The question is "can you", so no, I can't.
Ask us anything part 3
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You can, but that doesn't mean the question isn't rude and/or in bad taste. The wording was a little fucked up too. We may be sex workers but our job is about far more than just "having penises inside us". It's a weird question that serves no purpose.
I don't build an image for the person in my mind, no. It's not something that really even crosses my mind. The only time I really pay attention to someone's physical description is when it's a dinner date/social date and I'm meeting in public and need to be able to spot the person when I arrive, but even then I don't really have a mental image of them. I just keep pointers in mind (white shirt, brown hair, tall, etc).
I love when I get to keep the stuff clients bring (brand new toys or lingerie). It's not mandatory, of course you're free to keep it. But I'll admit part of me always starts wondering, when they keep it, are they going to have another girl use it?
If a client wants me to wear a specific outfit or costume, I'd prefer that he buys it. I don't always own what clients want me to wear. I get requests for very specific things sometimes, and it's annoying because I don't have these things in my wardrobe, I'm not a cosplayer. As for keeping the item or having it worn previously, that wouldn't be an issue with me. Every provider has different boundaries and things they're cool with or not. Personally I'd be cool with changing into something a client brought, it might even be really fun.
Are you seriously asking SPs what their body count is?
If I cared to check I probly could. But why would I want to go back and count? There are so many better things to do with our time.... like adding another penis to the count
But seriously, asking anyone their body count is down right tacky.
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Escorts that retire and return to civilian life....
For those that settle into normal long term relationships, how do they go about their past life intersecting with their new life?
From a % standpoint, how many keep their escort life secret from their relationship forever, how many eventually tell their partner after a commitment and hope it doesnt blow things up and how many dont even enter a committed relationship until they have their past life out in the open and its accepted?
How many retired escorts enter LTRs with former clients?
For those that settle into normal long term relationships, how do they go about their past life intersecting with their new life?
From a % standpoint, how many keep their escort life secret from their relationship forever, how many eventually tell their partner after a commitment and hope it doesnt blow things up and how many dont even enter a committed relationship until they have their past life out in the open and its accepted?
How many retired escorts enter LTRs with former clients?
At least 3 that I know of.
One is going to marry a former client, they don’t live together yet. He is funding her life and they spend time together here and there. They are house hunting and will move in together once the marriage is official
Hi everyone! Thanks for putting this thread together and taking the time to answer our questions
I’ve heard differing answers from various providers but wanted to set the tale straight- when is the “low season” for business in Canada/Montreal? I have a busy work schedule and am trying to find the best time to take a more extended break to visit some of my favorite providers in the area. Was thinking perhaps late fall or winter would be best, but it is amazing seeing gorgeous ladies in their summer minidresses, heels, and sandals!
I’ve heard differing answers from various providers but wanted to set the tale straight- when is the “low season” for business in Canada/Montreal? I have a busy work schedule and am trying to find the best time to take a more extended break to visit some of my favorite providers in the area. Was thinking perhaps late fall or winter would be best, but it is amazing seeing gorgeous ladies in their summer minidresses, heels, and sandals!
I always do CBJ, but I'm getting tempted to go with BBBJ or CIM if it's offered. I know it's a YMMV thing, but I just wanted to ask because it seems like a good space here.
SPs, have you ever had someone skeptical about going for it? Did they cite health reasons, or playing it safe for a potential partner?
SPs, have you ever had someone skeptical about going for it? Did they cite health reasons, or playing it safe for a potential partner?
It's only my third year in the industry but I've noticed a drop in inquiries around november, however, last winter I didn't really spend a long time without working.Hi everyone! Thanks for putting this thread together and taking the time to answer our questions
I’ve heard differing answers from various providers but wanted to set the tale straight- when is the “low season” for business in Canada/Montreal? I have a busy work schedule and am trying to find the best time to take a more extended break to visit some of my favorite providers in the area. Was thinking perhaps late fall or winter would be best, but it is amazing seeing gorgeous ladies in their summer minidresses, heels, and sandals!
Obviously it's less busy, but it's definitely a good time to plan long bookings. A lot of providers go back to school in the fall and are less available tho.
I've had clients ask me for CBJ and I'm always glad because they are taking care of their health and playing it safe. I've never had an STI, and personally I prefer offering bbbj for my own personal enjoyment, but in terms of health risks it's not ideal and initially I didn't want to offer that service because I was scared. I'm not sure if there is more of a risk with CIM than just bbbj alone but I have heard that it's a bit more risky, which is why I'm currently charging it as an extra (but that may change in the future)
I will never personally get offended if somebody asks for CBJ.
Do you think escorting should be completely legalized and regulated?
The main argument I hear against this is from women that say sex work is exploitative and no women do it of their own free will and that legalizing it will only help sex traffickers. I asked this on another forum and I got some pretty angry responses. I would like to hear your opinions on this.
The main argument I hear against this is from women that say sex work is exploitative and no women do it of their own free will and that legalizing it will only help sex traffickers. I asked this on another forum and I got some pretty angry responses. I would like to hear your opinions on this.
Hi everyone! Thanks for putting this thread together and taking the time to answer our questions
I’ve heard differing answers from various providers but wanted to set the tale straight- when is the “low season” for business in Canada/Montreal? I have a busy work schedule and am trying to find the best time to take a more extended break to visit some of my favorite providers in the area. Was thinking perhaps late fall or winter would be best, but it is amazing seeing gorgeous ladies in their summer minidresses, heels, and sandals!
It’s different for everyone. Some of my peers had a rough January and that was my best month of the year.
Winter is a bit rough for some because there’s a lot of family holidays and vacations so clients that are partnered up cannot really sneak out so easily.
You can do CIM safely if the receiver has their mouth wide open and the giver just tries to shoot with as much precision as possible.
No. Sex work should be decriminalized, not legalized, it's completely different.
We don't want the government to be regulating and controlling sex work. Most sex workers choose this path because it allows them a better quality of life, a lot of sex workers can't work a 9 to 5 jobs for health reasons, don't have their immigration papers yet, are in school and don't want to work long shifts while focusing on their studies.. etc etc. Also, in this situation we can hide what we do from the rest of society, which wouldn't be the case if the government was controlling it. I'm face out but I know providers whose friends and even partners don't know that they're doing this work.
However, a lot of studies have actually indicated that criminalizing sex workers and their clients actually make sex trafficking cases higher because it pushes the whole network underground.
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Maybe I’m in the weird minority but I actually find it a huge turn on when providers talk about their “dirty details” during dates, including past encounters or their "favorite moments." I wouldn't say I'm a voyeur type, but its incredible to hear about the breadth of sexual experiences in your lives and the kinks you've helped fulfill, as well as the things that gave you the best experiences during sex! Fun to get the juxtaposition between that and the (broad strokes) of what your "outside life" as regular workers or students are...A question for gents :
Does it bother you when providers talk about their job during the booking? I'm not talking about describing experiences with clients, more like chatting about our daily lives as an escort. Many clients like to ask questions about it, so I got used to talking about it very candidly, and I realized that maybe it's a turn off or impolite..
I guess a broader question would be.. are there subjects you don't like providers to talk about during bookings?
Just to be clear, this is only safe for the giver. Received is still at risk of catching STIs
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