Ask us anything part 3

[Zero_Six]

[Clients]
My friend has almost convinced me to join her as a stripper but I had some questions for clients.

How often do you go?
Do you buy private dances?
Have you ever tried to see a stripper outside of the club?
If so, would you pay for her services or try to haggle it?

I haven't been to the clubs since before covid. When I did go...
1-2 times a month.
Yes, private dances were the main reason I was there.
No, but it was never offered and I didn't feel comfortable assuming anything beyond what was offered.
If there was an offer made, hard to say. I definitely wouldn't haggle, but I tended to set aside a specific budget when I visited a club. Chances are that the price would've been outside of my budget in those days. These days... I could afford it, but it still seems like a bit of a sketchy situation open to me being scammed. If I'm going to the club to feel some boobies, that's what I'm expecting. Anything more in the booth is too risky. Going to a second location leaves me open to what could be a setup. If I wanted more, I wouldn't be going to a strip club.

If you do decide to follow this path, I'd recommend Amazones as a club. The place is basically surrounded by motels. I'd be much more likely to take the offer if it just meant walking a couple blocks to a motel.

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[DouMan]

Question for clients: does it make a difference for you if a SP is posting on this forum, or not? And I don't mean advertising, I mean engaging with the clientele.

I found out today that it used to be forbidden for SP's to engage in the forum. What is your opinion on this? Would you prefer if we didn't interact on here, or is it a positive experience for you? If so, does it actually make you more curious to book a provider? Or not at all?

Doesn't bother me at all, in fact it's more than welcome as it should be in any circle of society.

Does it lead to curiosity to book the lady? Yes without any doubt since instead of just seeing a body, we see the person behind the image, the woman.

However this also has other repercussions since in some threads some very harsh things were written not necessarily to the advantage of the person.

Anything can be said as long as it is put forth in a respectful way.

Maybe I'm wrong but I seem to remember ladies posting their opinions since very far back and always being appreciated for it.

 

[CaptRenault]

[Clients]
My friend has almost convinced me to join her as a stripper but I had some questions for clients.

How often do you go?
Do you buy private dances?
Have you ever tried to see a stripper outside of the club?
If so, would you pay for her services or try to haggle it?

1. When I am in Montreal almost every night. At home, never.
2. Yes I buy private dances but only after a careful selection process.
3. I have occasionally tried and gotten some offers. But strippers who are willing to see clients outside the club usually want to charge a lot more than the going rate at a good agency. Also, they have weird schedules so arranging a date is hard. So it has never happened to me.
4. Yes I would pay but as I noted, their expectations are usually too high and so negotiating is not worth it. I once did offer to take some lingerie photos of a stripper and she came to my hotel and I did the photos for her for free. When I suggested we might have an encounter, she stuck with her unreasonably high $ demand so nothing happened. I think most strippers really don’t want to provide sex for money. If they really did, they could go to work as escorts. Some do provide outside services but they seem to be very selective about who they choose as clients. Also, they have to be careful because the good clubs don’t like their girls using the club as a way to arrange encounters.

 

[talkinghead]

Maybe I'm wrong but I seem to remember ladies posting their opinions since very far back and always being appreciated for it.

That's my memory as well.

 

[curious2012]

Question for clients: does it make a difference for you if a SP is posting on this forum, or not? And I don't mean advertising, I mean engaging with the clientele.

I found out today that it used to be forbidden for SP's to engage in the forum. What is your opinion on this? Would you prefer if we didn't interact on here, or is it a positive experience for you? If so, does it actually make you more curious to book a provider? Or not at all?

Considering that I'm all about the experience, vibe and chemistry during my encounters, your opinions are greatly appreciated, and definitely play an important part in my decision to see someone....or not . It will certainly make me feel more curious to meet, if I feel there is a certain compatibilty to begin with.

 

[Fradi]

Question for clients: does it make a difference for you if a SP is posting on this forum, or not? And I don't mean advertising, I mean engaging with the clientele.

I found out today that it used to be forbidden for SP's to engage in the forum. What is your opinion on this? Would you prefer if we didn't interact on here, or is it a positive experience for you? If so, does it actually make you more curious to book a provider? Or not at all?

It doesn’t influence me one way or another.
It really depends on the provider.
If it looks like her postings are merely to gain constant attention and is a form of advertising then I don’t take her seriously, otherwise it is really nice to see a providers point of view.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I think that's where I get a little worried. If I say my sincere opinion about a subject that many of you disagree with, I fear repercussions on my business.

Some people already see your ads and decide not to see you because you are not their type. On the other hand, some people will meet you and after a few minutes, choose to stay despite not feeling a connection and then, they never come back. Filtering those people first will help you meet people you not only attract physically, but mentally as well!

 

[Fradi]

My question to you is the following : why would a SP post here if it's not to gain attention or advertise her services? I understand that it's impolite to take over threads and take up all the space, but as far as I'm concerned, the SP's I see here are interacting with the intention of bettering their reputation and getting more bookings..

When I first started posting here, I thought it would be refreshing to offer my (and other SP's) point of view on certain subjects, but I don't feel 100% safe saying my opinion on everything here, and I am not completely sure that there is a willingness to listen to what I have to say.. And I'm wondering if this is affecting my business positively or negatively, particularly since I'm not constantly being seductive.

I would think an SP would like to be understood would like to offer her opinion on how a client could improve many things when they go see them.
They can also improve the over all image of SP and not just be here to improve their business, that they do anyway by advertising as a paid advertiser.

Is it affecting your business, yes for sure we are all human and react to to your comments, but I think that works to your benefit.
I may not agree with some of your comments but that is normal I am sure you don’t agree with many things I post.
It is how you present yourself overall that counts and for you I think it is a definite plus as you come across as a gentle kind hearted young lady who goes out of her way to be nice to everyone, perhaps maybe even too fragile for this industry which I am sure is very demanding emotionally and physically.

 

[DouMan]

My question to you is the following : why would a SP post here if it's not to gain attention or advertise her services?

Gain attention?
Anyone that posts gains attention be it either negatively or positively. Of course there may be diverging opinions, it's normal and expected since society is not or should not be all the same color.

Advertise services?
That's a very slippery slope and if done outside of proper threads and not following board rules Mods will rapidly pick up and act on that.

In the end it's pretty simple and we often read it ... if we wouldn't say something in person then it probably shouldn't be written here.

Don't worry, you come across as a nice, kind hearted person. All will be just fine.

 

[Michelle Gunn]

My question to you is the following : why would a SP post here if it's not to gain attention or advertise her services? I understand that it's impolite to take over threads and take up all the space, but as far as I'm concerned, the SP's I see here are interacting with the intention of bettering their reputation and getting more bookings..

When I first started posting here, I thought it would be refreshing to offer my (and other SP's) point of view on certain subjects, but I don't feel 100% safe saying my opinion on everything here, and I am not completely sure that there is a willingness to listen to what I have to say.. And I'm wondering if this is affecting my business positively or negatively, particularly since I'm not constantly being seductive.

Honestly, I don't think I'm a good match for anyone who posts even semi regularly here (I'm fat, weird, and old ). I''m here to learn and pass the time, with the added bonus of perving out on pictures of pretty ladies.

 

[LC18]

Posting here is just a way for me to confirm I exist. I am not hoping this will increase the number of bookings from active members because the active members I’ve seen posting here seem to be more into agencies and massage parlours for financial reasons.

So to me it’s really more of a “if I was AI generated, would I be posting selfies and threads here?”

 

[LC18]

That's a good point! but even then, somebody's assistant could be posting for them.

I don’t overthink it and I think most people don’t as well ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[DouMan]

For instance, one member told me he would only book me if "the quality of my services" was enough for him

This ignorant Neanderthal approach is nothing new and far from being an isolated incident.

It is the perfect example of a Mommy's little boy rubbing his dick off in the basement and thinking he's a big boy that will have all women at his feet. In other words a fkn, low-life idiot.

As @Sylar said it helped you filter out a jackass you don't want nor need.

 

[Jazzman1218]

I am conscious of that and it's not just in this industry that people have tried to take advantage. It's very annoying when it happens, and very draining, and I just shut it down. I haven't accepted anything that went against my boundaries and I think I've made it clear on my social media what my boundaries were and what I find acceptable or not. Yes, there have been several members of this board who have taken advantage of me before I started advertising here. There are still members who try now, and I just shut it down or find clever ways to push them away. I'm capable of seeing it, and it's annoying. I wish there was more of a culture of consent and respect in spaces like this.

Be yourself and never apologize for the experience you provide - just like you'd never apologize for your art. Set your boundaries and make them clear to your clients. Any clients you lose are ones you don't want anyway. There are plenty of respectable gentlemen out there who would love to share time with you. Build up a clientele of repeat gentlemen, and you'll be just fine.

 

[Jazzman1218]

It's not that easy to get repeat clients.. and as I was mentioning in DMs with someone, yes I do have regulars and repeat clients, but they don't always stay for a long time. When the summer began, a lot of regular clients and repeat clients stopped seeing me. A lot of the clients I saw in 2023 didn't continue seeing me in 2024, and I gained a new clientele. The industry is always fluctuating I guess

Good points. It must be difficult too because Montreal provides so many options for men. There are so many beautiful women, like yourself, there.

 

[Jazzman1218]

That's one of the reasons. One reason is that my rates used to be lower than average for an indy and that attracted a lot of new clients who had never seen a SP before and clients who usually see agency girls. I didn't make more money at the time.. the agency clientele is not for me, and the "new clients" just wanted to try something different and move on with their lives.

Another reason is that a lot of my favorite clients don't live in Montreal and can't always be here, so I only got to see them 1 to 3 times.

I also think there's an effect of idealization that occurs when a client meets a new SP who isn't part of the norm. A lot of clients tell me they like that I'm different from most SP's and that can be positive but it creates certain expectations. Some of them end up deciding that seeing SP's is not for them or they end up going back to what they're used to because they don't want to get emotionally attached or they are afraid that the spell will be broken.

Another large part of my clients is men who are heart broken, going through a divorce or a period of celibacy after a break up. A lot of them are lonely and I provide warmth and comfort for them, but of course once they get out of that phase they stop seeing me, and that's perfectly normal

It's complicated for sure. Sometimes all you can do is what Bob Dylan sang just "keep on keeping on". Hang on and hang in there.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

It's complicated for sure. Sometimes all you can do is what Bob Dylan sang just "keep on keeping on". Hang on and hang in there.

For sure! I'm complaining and stressing a lot, but despite all of this, I'm really lucky. I had bookings all summer and the past few weeks have been fully booked for me.
I think it's time to practice a little bit of gratitude right now.

 

[MCTJ]

I think it's time to practice a little bit of gratitude right now.

As the say on Facebook: Merci la vie!

 

[Nachoy]

For your clients.
Would you prefer all regulars or have mix of both new with regulars?

 

[Julia Sky]

For your clients.
Would you prefer all regulars or have mix of both new with regulars?

A mix of both, because having sex with a total stranger for the first time turns me on.

But in my ideal world I would only see new clients in contexts that include social time outside, and reserve the rest of my schedule to my favorite regulars.