We talked at my table for 1/2 to 1 hour, then 5 or 6 private dances, them they came back to my table to talk and offer to join me for more fun. They never hinted at some compensation.
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Just plain mutual attraction, not very different from getting picked up in a regular bar.
That's not really what I meant. What I mean is, if a client pretends to have personal info about a provider, how do you know that what they told him is the truth, and not something they just said? And how do you know that a certain provider is telling the truth about someone else? Maybe we're still not talking about the same thing.. As in maybe you're talking about exchanging information about personal experiences with providers vs giving away private info about them.
This rivalry and jealousy yes does exist and can turn very ugly. Booking false calls by jealous providers leading to a no-show is far from being isolated incidents.
Since screening tends to somewhat hinder that venue the next line of attack is spreading bullshit. This is very effective and will spread. You indicated having tried this, not against others but concerning intel about yourself, and saw how effective this was.
But I wouldn't worry too much about this since most of us don't really care about the negative noise. Honestly, it plays a lot more against the instigator than for.
If it were life threatening or really personal stuff, yes of course. But in the day to day of this domain I don't see any advantage for the lady. Really, I see the complete opposite.
Why go and stress her out with such news that in reality she has no power over? Imagine a moment a sucessful woman getting news that someone is bitching about her. Where do you think her thoughts will go? On her good clients that she met that day? On the pride she has for having built a good image of herself etc?
No her thoughts will go to the one and only incident of someone talking shit about her, will eat away at her down to the pit of her stomach and will negate all that was positive for the day. Sadly, this hurt may last hours and maybe even days.
Is it really worth it?
This is an extremely cold and hard domain. Thank G that the positives overweigh the negatives. Like @Cap'tain Fantastic said bullshit is spread in all lines of work and life in general. This domain is no different and is to be expected tenfold.
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Whenever I see a provider stressing like this I try and tell them to ignore it. Especially bad reviews here or anything like that. It's always going to happen. Anyone that reads reviews knows there is a lot of misinformation for a variety of reasons.
I guess, it’s just that you don’t know much about the person by just offering a few dances and chatting
Of course not, it’s not a thing that is meant to lead to marriage!
I wouldn’t leave with a man I just met in a bar doesn’t matter if it’s paid or not. When people try to follow me back home or invite me to their place, I politely refuse and tell them I will text them another time.
If a girl told me she left with a guy for a paid date I would understand even if I wouldn’t do it myself
I had a roommate that would specifically go to strip clubs to look for girlfriends. His advice was to sit at the bar and buy drinks but not pay for anything else. He would chat with dancers but that's it.
I saw him a few years later after I moved out and he had a girl and a baby with him. She was a dancer and he did in fact marry her.
Given your experience and knowledge of this industry your instincts are probable very sharp,
I am wondering if this happens mostly with girls who are new to the stripping, maybe college students who would in fact have a 1 nighter with someone from a club or bar, so if it is a familiar face they see regularly in the strip club they feel ok leaving with him
I like when at least the person is shaved where they want me to lick them, let's just put it that way
I don’t really care about that to be honest. As long as it’s clean so if you keep hairs, wash them, if you shave, wash the skin
I don’t really see the point so no I don’t think about that.
That's fkn rude dude, seriously!
Ladies when screening a client you agree to see, for those of you who don't ask for pictures, you certainly build an image of the person in your mind when they provide a description, is that image usually close to reality when you open the door? this question make sense in my head don't know if it's coming out properly... lol
The few ladies I have seen have been face covered on their site or profile, the picture I have built in my mind before seeing has never been remotely close to reality... But I must also say I have never been disappointed so far either.
The few ladies I have seen have been face covered on their site or profile, the picture I have built in my mind before seeing has never been remotely close to reality... But I must also say I have never been disappointed so far either.
When I accept seeing clients without seeing their photos (usually because they provided other ways of screening), I don't really have an image in my mind of what they will look like and I have no expectations. I've worked at spas and often clients would book me and I had no idea what they would be like
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