All of these sound fair Rebaynia, If i could take you out to a day spa I would and then take a week down south at a luxury resort where you wouldn't have to do anything but enjoy life while we are there.
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I wish there was a “hug” reaction like on Facebook. That’s a beautiful list ❤️
Your so sweet. But I'm a mom, and everything I have goes to my kids, I couldn't take off for a week even if I wanted to.
- A long-term arrangement
- His credit card, for my monthly expenses
- Being flown for a weekend with my duo partner
- Being gifted a substantial present (something that equals a retirement fund)
- A dinner date at one of our new Michelin Star restaurants (2025)
One I had and was checked off very recently (because you hear stories that it happens, but never to me):
- Being booked for a long decadent date at my regular rate, without any intimate time
I would say I'd like to have a long term or semi long term arrangement as well, but I would like it to be with the right person, I'd like to really get along with them, and feel really spoiled and well compensated by them. Preferably someone who really enjoys the arts, cinema, music, good food etc.
- A foodie extended date (like a week long booking where we explore each other and the food scene of the city or country we're in)
- A FMTY in Europe (Italy, Spain, France, Greece... so many options)
- A MMF with bisexual men
- Being booked by a colleague
- A gangbang (I've been to orgies but never had a gangbang), and a gangbang blindfolded (with a couple trusted colleagues to watch for my safety)
- A picnic date, even better if in a duo setting
- A rent daddy (someone who pays my rent every month lol)
- Being booked for 24 hours or more
- A spa day or shopping day with a client
- Sex on a boat
- Going to a concert or museum with a client
Probably many more but this post is getting long!! Haha
Have any of y’all been booked by a celeb or all around “famous person?” I know the local rappers and musicians like to indulge met one indie who told me she’s had politicians but that doesn’t surprise me a single bit haha
Wow, extremely touching and down to earth list.
You have all my, all our, respect and we all hope life will check off a few boxes of fulfillment for the professional, the Mom and the woman.
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No but I'd like to be booked by good musicians.. I feel like I have the profile to attract that type of person but it hasn't happened yet. Politicians I'll pass lol
Since short and long term arrangements were mentioned, I am curious what the definition would be and what said arrangement would include?
How much would any of you expect for an (exclusive) arrangement for the below duration and what service / time would you offer in such an arrangement?
- 1 month (exclusive vs no exclusive)
- 6 months (exclusive vs no exclusive)
- 12 months (exclusive vs no exclusive)
I am simply curious and thank you in advance.
How much would any of you expect for an (exclusive) arrangement for the below duration and what service / time would you offer in such an arrangement?
- 1 month (exclusive vs no exclusive)
- 6 months (exclusive vs no exclusive)
- 12 months (exclusive vs no exclusive)
I am simply curious and thank you in advance.
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For me, there is no one-size-fits-all answer. I am looking for a long-term arrangement, it could be 6 to 12 months. My offer is not set since it would depend on who the client is, where he lives (close or far from me), do we always have to travel to see each other, whether are we travelling together often, sometimes or never, the budget, his needs and wants, if it's sexually-oriented or company-oriented, etc. It could therefore be an exclusive or non-exclusive one, and this of course would depend on many variables.
I expect this kind of offer to reveal itself organically; I believe an arrangement will become obvious for both of us after seeing each other a few times, more likely to happen with someone who books extended appointments, and given we have excellent chemistry.
From what he told me, @cru_33 is a pretty active musician. He's playing guitar and singing. I'm not sure he's doing it professionally.
@Cap'tain Fantastic is a good musician too and he plays some other instruments as well.
I think Giselle summed it up well. There are many factors to take in consideration:
How many times a month are we seeing each other?
Am I staying the night?
Is it exclusive?
Can I keep working?
Is the person living in my city?
How much do I make in average per month?
A basic exclusive arrangement for me would cover my rent, my bills, groceries and leave me with some money left for my savings and fun stuff.
How many times a month are we seeing each other?
Am I staying the night?
Is it exclusive?
Can I keep working?
Is the person living in my city?
How much do I make in average per month?
A basic exclusive arrangement for me would cover my rent, my bills, groceries and leave me with some money left for my savings and fun stuff.
Seems you forgot the yacht and villas in several countries.
Good questions
I also think this depends on many factors. As you are asking for personal opinion, please take what I am going to say as only my own way to deal with those.
I would love a long term arrangement but would not offer it to anyone. Even lovers I absolutely enjoy spending time with are not always good candidates for that kind of arrangement. Let me explain. I would only have one of those with people that are seeing me as a ''side dish'' and not as their ''main dish'' lol. For exemple, I could offer exclusivity and have a bank of hours they could arrange as they want in my schedule. I would make myself available all month, not plan anything away from MTL, but would not be 24/24 with them all month.
Exemple: One month arrangement. We plan a weekend together, then two mornings one week, one full day next week, two overnights and a duo the last week. I don't see any other lovers and text every day.
Exemple I will never do: Go away one full month with a client oversea and be 24h ''on''.
Why? I would become so angry hahaha I need my me time to be my 100% with my lovers and time to recharge. I can get cranky if I'm social for too long and that would be a bad experience for everyone involves.
As for the money asked, I would ask for something that covers my expenses for the month as well as something that I feel worth the work involved. Mainly staying available and missing on social opportunities for exemple. I might miss birthdays or parties because of this arrangement. So between 5k and 15k for a month of exclusivity (depending on the amount of physical time asked).
I appreciate the detailed answer. Thank you!Good questions
I also think this depends on many factors. As you are asking for personal opinion, please take what I am going to say as only my own way to deal with those.
I would love a long term arrangement but would not offer it to anyone. Even lovers I absolutely enjoy spending time with are not always good candidates for that kind of arrangement. Let me explain. I would only have one of those with people that are seeing me as a ''side dish'' and not as their ''main dish'' lol. For exemple, I could offer exclusivity and have a bank of hours they could arrange as they want in my schedule. I would make myself available all month, not plan anything away from MTL, but would not be 24/24 with them all month.
Exemple: One month arrangement. We plan a weekend together, then two mornings one week, one full day next week, two overnights and a duo the last week. I don't see any other lovers and text every day.
Exemple I will never do: Go away one full month with a client oversea and be 24h ''on''.
Why? I would become so angry hahaha I need my me time to be my 100% with my lovers and time to recharge. I can get cranky if I'm social for too long and that would be a bad experience for everyone involves.
As for the money asked, I would ask for something that covers my expenses for the month as well as something that I feel worth the work involved. Mainly staying available and missing on social opportunities for exemple. I might miss birthdays or parties because of this arrangement. So between 5k and 15k for a month of exclusivity (depending on the amount of physical time asked).
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