Yeah people often notice slackers and wonder what they do when they are supposed to be working lol.
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Funnily enough, I don't have face pics but I really don't care about being outed. My family and friends know what I do, I share lingerie photos (face out) on my real Instagram etc. The only reason I don't show my face is because I'm self conscious (about my looks not my job, lol) and because I don't want yet another thing to have to think about during photoshoots. I can take a photo with a funny/blurry etc face and still use it to advertise if the body looks good.
I'm more worried about someone outing my real identity on merb than I am about someone outing my escort persona to the people who know me in real life. I know my people and I have no shame, but I don't know most merb members or their intentions.
But that is not likely to happen since I don't use my actual legal name anywhere online
I have seen you and I think you are really pretty ❤️
I have seen you... I can't hide what I think, it shows visibly on my face, and as someone who struggles to read peoples faces, even I can tell from the look on my face what I think of you. HOT
We are the most critical of ourselves.
OMG the number of photos that I could have used and enjoyed if I were face-out. The look on my face is the #1 reason I delete almost every photo of myself. I focus so much on how everything else looks, I forget to smile or relax my face, or my eyes look closed, or I realize after I have no makeup on. Often I don't think about makeup, I don't wear it normally.
It makes me self-conscious when I see myself played back on video. I keep seeing all the involuntary facial reactions (grimacing face tick I make when I'm focussed) it kills the mood for me while editing. I tell myself anyone who is going to like my content will just have to accept that's who/how I am.
I relate to what you're all saying. I think both of you are gorgeous honestly. But one of the reasons why I showed my face to begin with is because I felt like my body wasn't enough..I have seen you... I can't hide what I think, it shows visibly on my face, and as someone who struggles to read peoples faces, even I can tell from the look on my face what I think of you. HOT
We are the most critical of ourselves.
OMG the number of photos that I could have used and enjoyed if I were face-out. The look on my face is the #1 reason I delete almost every photo of myself. I focus so much on how everything else looks, I forget to smile or relax my face, or my eyes look closed, or I realize after I have no makeup on. Often I don't think about makeup, I don't wear it normally.
It makes me self-conscious when I see myself played back on video. I keep seeing all the involuntary facial reactions (grimacing face tick I make when I'm focussed) it kills the mood for me while editing. I tell myself anyone who is going to like my content will just have to accept that's who/how I am.
I didn't like my body at the time. But I do feel self conscious about all the pictures I post and I feel overly exposed
I relate to what you're all saying. I think both of you are gorgeous honestly. But one of the reasons why I showed my face to begin with is because I felt like my body wasn't enough..
It's why I share my face too. I can't read eyes, but apparently everyone else can, and sees something that draws them in. Even if I only see a pretty shape.
The number of times I have been told it was my eyes that sold it for them. That my eyes told them everything they needed to know, to want to book me.
I didn't think, and still am not sure, anyone would be interested unless they got to see my face too. I couldn't picture standing out, in the crowd of beautiful escorts, if they didn't see my face too.
Especially since my body was not actually being shown off in a sexual manner from 2002-2022 online. I was simply a mom for those years. Nothing risqué.
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I decided to be face out personally because I didn't feel like having to put up with constant requests of ''showing my real face'' or having people describe what my face looks like in reviews. What you see is what you get. One thing that surprised me tho.. is that a lot of clients mention that they think I am prettier in person and that ''I should smile more'', so no matter what, you will be different in person. In the past, sex workers didn't have to be models and influencers lol .. it wasn't really part of their job. A friend told me that some people would advertise using caricatures of themselves sometimes. Most of the ads just included text descriptions
There would be an add in the Journal de Montreal. You would call the booker and they would say: "Oui, Natasha, une belle rousse de 24 ans, des beaux gros seins naturels, tu seras pas deçu!" It was simply classified ads (lines of text) at the back of the newspaper. Backpages! Tada!
(I'm not that old, but I am 100% sure this is how it went)
I ideas to show my face and I hated that. I am a very private person and I felt way too exposed. Now that it’s starting to be difficult to travel to certain countries as a face out, I’m glad I decided to blur my photos
You are defiantly pretty Julia and apart from that you are an amazingly kind and nice person.
Don’t ever underestimate yourself.
There are very few like you who are so pleasant to be with.
I decided to show my face on impulse because I entered the industry in a rushed and unexpected way. I started seeing clients as an indy pretty fast and the first massage parlour I worked at showed everyone's face. I was told it would help me get clients faster.
At this point there's no going back. I absolutely regret it tho, I won't lie.. but when I retire it won't matter anymore. This journey is part of a very specific chapter in my life, and I've learned a lot of important lessons through it. As an artist I find it crucial to assume who I am and what I went through fully.
At this point there's no going back. I absolutely regret it tho, I won't lie.. but when I retire it won't matter anymore. This journey is part of a very specific chapter in my life, and I've learned a lot of important lessons through it. As an artist I find it crucial to assume who I am and what I went through fully.
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