For me if a client tells me he wants a lot of social time that isn't a red flag at all as long as he's willing to pay for it and as long as I know how long the date will last, how many hours of social time and how many hours of intimacy etc. I actually love this type of booking because I enjoy getting to know someone
There is social time and then there is social time let me explain.
I don’t book one hour sessions ( usually 90 minutes or 2hrs) because I enjoy having a bottle of wine and some pastries or snacks that she prefers and chatting a bit before and after but I consider this part of the session and I like it to not be rushed and easy going.
Paid social time, nope it is never going to happen, sorry for one I am not a lonely individual without a family, children, grand children or friends.
Paid social time for me is nothing but buying a friend. I don’t need someone sitting across the table smiling at me or talking to me because I paid them to do that or to pay for their time to eat a meal that I have paid for.
Sex is essential to a man for his mental health buying a friend for some fake conversation is not.
Now if a lady wants to go have dinner on her own I would never refuse because it means she wants to be there and perhaps I am naive or maybe think too much of myself but I am interesting enough and a nice enough person for someone to have dinner with me without me paying for their time to do that, and if not then they can stay home no harm done.
It is not about the money at all that has nothing to do with it.