Ask us anything part 3
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I haven't been to the clubs since before covid. When I did go...
1-2 times a month.
Yes, private dances were the main reason I was there.
No, but it was never offered and I didn't feel comfortable assuming anything beyond what was offered.
If there was an offer made, hard to say. I definitely wouldn't haggle, but I tended to set aside a specific budget when I visited a club. Chances are that the price would've been outside of my budget in those days. These days... I could afford it, but it still seems like a bit of a sketchy situation open to me being scammed. If I'm going to the club to feel some boobies, that's what I'm expecting. Anything more in the booth is too risky. Going to a second location leaves me open to what could be a setup. If I wanted more, I wouldn't be going to a strip club.
If you do decide to follow this path, I'd recommend Amazones as a club. The place is basically surrounded by motels. I'd be much more likely to take the offer if it just meant walking a couple blocks to a motel.
Doesn't bother me at all, in fact it's more than welcome as it should be in any circle of society.
Does it lead to curiosity to book the lady? Yes without any doubt since instead of just seeing a body, we see the person behind the image, the woman.
However this also has other repercussions since in some threads some very harsh things were written not necessarily to the advantage of the person.
Anything can be said as long as it is put forth in a respectful way.
Maybe I'm wrong but I seem to remember ladies posting their opinions since very far back and always being appreciated for it.
- When I am in Montreal almost every night. At home, never.
- Yes I buy private dances but only after a careful selection process.
- I have occasionally tried and gotten some offers. But strippers who are willing to see clients outside the club usually want to charge a lot more than the going rate at a good agency. Also, they have weird schedules so arranging a date is hard. So it has never happened to me.
- Yes I would pay but as I noted, their expectations are usually too high and so negotiating is not worth it. I once did offer to take some lingerie photos of a stripper and she came to my hotel and I did the photos for her for free. When I suggested we might have an encounter, she stuck with her unreasonably high $ demand so nothing happened. I think most strippers really don’t want to provide sex for money. If they really did, they could go to work as escorts. Some do provide outside services but they seem to be very selective about who they choose as clients. Also, they have to be careful because the good clubs don’t like their girls using the club as a way to arrange encounters.
Considering that I'm all about the experience, vibe and chemistry during my encounters, your opinions are greatly appreciated, and definitely play an important part in my decision to see someone....or not
. It will certainly make me feel more curious to meet, if I feel there is a certain compatibilty to begin with.It doesn’t influence me one way or another.
It really depends on the provider.
If it looks like her postings are merely to gain constant attention and is a form of advertising then I don’t take her seriously, otherwise it is really nice to see a providers point of view.
Some people already see your ads and decide not to see you because you are not their type. On the other hand, some people will meet you and after a few minutes, choose to stay despite not feeling a connection and then, they never come back. Filtering those people first will help you meet people you not only attract physically, but mentally as well!
Yes, it makes a difference. It helps me gauge if the SP is a good fit beyond her looks. It saves me time and energy and decreases the chance for a bad encounter, and I would argue that it is mutually beneficial.
I do not need to have the same opinion on every topic as the SP I am seeing. As long as she is able to convey her point of view in a mature and respectful manner.
It's only my personal opinion, but every post I have seen from you in the different threads have been positive, constructive and well formulated, no matter the topic. I would say that your presence here on the board has had a positive impact. Which definitely isn't the case for every SP. Now if you deterred some potential clients with your writing, maybe that was for the best as it would not have been a good match in person either? You might lose on some revenue, but you are gaining in mental health and well-being.
I would think an SP would like to be understood would like to offer her opinion on how a client could improve many things when they go see them.
They can also improve the over all image of SP and not just be here to improve their business, that they do anyway by advertising as a paid advertiser.
Is it affecting your business, yes for sure we are all human and react to to your comments, but I think that works to your benefit.
I may not agree with some of your comments but that is normal I am sure you don’t agree with many things I post.
It is how you present yourself overall that counts and for you I think it is a definite plus as you come across as a gentle kind hearted young lady who goes out of her way to be nice to everyone, perhaps maybe even too fragile for this industry which I am sure is very demanding emotionally and physically.
When I say "bad" I mean "not a good match for me". It doesn't mean that they are horrible SPs or human beings. The way someone articulates reveals quite a bit about themselves, their world view, how they approach life and general vibe.
There used to be an SP who was quite active on the board for a short time. She was funny (hilarious even) and probably a woman I'd enjoy hanging out to have beers and shots with. But just the way she wrote I could never imagine myself being intimate with her. I am not sure if this makes sense?
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I do partially agree with this. I can tell you are a good and gentle person, and thus there will be people trying to take advantage. Unless it's beneficial for you in any way, I would not reveal things that could be used against you.
I consider this a win! You are filtering those out in DMs instead of having to meet them in person.
Gain attention?
Anyone that posts gains attention be it either negatively or positively. Of course there may be diverging opinions, it's normal and expected since society is not or should not be all the same color.
Advertise services?
That's a very slippery slope and if done outside of proper threads and not following board rules Mods will rapidly pick up and act on that.
In the end it's pretty simple and we often read it ... if we wouldn't say something in person then it probably shouldn't be written here.
Don't worry, you come across as a nice, kind hearted person. All will be just fine.
Honestly, I don't think I'm a good match for anyone who posts even semi regularly here (I'm fat, weird, and old
). I''m here to learn and pass the time, with the added bonus of perving out on pictures of pretty ladies.
Posting here is just a way for me to confirm I exist. I am not hoping this will increase the number of bookings from active members because the active members I’ve seen posting here seem to be more into agencies and massage parlours for financial reasons.
So to me it’s really more of a “if I was AI generated, would I be posting selfies and threads here?”
So to me it’s really more of a “if I was AI generated, would I be posting selfies and threads here?”
I don’t overthink it and I think most people don’t as well ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
This ignorant Neanderthal approach is nothing new and far from being an isolated incident.
It is the perfect example of a Mommy's little boy rubbing his dick off in the basement and thinking he's a big boy that will have all women at his feet. In other words a fkn, low-life idiot.
As @Sylar said it helped you filter out a jackass you don't want nor need.
And I think that is totally fine.
You do not need to cater to the mass market. Especially as an Indie it's up to you to find your own niche and build a brand around that to attract the people who value what you are comfortable offering.
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