Ask us anything part 3

[CuriousGent]

I wouldn’t leave with a man I just met in a bar doesn’t matter if it’s paid or not. When people try to follow me back home or invite me to their place, I politely refuse and tell them I will text them another time.

If a girl told me she left with a guy for a paid date I would understand even if I wouldn’t do it myself

Given your experience and knowledge of this industry your instincts are probable very sharp,
I am wondering if this happens mostly with girls who are new to the stripping, maybe college students who would in fact have a 1 nighter with someone from a club or bar, so if it is a familiar face they see regularly in the strip club they feel ok leaving with him

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Do providers prefer men to be nicely groomed or completely shaved below the belt?

I like when at least the person is shaved where they want me to lick them, let's just put it that way

 

[LC18]

Do providers prefer men to be nicely groomed or completely shaved below the belt?

I don’t really care about that to be honest. As long as it’s clean so if you keep hairs, wash them, if you shave, wash the skin

 

[someoneany]

Can you count how many penises you have had in you?

 

[LC18]

Can you count how many penises you have had in you?

I don’t really see the point so no I don’t think about that.

 

[DouMan]

Can you count how many penises you have had in you?

That's fkn rude dude, seriously!

 

[CuriousGent]

Ladies when screening a client you agree to see, for those of you who don't ask for pictures, you certainly build an image of the person in your mind when they provide a description, is that image usually close to reality when you open the door? this question make sense in my head don't know if it's coming out properly... lol

The few ladies I have seen have been face covered on their site or profile, the picture I have built in my mind before seeing has never been remotely close to reality... But I must also say I have never been disappointed so far either.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Ladies when screening a client you agree to see, for those of you who don't ask for pictures, you certainly build an image of the person in your mind when they provide a description, is that image usually close to reality when you open the door? this question make sense in my head don't know if it's coming out properly... lol

The few ladies I have seen have been face covered on their site or profile, the picture I have built in my mind before seeing has never been remotely close to reality... But I must also say I have never been disappointed so far either.

When I accept seeing clients without seeing their photos (usually because they provided other ways of screening), I don't really have an image in my mind of what they will look like and I have no expectations. I've worked at spas and often clients would book me and I had no idea what they would be like

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Can you count how many penises you have had in you?

Really? Dumbest question to ask to a provider.

 

[Zero_Six]

If a guy wants you to wear a specific outfit, what's the procedure? I wanted a woman to wear some fishnet sleeves and stockings I had brought, but she said no. They were clean and basically new, but I had worn them myself once or twice. Can't say I blame her for passing.

If I brought the items still in the package, would I have had better luck? Or do I need to basically order something from a wishlist?

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

If I brought the items still in the package, would I have had better luck?

Probably! Anything you bring to a provider should be still in its original packaging, even yourself!

 

[Zero_Six]

Probably! Anything you bring to a provider should be still in its original packaging, even yourself!

My original packaging? So no skin suit?

 

[LC18]

If I brought the items still in the package, would I have had better luck? Or do I need to basically order something from a wishlist?

Yes, only sealed items, unworn clothes, items still in packaging.

 

[Zero_Six]

Yes, only sealed items, unworn clothes, items still in packaging.

Follow up question. Are the clothes now hers or can I take them when I leave as memorabilia? Would she even want to keep them?

 

[LC18]

Follow up question. Are the clothes now hers or can I take them when I leave as memorabilia? Would she even want to keep them?

A few clients have bought clothes or accessories for our booking. I’ve kept them because they didn’t manifest any interest in keeping them. Only one man left with the stockings we used during the booking he has a foot fetish so I assume he’s probably using them at home when he misses me

 

[someoneany]

Really? Dumbest question to ask to a provider.

come on we can ask any question as long as we do not insult or humiliate anybody

 

[someoneany]

That's fkn rude dude, seriously!

come on we can ask any question as long as we do not insult or humiliate anybody

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Can you count how many penises you have had in you?

The question is "can you", so no, I can't.

 

[Julia Sky]

come on we can ask any question as long as we do not insult or humiliate anybody

You can, but that doesn't mean the question isn't rude and/or in bad taste. The wording was a little fucked up too. We may be sex workers but our job is about far more than just "having penises inside us". It's a weird question that serves no purpose.

Ladies when screening a client you agree to see, for those of you who don't ask for pictures, you certainly build an image of the person in your mind when they provide a description, is that image usually close to reality when you open the door?

I don't build an image for the person in my mind, no. It's not something that really even crosses my mind. The only time I really pay attention to someone's physical description is when it's a dinner date/social date and I'm meeting in public and need to be able to spot the person when I arrive, but even then I don't really have a mental image of them. I just keep pointers in mind (white shirt, brown hair, tall, etc).

Follow up question. Are the clothes now hers or can I take them when I leave as memorabilia? Would she even want to keep them?

I love when I get to keep the stuff clients bring (brand new toys or lingerie). It's not mandatory, of course you're free to keep it. But I'll admit part of me always starts wondering, when they keep it, are they going to have another girl use it?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

If a guy wants you to wear a specific outfit, what's the procedure? I wanted a woman to wear some fishnet sleeves and stockings I had brought, but she said no. They were clean and basically new, but I had worn them myself once or twice. Can't say I blame her for passing

If a client wants me to wear a specific outfit or costume, I'd prefer that he buys it. I don't always own what clients want me to wear. I get requests for very specific things sometimes, and it's annoying because I don't have these things in my wardrobe, I'm not a cosplayer. As for keeping the item or having it worn previously, that wouldn't be an issue with me. Every provider has different boundaries and things they're cool with or not. Personally I'd be cool with changing into something a client brought, it might even be really fun.