly, and I realized that maybe it's a turn off or impolite..
I guess a broader question would be.. are there subjects you don't like providers to talk about during bookings?
I'm sorry this SP answered in that manner, I understand where she's coming from, but asking someone what they do for fun is a perfectly fine question to ask! I think you ask questions like ''what do you like better, this or that?'' or ''what type of x do you like?'' or ''what are things you're fascinated with'' are very good topics of conversation. I think some SP's don't like talking about their personal interests and opinions at all. and I understand why, but personally I love getting to know each other
I have very good memories of certain clients because of passionate conversations we were having during the social part of the booking. I truly love people.
Why? Never forget that behind the label as "escort" that the ladies are normal everyday women like you meet at work, neighbors, gym and yes, even church.
So chill out, enjoy the conversation with the woman in front of you.
Most of the time it’s the same kind of conversations we would have in a shorter booking and then things just flow naturally. If it doesn’t then you’re probably not a great match.
About that sp, it must have been a very specific pastime that you can only do at one place. Either way, she could have replied that she likes to watch tv or hangout with friends.
I don't mind at all as long as it's not about other clients or ladies, especially in a negative way.I even find it normal to talk about your work.A question for gents :
Does it bother you when providers talk about their job during the booking? I'm not talking about describing experiences with clients, more like chatting about our daily lives as an escort. Many clients like to ask questions about it, so I got used to talking about it very candidly, and I realized that maybe it's a turn off or impolite..
I guess a broader question would be.. are there subjects you don't like providers to talk about during bookings?
No matter what line we are in, if we like our job we will talk about it especially when we are successful. As long as we don't fall into bragging and $$, we have all the reason to be proud to share.
Yes all of this makes total sense and isn't something I would do anyways
Nothing really bothers me I can talk about anything they wish, I am retired so even my job places where I worked is not off limits.A question for gents :
Does it bother you when providers talk about their job during the booking? I'm not talking about describing experiences with clients, more like chatting about our daily lives as an escort. Many clients like to ask questions about it, so I got used to talking about it very candidly, and I realized that maybe it's a turn off or impolite..
I guess a broader question would be.. are there subjects you don't like providers to talk about during bookings?
I don’t have anything to hide, I am comfortable with who I am.
As far as what to talk about with them it is not difficult, all you need is a bit of common sense and to be respectful and kind.
As it was mentioned they are no different they are women with the same dreams and wishes as any other.
Best is to treat them as if you were on a date with a lady you care about and want to be with.
It would be nice, but I drive, so I refuse any alcohol. Only time I have allowed it was at the begining of a 4 hr date and was just 1 glass.
When asked what I would like often a bottle of water or a monster drink depending on the time of day.
Yes, and it's fun when they go on my Twitter to find the latest bottles I want to try and they buy one of them for our appointment
Clients - do you become friends with other clients and hang out outside of here? If so, do you start discussing various providers in private messages with other men? I'm asking this question because often a client knew something about me that he wasn't supposed to know. If so, what is the purpose of this? What if it endangers the companion?
Je suis d’accord au niveau de la santé mais ici je fais seulement référence à la silhouette
Je parle de la silhouette aussi, si quelqu'un a peu de gras et beaucoup de masse musculaire, son IMC va être plus élevé qu'une personne de la même taille mais avec moins de muscles. Certaines personnes ont des plus petits ou plus gros os aussi. Je me considère quelqu'un de fit mais j'ai un IMC 17-18. J'ai une amie qui a un IMC 24-25 et elle est super en shape, avec une silhouette hourglass et une taille fine. Elle est très musclée et bien proportionnée. Pourtant son IMC est supposément ''élevé''Je suis d’accord au niveau de la santé mais ici je fais seulement référence à la silhouette
En effet, l'IMC n'est bon que pour calculer l'indice de santé de la population générale. Il n'aurait jamais dû être utilisé sur une base individuelle. Deux personnes peuvent avoir le même IMC, une sera tout en muscle et l'autre sera tout en gras, pourtant le résultat de l'IMC est le même.
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