Ask us anything part 3

[LC18]

I think Giselle summed it up well. There are many factors to take in consideration:

How many times a month are we seeing each other?
Am I staying the night?
Is it exclusive?
Can I keep working?
Is the person living in my city?
How much do I make in average per month?


A basic exclusive arrangement for me would cover my rent, my bills, groceries and leave me with some money left for my savings and fun stuff.

 

[Fradi]

A basic exclusive arrangement for me would cover my rent, my bills, groceries and leave me with some money left for my savings and fun stuff.

Seems you forgot the yacht and villas in several countries.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Since short and long term arrangements were mentioned, I am curious what the definition would be and what said arrangement would include?

How much would any of you expect for an (exclusive) arrangement for the below duration and what service / time would you offer in such an arrangement?

- 1 month (exclusive vs no exclusive)
- 6 months (exclusive vs no exclusive)
- 12 months (exclusive vs no exclusive)

I am simply curious and thank you in advance.

Good questions

I also think this depends on many factors. As you are asking for personal opinion, please take what I am going to say as only my own way to deal with those.
I would love a long term arrangement but would not offer it to anyone. Even lovers I absolutely enjoy spending time with are not always good candidates for that kind of arrangement. Let me explain. I would only have one of those with people that are seeing me as a ''side dish'' and not as their ''main dish'' lol. For exemple, I could offer exclusivity and have a bank of hours they could arrange as they want in my schedule. I would make myself available all month, not plan anything away from MTL, but would not be 24/24 with them all month.

Exemple: One month arrangement. We plan a weekend together, then two mornings one week, one full day next week, two overnights and a duo the last week. I don't see any other lovers and text every day.

Exemple I will never do: Go away one full month with a client oversea and be 24h ''on''.

Why? I would become so angry hahaha I need my me time to be my 100% with my lovers and time to recharge. I can get cranky if I'm social for too long and that would be a bad experience for everyone involves.

As for the money asked, I would ask for something that covers my expenses for the month as well as something that I feel worth the work involved. Mainly staying available and missing on social opportunities for exemple. I might miss birthdays or parties because of this arrangement. So between 5k and 15k for a month of exclusivity (depending on the amount of physical time asked).

 

[Lunaseraphim]

For me, there is no one-size-fits-all answer. I am looking for a long-term arrangement, it could be 6 to 12 months. My offer is not set since it would depend on who the client is, where he lives (close or far from me), do we always have to travel to see each other, whether are we travelling together often, sometimes or never, the budget, his needs and wants, if it's sexually-oriented or company-oriented, etc. It could therefore be an exclusive or non-exclusive one, and this of course would depend on many variables.

I expect this kind of offer to reveal itself organically; I believe an arrangement will become obvious for both of us after seeing each other a few times, more likely to happen with someone who books extended appointments, and given we have excellent chemistry.

I feel the same

 

[Kael]

Nous avons toute une conversation sur ne pas tomber en amour avec la sp. Mais, êtes vous déjà tombé en amour avec l'un de vos clients?

 

[LC18]

Nous avons toute une conversation sur ne pas tomber en amour avec la sp. Mais, êtes vous déjà tombé en amour avec l'un de vos clients?

Non

 

[Joe Thighsman]

[Clients]
My friend has almost convinced me to join her as a stripper but I had some questions for clients.

How often do you go?
Do you buy private dances?
Have you ever tried to see a stripper outside of the club?
If so, would you pay for her services or try to haggle it?

3-4 times a month
Yes
Yes
I would pay so long as it was reasonable.

 

[Zero_Six]

[Clients]
My friend has almost convinced me to join her as a stripper but I had some questions for clients.

How often do you go?
Do you buy private dances?
Have you ever tried to see a stripper outside of the club?
If so, would you pay for her services or try to haggle it?

I haven't been to the clubs since before covid. When I did go...
1-2 times a month.
Yes, private dances were the main reason I was there.
No, but it was never offered and I didn't feel comfortable assuming anything beyond what was offered.
If there was an offer made, hard to say. I definitely wouldn't haggle, but I tended to set aside a specific budget when I visited a club. Chances are that the price would've been outside of my budget in those days. These days... I could afford it, but it still seems like a bit of a sketchy situation open to me being scammed. If I'm going to the club to feel some boobies, that's what I'm expecting. Anything more in the booth is too risky. Going to a second location leaves me open to what could be a setup. If I wanted more, I wouldn't be going to a strip club.

If you do decide to follow this path, I'd recommend Amazones as a club. The place is basically surrounded by motels. I'd be much more likely to take the offer if it just meant walking a couple blocks to a motel.

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[DouMan]

Question for clients: does it make a difference for you if a SP is posting on this forum, or not? And I don't mean advertising, I mean engaging with the clientele.

I found out today that it used to be forbidden for SP's to engage in the forum. What is your opinion on this? Would you prefer if we didn't interact on here, or is it a positive experience for you? If so, does it actually make you more curious to book a provider? Or not at all?

Doesn't bother me at all, in fact it's more than welcome as it should be in any circle of society.

Does it lead to curiosity to book the lady? Yes without any doubt since instead of just seeing a body, we see the person behind the image, the woman.

However this also has other repercussions since in some threads some very harsh things were written not necessarily to the advantage of the person.

Anything can be said as long as it is put forth in a respectful way.

Maybe I'm wrong but I seem to remember ladies posting their opinions since very far back and always being appreciated for it.

 

[CaptRenault]

[Clients]
My friend has almost convinced me to join her as a stripper but I had some questions for clients.

How often do you go?
Do you buy private dances?
Have you ever tried to see a stripper outside of the club?
If so, would you pay for her services or try to haggle it?

1. When I am in Montreal almost every night. At home, never.
2. Yes I buy private dances but only after a careful selection process.
3. I have occasionally tried and gotten some offers. But strippers who are willing to see clients outside the club usually want to charge a lot more than the going rate at a good agency. Also, they have weird schedules so arranging a date is hard. So it has never happened to me.
4. Yes I would pay but as I noted, their expectations are usually too high and so negotiating is not worth it. I once did offer to take some lingerie photos of a stripper and she came to my hotel and I did the photos for her for free. When I suggested we might have an encounter, she stuck with her unreasonably high $ demand so nothing happened. I think most strippers really don’t want to provide sex for money. If they really did, they could go to work as escorts. Some do provide outside services but they seem to be very selective about who they choose as clients. Also, they have to be careful because the good clubs don’t like their girls using the club as a way to arrange encounters.

 

[talkinghead]

Maybe I'm wrong but I seem to remember ladies posting their opinions since very far back and always being appreciated for it.

That's my memory as well.

 

[curious2012]

Question for clients: does it make a difference for you if a SP is posting on this forum, or not? And I don't mean advertising, I mean engaging with the clientele.

I found out today that it used to be forbidden for SP's to engage in the forum. What is your opinion on this? Would you prefer if we didn't interact on here, or is it a positive experience for you? If so, does it actually make you more curious to book a provider? Or not at all?

Considering that I'm all about the experience, vibe and chemistry during my encounters, your opinions are greatly appreciated, and definitely play an important part in my decision to see someone....or not . It will certainly make me feel more curious to meet, if I feel there is a certain compatibilty to begin with.

 

[Fradi]

Question for clients: does it make a difference for you if a SP is posting on this forum, or not? And I don't mean advertising, I mean engaging with the clientele.

I found out today that it used to be forbidden for SP's to engage in the forum. What is your opinion on this? Would you prefer if we didn't interact on here, or is it a positive experience for you? If so, does it actually make you more curious to book a provider? Or not at all?

It doesn’t influence me one way or another.
It really depends on the provider.
If it looks like her postings are merely to gain constant attention and is a form of advertising then I don’t take her seriously, otherwise it is really nice to see a providers point of view.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I think that's where I get a little worried. If I say my sincere opinion about a subject that many of you disagree with, I fear repercussions on my business.

Some people already see your ads and decide not to see you because you are not their type. On the other hand, some people will meet you and after a few minutes, choose to stay despite not feeling a connection and then, they never come back. Filtering those people first will help you meet people you not only attract physically, but mentally as well!

 

[Fradi]

My question to you is the following : why would a SP post here if it's not to gain attention or advertise her services? I understand that it's impolite to take over threads and take up all the space, but as far as I'm concerned, the SP's I see here are interacting with the intention of bettering their reputation and getting more bookings..

When I first started posting here, I thought it would be refreshing to offer my (and other SP's) point of view on certain subjects, but I don't feel 100% safe saying my opinion on everything here, and I am not completely sure that there is a willingness to listen to what I have to say.. And I'm wondering if this is affecting my business positively or negatively, particularly since I'm not constantly being seductive.

I would think an SP would like to be understood would like to offer her opinion on how a client could improve many things when they go see them.
They can also improve the over all image of SP and not just be here to improve their business, that they do anyway by advertising as a paid advertiser.

Is it affecting your business, yes for sure we are all human and react to to your comments, but I think that works to your benefit.
I may not agree with some of your comments but that is normal I am sure you don’t agree with many things I post.
It is how you present yourself overall that counts and for you I think it is a definite plus as you come across as a gentle kind hearted young lady who goes out of her way to be nice to everyone, perhaps maybe even too fragile for this industry which I am sure is very demanding emotionally and physically.

 

[DouMan]

My question to you is the following : why would a SP post here if it's not to gain attention or advertise her services?

Gain attention?
Anyone that posts gains attention be it either negatively or positively. Of course there may be diverging opinions, it's normal and expected since society is not or should not be all the same color.

Advertise services?
That's a very slippery slope and if done outside of proper threads and not following board rules Mods will rapidly pick up and act on that.

In the end it's pretty simple and we often read it ... if we wouldn't say something in person then it probably shouldn't be written here.

Don't worry, you come across as a nice, kind hearted person. All will be just fine.

 

[Michelle Gunn]

My question to you is the following : why would a SP post here if it's not to gain attention or advertise her services? I understand that it's impolite to take over threads and take up all the space, but as far as I'm concerned, the SP's I see here are interacting with the intention of bettering their reputation and getting more bookings..

When I first started posting here, I thought it would be refreshing to offer my (and other SP's) point of view on certain subjects, but I don't feel 100% safe saying my opinion on everything here, and I am not completely sure that there is a willingness to listen to what I have to say.. And I'm wondering if this is affecting my business positively or negatively, particularly since I'm not constantly being seductive.

Honestly, I don't think I'm a good match for anyone who posts even semi regularly here (I'm fat, weird, and old ). I''m here to learn and pass the time, with the added bonus of perving out on pictures of pretty ladies.

 

[LC18]

Posting here is just a way for me to confirm I exist. I am not hoping this will increase the number of bookings from active members because the active members I’ve seen posting here seem to be more into agencies and massage parlours for financial reasons.

So to me it’s really more of a “if I was AI generated, would I be posting selfies and threads here?”

 

[LC18]

That's a good point! but even then, somebody's assistant could be posting for them.

I don’t overthink it and I think most people don’t as well ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[DouMan]

For instance, one member told me he would only book me if "the quality of my services" was enough for him

This ignorant Neanderthal approach is nothing new and far from being an isolated incident.

It is the perfect example of a Mommy's little boy rubbing his dick off in the basement and thinking he's a big boy that will have all women at his feet. In other words a fkn, low-life idiot.

As @Sylar said it helped you filter out a jackass you don't want nor need.