Ask us anything part 3

[LC18]

For the providers out there- do you ever take it personally when a guy doesn’t come at the end of a session? I’m low key embarrassed to say that even though I’m only in my late 20s, it isn’t always easy to pop multiple times in a row bc of my glans being ultra sensitive (too used to rubbing it out with foreskin unretracted as a kid ). Add to that the “time limit/running clock” aspect and I do end up having to finish myself a lot. Tbf this is never a problem for me if I’ve gonna without busting a few days, but if it’s one after the other without at least a few hrs rest it’s unfortunately a common issue.

I don’t take it personal if a man cannot get hard or cannot cum. It happens to the best of us.

There’s a lot of pressure that comes with meeting someone for the first time and being time restricted.

 

[Rebaynia]

No I did not ask that anywhere, you are mistaken.
I said that attractive people have an advantage in life going in, it can always be overshadowed by being an entitled idiot for sure.
SP are in it for the $$$ it is a business they are selling a service. A shop keeper will also sell you whatever you are willing to buy regardless of your looks, but an attractive person is much more likely to get a favourable interview given that all other qualifications are equal.
Attractive actors are the ones that make the most money and get the best roles. You are right it is time to move on.

Yes I see what you are saying there have even been documentaries on the topic. People are more trusting of others who are conventionally attractive, and yes SPs are makeing a living on their attractiveness, but people keep coming back when our personalities are as inviting as our looks are.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

For the providers out there- do you ever take it personally when a guy doesn’t come at the end of a session? I’m low key embarrassed to say that even though I’m only in my late 20s, it isn’t always easy to pop multiple times in a row bc of my glans being ultra sensitive (too used to rubbing it out with foreskin unretracted as a kid ). Add to that the “time limit/running clock” aspect and I do end up having to finish myself a lot. Tbf this is never a problem for me if I’ve gonna without busting a few days, but if it’s one after the other without at least a few hrs rest it’s unfortunately a common issue.

No. There are many reasons why that can happen, and some of them are psychological and have nothing to do with me and my skills as a provider.
Also, not every client has a focus on having an orgasm. A lot of clients want intimacy above everything else, some of them don't want penetrative sex. Not everyone is obsessed with MSOG etc. Also, a SP's role isn't to judge you based on ''performance'', it's to provide space for you to explore sexuality and intimacy and affection and conversation in many different forms.

 

[Rebaynia]

For the providers out there- do you ever take it personally when a guy doesn’t come at the end of a session? I’m low key embarrassed to say that even though I’m only in my late 20s, it isn’t always easy to pop multiple times in a row bc of my glans being ultra sensitive (too used to rubbing it out with foreskin unretracted as a kid ). Add to that the “time limit/running clock” aspect and I do end up having to finish myself a lot. Tbf this is never a problem for me if I’ve gonna without busting a few days, but if it’s one after the other without at least a few hrs rest it’s unfortunately a common issue.

It is nothing new. It isn't taken personally. There are many reasons a guy may not be able to perform to completion. There are depression or blood pressure meds that have this effect, tiredness, problematic prostate, drinking or drug use, mental pressures or conditioning, porn addiction has this side effect as well. there are so many reasons why it can happen. Only time it is an issue is when he trys to make it out to be our fault he didn't cum. We would hope you know your body well enough to know what is happening, and not blame the provider. I would think most providers goal is to make you cum, if it doesn't happen, it is generally something out of our control.
One of my favorite sweeties I've seen many times he would know within 20 minutes if he would cum or not, and if he he couldn't he would stop the session 30 minutes in and would announce sweetly, "coffee time" just so we could still manage to fit in social time into the visit. Sometimes during "coffee time" we might try again and be successful. Since the initial pressure to cum was off.

 

[talkinghead]

I would not work with an agency again. ... They take so much off the top that you make much less than the client actually thinks

I'm sure this has been asked many times but what would you all say is the average percentage that Montreal agencies take? How much of the $250/hour (for example) that the client pays goes to the SP? I'm not merely being curious; it helps me to think about how much I tip the SP.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I'm sure this has been asked many times but what would you all say is the average percentage that Montreal agencies take? How much of the $250/hour (for example) that the client pays goes to the SP? I'm not merely being curious; it helps me to think about how much I tip the SP.

I've heard that girls end up usually with 160 to 200$ the hour, depending on the agency. I had someone tried to recruit me to work for an agency and he said I would make 180-200 for full gfe per hour. I don't judge providers who charge that rate and never would, but that's very low for that type of service, if you want my opinion. That's why I encourage to tip agency & spa workers and to book indies. (and by indies I mean established providers who have a website and more than just a leolist ad. and yes you will have to pay a bit more)

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

I'm sure this has been asked many times but what would you all say is the average percentage that Montreal agencies take? How much of the $250/hour (for example) that the client pays goes to the SP? I'm not merely being curious; it helps me to think about how much I tip the SP.

When I worked at an agency, they charged 300 for an hour and I was making 220.

 

[talkinghead]

Thanks for these informative responses on the agency percentage. It's an important consideration for me when tipping.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

When I worked at an agency, they charged 300 for an hour and I was making 220.

I remember when I was working at a spa, a girl had dropped her agency because she only made 160 or 180 per hour after the cut. It was better for her to work at a spa because she was making nearly the same amount doing just basic FS.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Thanks for these informative responses on the agency percentage. It's an important consideration for me when tipping.

Tipping is always appreciated! Thank you for caring

 

[DouMan]

Yes I see what you are saying there have even been documentaries on the topic. People are more trusting of others who are conventionally attractive, and yes SPs are makeing a living on their attractiveness, but people keep coming back when our personalities are as inviting as our looks are.

As many, I fully agree.

The first booking is more often based on looks ... the superficial.
Repeats are based on personalities ... the woman.

 

[Fradi]

As many, I fully agree.

The first booking is more often based on looks ... the superficial.
Repeats are based on personalities ... the woman.

I agree but here is a random thought I just had on this subject lol.
It is meant as a joke but…….

I have seen many escort adds on web sights, LL. Twitter saying
“Hey handsome come and see me you will have an amazing time.”

I have yet to see.

“”Hey all you ugly, short, fat, bald dudes come and see me I think your totally hot.”

 

[DouMan]

I agree but here is a random thought I just had on this subject lol.
It is meant as a joke but…….

I have seen many escort adds on web sights, LL. Twitter saying
“Hey handsome come and see me you will have an amazing time.”

I have yet to see.

“”Hey all you ugly, short, fat, bald dudes come and see me I think your totally hot.”

I see your point but if I toot my own horn, even though I pretty well fit the last line, + old, + sagging nuts, + limp boner ... but what the heck, they mostly find I'm a nice guy

 

[Fradi]

I see your point but if I toot my own horn, even though I pretty well fit the last line, + old, + sagging nuts, + limp boner ... but what the heck, they mostly find I'm a nice guy

We all get to that stage eventually lol.
For me they still see me only for my looks though and they better not tell me otherwise.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I don't even know what to say at this point lol of course you don't act flirty by calling someone ugly.

my question : do you ever see people on the street and wonder if they are SP's? i sometimes catch myself asking myself that question

 

[Fradi]

my question : do you ever see people on the street and wonder if they are SP's? i sometimes catch myself asking myself that question

Yes often there are quite a few in my building who look like porn stars and it is very difficult not to stare at them at the terrace pool as they do look amazingly hot and not much is left to the imagination.
I am lucky I guess I get to see them year round at the indoor pool.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Yes often there are quite a few in my building who look like porn stars and it is very difficult not to stare at them at the terrace pool as they do look amazingly hot and not much is left to the imagination.
I am lucky I guess I get to see them year round at the indoor pool.

Maybe they are just rich influencers.
I don't think people would guess I'm a SP seeing me on the street, not because I'm not pretty, but the way I dress in my daily life is very different from what I wear when I'm Luna.

 

[Fradi]

Maybe they are just rich influencers.
I don't think people would guess I'm a SP seeing me on the street, not because I'm not pretty, but the way I dress in my daily life is very different from what I wear when I'm Luna.

That could very well be true, I am not going to be the one to ask especially when some of them are with their Hulk Hogan boyfriends.
Here there is not much I can use to differentiate with the way they are dressed seeing as anybody can wear a string bikini but very few that look so amazing in it as they do.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

my question : do you ever see people on the street and wonder if they are SP's? i sometimes catch myself asking myself that question

No, but sometimes I see women and I'm like "Oh wow, she would be so popular. I would book her myself..."

 

[DouMan]

That could very well be true, I am not going to be the one to ask especially when some of them are with their Hulk Hogan boyfriends.
Here there is not much I can use to differentiate with the way they are dressed seeing as anybody can wear a string bikini but very few that look so amazing in it as they do.

If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, sounds like a duck, it could still be a chickadee ... with Elmer Fudd.